Following a minor stroke at age 18, she gained a Sony publishing contract and penned hits for the likes of Chris Brown, Dutch X Factor winner Lisa Lois, and Miley Cyrus (the American number two hit "Party in the USA"). After building up an established online presence, she signed to Universal Records and began working with the likes of hitmaker Dr. Luke (Katy Perry, Kelly Clarkson), Atlanta rapper B.o.B, and R&B producer Labrinth on her debut album, Who You Are. In 2010, her first single, "Do It Like a Dude," originally written for Rihanna, reached number 25 in the U.K. charts and, following in the footsteps of Adele, Florence + the Machine, and Ellie Goulding, she was announced as the winner of the Critics Choice Award at the 2011 Brits. That same year, an appearance on Saturday Night Live coincided with her album being reissued in the U.S.
Following a tour that took in the U.K., Ireland, Australia, Malaysia, and her first show in North America, Jessie J became the first U.K. female solo artist to achieve six Top Ten singles from a single studio album. The success of the sixth single, "LaserLight," featuring David Guetta, was aided in no small part by her appearance as judge on the U.K. edition of The Voice. The hit show gave the singer a chance to display her talent for musical coaching, while building a rapport with fans both old and new on prime-time television. Also involved were Tom Jones and will.i.am, with whom Jessie J performed at Queen Elizabeth II's Diamond Jubilee Concert in June 2012, before heading back to the studio to work on the follow-up to Who You Are.
After finishing her second and final season of coaching on The Voice in 2013, J returned with the singles "Wild" and "It's My Party," which preceded her second album, Alive, that September. With a planned U.S.-only version of Alive featuring collaborations with Pharrell Williams eventually put aside, J instead focused on recording new material for what would become her third studio album, Sweet Talker. Including the likes of Diplo, the-Dream, and the aforementioned Pharrell, the album also saw her join forces with De La Soul and 2 Chainz, while Ariana Grande and Nicki Minaj both featured on the lead single, "Bang Bang," which debuted at number one in the U.K. and became a Top Ten hit in the U.S., Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and Bulgaria. Sweet Talker arrived in October 2014, reaching the Top Ten in the U.S. and U.K. Taking a break from music, she joined the cast of judges on television singing competition The Voice Australia. She returned in 2017 with the singles "Real Deal" and "Queen," which later appeared on her fourth LP, R.O.S.E.
You Don
Jessie J Lyrics
Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴ Line by Line Meaning ↴
Wants to scream no
Takes over everyone's stress, uh
And ignores her own
The life and soul of the party
But loves to stay home
She say's she's not broken-hearted
But cries on her own
Playing pretend
I shouldn't hide it
It isn't right
Being a liar
I'm crossing the line
Dancing with fire,
When I'm not fine
Should I deny it?
'Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay,
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain, uh
'Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream, uh
But I'm fighting through a nightmare,
'Cause I'm not really being me, (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) uh
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh)
The girl who starts all the jokes
Just make her laugh,
Preaches the do's and the don'ts
But loves to be bad,
Smiles when they guess who she's loving
What they say makes her mad
She says "I'm fine, I need nothing"
But she hopes for your hand
Playing pretend
I shouldn't hide it
It isn't right
Being a liar
I'm crossing the line
Dancing with fire,
When I'm not fine
Should I deny it?
'Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay,
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain, uh
'Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream, uh
But I'm fighting through a nightmare,
'Cause I'm not really being me, (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) uh
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh)
So, you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) oh no
How can you know me?
You don't really know me,
You don't really know me
'Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay,
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain,
'Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream,
But I'm fighting through a nightmare,
'Cause I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh)
And you don't really know me, (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) ohh
I'm not really being me (not really being me) (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) uh
Not, not, I'm not really being me
Not, not, I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh)
Oh (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh)
You don't really know me
In Jessie J's song "You Don't Really Know Me," she explores the theme of hiding her true self behind a façade. She describes a girl who always says yes, takes on everyone's stress, and ignores her own desires. This girl is the life of the party but secretly longs to stay home. She cries in private, though she says she's not broken-hearted. The girl who starts all the jokes and preaches the do's and don'ts is actually bad and hopes for someone to hold her hand.
