His music initially gained popularity on New York City's famous mixtape circuit in 2002. Although his biggest mainstream hit to-date is 2003's up-tempo "Pump It Up," Budden is known for his reflective and often insecure lyrics. He is widely considered one of hip-hop's most gifted lyricists, thanks largely in part to his numerous works on mixtapes by such DJ's as DJ Clue, Clinton Sparks, DJ On Point, and DJ Envy.
On one particular mixtape song, called "Crosscountry Connection", Joe started a feud with the G-Unit camp. The Game took offense to a line where Joe claims that gangsta rappers should "be in a G-Unit video with all the gangsta actors", obviously claiming G-Unit are fake gangstas. Unbeknownst to Budden, The Game had just recently signed with the G-Unit camp. The Game and G-Unit fired a few diss songs Budden's way; he replied in kind. The feud was ended when The Game and Budden met in a club in New York City and put the past aside.
During winter and spring of 2005, through Joe Budden mixtapes and hip-hop rumor mills, it was said that he departed from Def Jam to Roc-A-Fella Records with CEO Damon Dash. In reality, Budden was legally obligated to stay with Def Jam. In the beginning of Budden's career, it took him a long time to get public exposure, working more than three years from the first time his demo tapes were heard to the first time he was on the radio. He has appeared on many tracks with other artists including 112, Amerie, Brandy, Cassidy, Fabolous, Fat Joe, Freeway, Janet Jackson, Jay-Z, Jennifer Lopez, Jin, Kelly Rowland, Lil' Kim, LL Cool J, Marques Houston, Usher, and more recently a remix to the hit song "Hollaback Girl" with Gwen Stefani. Some of these were not official remixes, simply mixtape tracks where a Joe Budden verse was added to an existing song.
Though he is thought of as one of rap's most skilled lyricists, Budden's success outside of the mixtape circuit has been marginal purposely. He is known to have invested in real estate in North Jersey and instead of blowing up into the rap scene he decided to make money from other methods instead of getting a record deal. His music is usually more sensitive and thought provoking than that of gangsta rappers, but subsequently, it is also more explicit and unrelenting than most "conscious" or "backpack" rappers.
In late December of 2005, Joe released a mixtape after almost 5 months of being absent from the game. Mood Muzik 2 is considered by most to be a lyrical masterpiece and with so deep tracks such as "Dumb Out" and the emotional "3 Sides to a Story" (in which Joe harrowingly describes a disturbing situation), many wondered had these songs originally been scheduled to appear on The Growth.
In 2007, he was released by Def Jam. In December 2007, he released Mood Muzik 3, which many are calling the best mixtape of the year, with some even saying it's the album of the year since it contains all original material. Some have questioned this since the beat for 'Ventilation' is an edit of 'It's A Shame (Da Butcher's Mix)' by Kool G Rap.
In October 2008, Joe Budden released another highly-rated mixtape, Halfway House; featuring album cuts such as 'Touch & Go' and a snippet of 'Blood On The Wall', a diss to Prodigy of Mobb Deep.
In his career up to his 2nd album, he has worked with artists such as Busta Rhymes and Christina Milian, and has been involved in feuds with rapper The Game and G-Unit. He has since reconciled with The Game.
Since this reconciliation, Joe Budden signed to Amalgam Digital records, and both artists finalized the beef and have collaborated on the single 'The Future' for Joe Budden's now-released 2nd album, Padded Room. The album released February 24th in the U.S. and March 3rd in Canada.
Only Girl
Joe Budden Lyrics
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Matter fact Jerz is Back
Listen, it′s regular Joe partner, rap is so popular
Swear we gotta be the highest rated soap opera
Nowadays it ain't about whoever flow hotter
It′s about gimmick, image and whoever gross dollars
While I try to be me. Just a man with issues
'Cause ya'll fall for it. Y′all niggas believe ′em
Gotta learn how to read 'em. Gotta learn how to weed ′em
If somebody promoting gangsta, dude's reaching
′Cause gangstas and promoters are like two different regions
I'm so tired of beefing
Shit′ll only end in another man leaking and another man Bleeding
Especially the rap beef. I hate rap beef
Half these cats ain't real. They only rap beef
Half these cats should chill. That's if you ask me
′Cause if you catch ′em with the mill then it's a track meet
Plus I feel like every beef is the same
Now I′m caught in it beefing with Game
And his image is the 'West coast Savior′ Must of been the only weapon in Hand
I know Pac is in Heaven like "damn"
But that's a small problem. Real little in fact
Fab Chill. Wouldn′t put you in the middle of that
I don't need a nigga help. Nah niggas is trash
Five on one. But it ain't like one of them niggas can rap
And I got other shit to deal with like my little bro becoming a man
Gotta watch what he′s becoming. He′s fam
Don't know if he at the age where there′s a gun in his hand
'Cause he′ll be done in a can. See, He's young. Understand
Little niggas too smart to end up in a building
But every nigga that I know that′s in jail is brilliant
And they all got a story. Normally full of glory
A few missteps, and a couple of regrets
They all tight in the mental with credentials. After all the shit they been through
Matter of fact. They all got potential
Matter of fact. We all got potential. Some of us don't use it
So having it is useless
He don't wanna be a ′Shoulda" "Coulda" "Woulda"
But he didn′t. Now he sent in. Bunkie asking how he get in
Now he Just it. Now he pissed in
He got loved ones but now we gotta visit 'em
Yeah, he′s talented. But now its all hindering
Shit you would of gave to 'em. Now you gotta send it in
Whatever you doing youngin′. Dawg, it ain't fine
Without a breathalizer, nigga, walk a straight line
I gotta teach dude that friends ain′t friends
And love ain't love. No matter how heart shaped it is
You don't need friends the cars and cake′ll get
You need ′em when times are hard. They adjascent with
That ain't where you wanna be. And shouldn′t have to
Wasn't in the before flick. Shouldn′t be in the after
Only trying to fuck you like incest
While you search like credit cards. For who got your best interest?