Jessie J is essentially saying that she's been performing a role that isn't true to who she really is. She's done pretending to be someone she's not and acknowledging the pain that she's been trying to hide. She's tired of faking happiness and wants people to see her for who she is. She's opening herself up, revealing her vulnerabilities, and asking people to accept her flaws.
In summary, Jessie J's "You Don't Really Know Me" is a song about being true to oneself and not pretending to be someone else. It urges listeners to show empathy and understanding to those around them who may be going through similar struggles.
Line by Line Meaning
The girl who always says yes
She is someone who always agrees to others when they ask for her help.
Wants to scream no
Despite her willingness to help others, she sometimes feels overwhelmed and desires to say no.
Takes over everyone's stress, uh
She carries the burden of other people's stress and worries.
And ignores her own
She puts her own stress and problems on the back burner to help others.
The life and soul of the party
She is the heart of the group, and the one who keeps everyone going.
But loves to stay home
Despite being the center of attention at parties, she actually enjoys the quiet and solitude of being alone at home.
She say's she's not broken-hearted
She claims that everything is fine with her, and that she's not struggling emotionally.
But cries on her own
But in reality, she cries alone, and hides her vulnerability from others.
Playing pretend
She is pretending to be someone she is not.
I shouldn't hide it
She knows she should stop pretending and be true to herself.
It isn't right
She understands that acting against her true self is not healthy.
Being a liar
She knows she is not being truthful with herself and those around her.
I'm crossing the line
She acknowledges that she is going beyond what is acceptable.
Dancing with fire,
She is taking a dangerous and risky course of action.
When I'm not fine
She is aware that she is not in the right frame of mind to make good decisions.
Should I deny it?
She is questioning herself if she should continue denying her true self.
'Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay,
She feels like she is losing control of herself when she is not feeling okay.
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain, uh
She is hiding her true pain and brokenness from others, praying that they won't find out.
'Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream, uh
Even when she is struggling and falling apart, she tries to put on a front that her life is still perfect.
But I'm fighting through a nightmare,
In reality, her life is a nightmare that she's trying to battle every day.
'Cause I'm not really being me, (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) uh
She acknowledges that she's not true to herself.
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh)
Since she's not herself with those around her, they don't know the real her.
The girl who starts all the jokes
She's the one who initiates playful and humorous conversation.
Just make her laugh,
Her happiness comes from making other people happy.
Preaches the do's and the don'ts
She advises others on what they should or should not do.
But loves to be bad,
But in reality, she wants to let loose and be bad herself.
Smiles when they guess who she's loving
She loves the attention of being questioned by others about who she's in love with.
What they say makes her mad
But at times, the attention becomes overwhelming and makes her mad.
She says "I'm fine, I need nothing"
She is echoing that she does not need anyone's help or support.
But she hopes for your hand
Deep down, she hopes for someone to walk beside her through her struggles.
So, you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh)
Anyone who knows her only knows the façade she's put up and not her true self.
How can you know me?
She questions how anyone can truly know her when she's not even sure herself.
'Cause I'm not really being me
She reminds everyone that she is not living her life as the real her.
I'm not really being me (not really being me) (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) uh
She emphasizes that she's not being truthful with herself.
Not, not, I'm not really being me
She underscores this point that she's not living her life authentically.
And you don't really know me, (oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh) ohh
Anyone who thinks they know her only knows the front she's put up.
Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JESSICA CORNISH, LEWIS ALLEN
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
Elvira Octaviani
[Verse 1]
The girl who always says yes wants to scream no
Takes over everyone's stress, ignores her own
The life and soul of the party, but loves to stay home
She says she's not brokenhearted, but cries on her own
[Pre-Chorus]
Playing pretend, I shouldn't hide it
It isn't right, being a liar
I'm crossing the line, dancing with fire
When I'm not fine, should I deny it?