And I don't wanna talk your ear off about a whole bunch of shit I′m still learning myself
Play your friends from far. And keep your enemies close
'Cause I done been through enough for us both
Play your friends from far. And keep your enemies close
'Cause I done been through enough for us both
Play your friends from far. And keep your enemies close
′Cause I done been through enough for us both
In the song "Only Girl" by Joe Budden, the lyrics describe the current state of the rap industry and how it has shifted away from talent and skill to gimmicks and image. The singer declares that he tries to remain true to himself and his personal struggles, unlike many other artists who promote "gangsta" behavior for the sake of their image. He expresses his exhaustion with beefs and the damage they cause, especially in rap, where he believes many "real" gangsters are portrayed as "fake" for the sake of promoting their image.
The singer then reflects on the potential of young people, acknowledging that many incarcerated individuals are talented and have potential. He laments their situation and encourages the listener to stay focused and avoid ending up in a similar situation. He emphasizes the importance of true friendship and caution against those who do not have one's best interests at heart.
Overall, the song calls for authenticity and staying true to oneself, while also recognizing the pitfalls of the music industry and the importance of friendship.
Line by Line Meaning
Still got Jerz on his Back
Joe Budden is still representing New Jersey through his music and persona
Matter fact Jerz is Back
New Jersey is still relevant and making a comeback in the music industry
Listen, it′s regular Joe partner, rap is so popular
Joe Budden is just a regular person but recognizes that rap music is very popular
Swear we gotta be the highest rated soap opera
Joe Budden sees the rap industry as a form of entertainment, likening it to a drama-filled soap opera
Nowadays it ain't about whoever flow hotter
Rap music is not solely about who has the best rapping skills anymore
It′s about gimmick, image and whoever gross dollars
Instead, it's largely about having a unique image and making a lot of money through it
While I try to be me. Just a man with issues
Joe Budden strives to be true to himself and acknowledges that he has flaws and problems
They even complained then. Some fans is so fickle
Despite trying to be authentic, some fans are still fickle and complain about his music
'Cause ya'll fall for it. Y′all niggas believe ′em
Joe Budden believes that people fall for fake personas and gimmicks in the rap industry
Gotta learn how to read 'em. Gotta learn how to weed ′em
He advises people to become more discerning and weed out those who are fake
If somebody promoting gangsta, dude's reaching
Joe Budden feels that people who promote a gangsta image are likely being disingenuous
′Cause gangstas and promoters are like two different regions
He sees the gangsta persona and the promotion of it as two separate things
I'm so tired of beefing
Joe Budden is exhausted with engaging in rap beefs and conflicts
Shit'll only end in another man leaking and another man Bleeding
He recognizes that rap beefs can be dangerous and violent
Especially the rap beef. I hate rap beef
Joe Budden hates the idea of rap beef and sees it as unnecessary drama
Half these cats ain't real. They only rap beef
He believes that many people engage in rap beefs just for show and not because they are genuinely angry or offended
Half these cats should chill. That's if you ask me
Joe Budden thinks that many rappers should just relax and focus on making good music
′Cause if you catch ′em with the mill then it's a track meet
He warns that violent conflicts can escalate quickly and have serious consequences, even leading to a shootout
Plus I feel like every beef is the same
Joe Budden believes that rap beefs are all repetitive and lack originality
Now I′m caught in it beefing with Game
He finds himself embroiled in a rap beef with rapper The Game
And his image is the 'West coast Savior′ Must of been the only weapon in Hand
Joe Budden is commenting on The Game's image as a savior figure for the West Coast rap scene, but insinuates that it's a carefully crafted façade
I know Pac is in Heaven like 'damn'
He believes that the late rapper Tupac Shakur would be disappointed to see the state of rap beefs today
But that's a small problem. Real little in fact
Joe Budden sees the issue of rap beefs as insignificant compared to the larger problems in the world
Fab Chill. Wouldn′t put you in the middle of that
He tells fellow rapper Fabolous to stay out of the beef between Joe Budden and The Game
I don't need a nigga help. Nah niggas is trash
Joe Budden believes that he doesn't need anyone else's help in dealing with his problems because he sees others as inferior
Five on one. But it ain't like one of them niggas can rap
He believes that the people he is beefing with are not skilled rappers
And I got other shit to deal with like my little bro becoming a man
Joe Budden has other priorities in his life, such as helping his younger brother mature and grow
Gotta watch what he′s becoming. He′s fam
He feels a responsibility to be a good role model for his younger brother because they are family
Don't know if he at the age where there′s a gun in his hand
Joe Budden is worried that his younger brother may be at an age where he is tempted to involve himself in violence or illegal activity
'Cause he′ll be done in a can. See, He's young. Understand
He knows that his brother's actions could have serious consequences, given his young age and lack of life experience
Little niggas too smart to end up in a building
Joe Budden believes that young people are often smarter than we give them credit for and that they can avoid getting involved in dangerous situations
But every nigga that I know that′s in jail is brilliant
He recognizes that people who end up in jail can still be intelligent and talented
And they all got a story. Normally full of glory
Joe Budden sees the experiences of people who have been to jail as often being dramatic and fraught with struggle
A few missteps, and a couple of regrets
He recognizes that many people make mistakes in life and have regrets about their past actions
They all tight in the mental with credentials. After all the shit they been through
Despite their struggles, he believes that many people who have been to jail are still intelligent and have valuable life experiences
Matter of fact. They all got potential
Joe Budden sees the potential for success and greatness in everyone, regardless of past mistakes
Matter of fact. We all got potential. Some of us don't use it
He believes that everyone has potential, but not everyone fulfills it
So having it is useless
He sees the potential for success as meaningless if it isn't acted upon
He don't wanna be a ′Shoulda' 'Coulda' 'Woulda'
Joe Budden wants to avoid regretting missed opportunities or feeling like he could have done more in the past
But he didn′t. Now he sent in. Bunkie asking how he get in
He recognizes that sometimes people make decisions that lead to negative consequences, such as going to jail and having to answer to other inmates
Now he Just it. Now he pissed in
He acknowledges that being in jail can be frustrating and demoralizing
He got loved ones but now we gotta visit 'em
He sees the negative impact that being in jail can have on relationships and family ties
Yeah, he′s talented. But now its all hindering
He recognizes that someone's past mistakes or current situation can hold them back from realizing their full potential
Shit you would of gave to 'em. Now you gotta send it in
He sees the irony in wanting to support someone financially or emotionally but being unable to because of their incarceration
Whatever you doing youngin′. Dawg, it ain't fine
Joe Budden warns the younger generation that some of the things they do and say are not okay or acceptable
Without a breathalizer, nigga, walk a straight line
He advises people to avoid engaging in illegal or dangerous activities, comparing it to a sobriety test
I gotta teach dude that friends ain′t friends
He recognizes that there may be people posing as friends who are actually using you or working against you
And love ain't love. No matter how heart shaped it is
He believes that some people use the guise of love to manipulate or deceive others
You don't need friends the cars and cake′ll get
He warns against valuing material possessions or superficial relationships over genuine friendships
You need ′em when times are hard. They adjascent with
Joe Budden believes that true friends are those who are there for you when times are tough, not just when things are going well
That ain't where you wanna be. And shouldn′t have to
He advises people to avoid getting into situations where they need to rely on others for support, and to strive for self-sufficiency
Wasn't in the before flick. Shouldn′t be in the after
He believes that some people only come into your life for a short time and that it's okay to let them go when they're no longer beneficial or positive influences
Only trying to fuck you like incest
He sees some people as only being interested in exploiting or using others for their own gain, comparing it to incest
While you search like credit cards. For who got your best interest?
Joe Budden urges people to be careful about who they trust and to find people who genuinely care about their well-being
And I don't wanna talk your ear off about a whole bunch of shit I′m still learning myself
He recognizes that he's still learning about life and doesn't want to sound like he has all the answers
Play your friends from far. And keep your enemies close
He advises people to maintain a distance from those who may not have their best interests at heart, while still being aware of them
'Cause I done been through enough for us both
Joe Budden has experienced enough hardships and struggles in his life that he feels he can offer advice to others
Play your friends from far. And keep your enemies close
He advises people to maintain a distance from those who may not have their best interests at heart, while still being aware of them
′Cause I done been through enough for us both
Joe Budden has experienced enough hardships and struggles in his life that he feels he can offer advice to others
Writer(s): Sultan Haneef Banks
Contributed by Isaiah T. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
@BIG_HOMIE_
classic. Joe killed it!
@taysoprano-fw8hv
got me thru hard times
@yasind5517
this is what early drake was trying to sound like
@yaboyprime614
joey did his thang
@ACE330
@porky289 Ive been trying to find out the same thing everytime i hear this sample its a dope song about some real shit. Ive heard Joe, Ortiz, and Grafh use a beat with this sample
@TAYLORDURDEN609
always does...
@BIG_HOMIE_
the beat is "Jay-Z - Allure (Just Blaze Remix)" just search for the just blaze allure remix instrumental on youtube and you find it ;)