[Chorus]
Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain
Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream
But I'm fighting through a nightmare
Cause I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh)
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh)
[Verse 2]
The girl who starts all the jokes, just make her laugh
Preaches the do's and the dont's, but loves to be bad
Smiles when they guess who she's loving, what they say makes her mad
She says "I'm fine I need nothing", but she hopes for your hand
[Pre-Chorus]
Playing pretend, I shouldn't hide it
It isn't right, being a liar
I'm crossing the line, dancing with fire
When I'm not fine, should I deny it?
[Chorus]
Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain
Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream
But I'm fighting through a nightmare
Cause I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh)
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh)
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh)
How can you know me
You don't really know me
You don't really know me
[Chorus + Outro]
Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain
Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream
But I'm fighting through a nightmare
Cause I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh) ha ha
And you don't really know me, oh no (oh oh oh oh oh)
I'm not really being me
Not really being me
Not really being me
Not, not, not, not really being me
Not, not, not, not really being me
Not really being me
Oh (oh oh oh oh oh)
You don't really know me
Corrin Cameron
This song is my life, it tells my story, it touches my heart. All I can do is take it day by day and try not to fall apart.
Aleksandar Ivanov
you need to tell somebody, because it's really harmful to keep it in, trust me :)
Corrin Cameron
I understand, I appreciate it π
Andrea Reid Mclarty
Its a great song that we all can relate to .I hope that you're in a better state of mind now.
Zsolt Nemeth
don't be afraid to get to know your heart. it has needs and it needs you. your heartbeat is alive, god sees your light from above. you are not alone. (secret word all one.) we are in this together. and every flower is beautiful and changing every minute. shine ,breath, grow and allow yourself to love the girl who you really are, the mirror sometimes can lie, but your heart doesn't.
Elvira Octaviani
[Verse 1]
The girl who always says yes wants to scream no
Takes over everyone's stress, ignores her own
The life and soul of the party, but loves to stay home
She says she's not brokenhearted, but cries on her own
[Pre-Chorus]
Playing pretend, I shouldn't hide it
It isn't right, being a liar
I'm crossing the line, dancing with fire
When I'm not fine, should I deny it?
[Chorus]
Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain
Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream
But I'm fighting through a nightmare
Cause I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh)
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh)
[Verse 2]
The girl who starts all the jokes, just make her laugh
Preaches the do's and the dont's, but loves to be bad
Smiles when they guess who she's loving, what they say makes her mad
She says "I'm fine I need nothing", but she hopes for your hand
[Pre-Chorus]
Playing pretend, I shouldn't hide it
It isn't right, being a liar
I'm crossing the line, dancing with fire
When I'm not fine, should I deny it?
[Chorus]
Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain
Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream
But I'm fighting through a nightmare
Cause I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh)
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh)
So you don't really know me (oh oh oh oh oh)
How can you know me
You don't really know me
You don't really know me
[Chorus + Outro]
Cause I'm going crazy when I'm not okay
I keep praying that the cracks don't show my pain
Cause even when I'm falling, I say my life is like a dream
But I'm fighting through a nightmare
Cause I'm not really being me (oh oh oh oh oh) ha ha
And you don't really know me, oh no (oh oh oh oh oh)
I'm not really being me
Not really being me
Not really being me
Not, not, not, not really being me
Not, not, not, not really being me
Not really being me
Oh (oh oh oh oh oh)
You don't really know me
Maria Ramos
This song is soooo deep. And many girls feel this way. Its nice to know Β that your not alone. #TeamJessie
Jakub Chrzanowski
And boys.. :)
Oreo_Cookie
I can relate to this song and it reminds me to be me even when I think I'm falling and that I can battle through everything I just have to believe in myself..
Jessica is such an inspiration to a lot of girl and guys lives x
ΞλΡξια NΟαλλαΟ
her voice... just an inspiration.... <3