Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest World
Joe Cocker Lyrics


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What have I got to do to make you love me
What have I got to do to make you care
What do I do when lightning strikes me
And I wake to find that you're not there

What do I do to make you want me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I say when it's all over
And sorry seems to be the hardest word

It's sad, so sad
It's a sad, sad situation
And it's getting more and more absurd
It's sad, so sad
Why can't we talk it over
Oh it seems to me
That sorry seems to be the hardest word

What do I do to make you love me
What have I got to do to be heard
What do I do when lightning strikes me
What have I got to do




What have I got to do
When sorry seems to be the hardest word

Overall Meaning

The song "Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word" by Joe Cocker is a poignant ballad that speaks to the singer's desire for reconciliation with an estranged lover. The singer is at a loss about how to regain the affection of someone who he has hurt in some way. He wonders what he has to do to make them love him and care about him again. He laments the emptiness he feels when he wakes up to find that they are no longer there. The singer is so desperate for their attention that he questions what he has to do to be heard. He acknowledges that he has made a mistake and that he is sorry, but he finds it difficult to express his contrition. He notes that it's getting more and more absurd that they remain distant. The singer highlights that there is a communication breakdown between them, and he wishes that they could talk it over. However, he concludes that sorry seems to be the hardest word.


The song's lyrics express a universal theme that feelings of guilt can be challenging to express, and often the apology alone cannot undo the wrong that has been committed. The singer, who is trying to make amends, is struggling to convey the extent of his remorse. The track's theme of miscommunication is prevalent in many relationships and is expressed through the lyrics "Why can't we talk it over?" The answer to this question may be that communication is not easy, especially when hurt feelings are involved. The song speaks to the idea that it can be challenging to acknowledge one's failings and to take responsibility for the harm that has been done. Therefore, saying sorry can be the hardest thing to say.


Line by Line Meaning

What have I got to do to make you love me
I am wondering what actions I need to take to gain your affection and admiration


What have I got to do to make you care
I am questioning what I must do to make you concerned about my feelings and well-being


What do I do when lightning strikes me
I am unsure how to cope when an unexpected event causes great distress or pain


And I wake to find that you're not there
I am disappointed to realize that you are absent and unable to offer support during difficult times


What do I do to make you want me
I am curious about what I must do to make you desire a close relationship with me


What have I got to do to be heard
I am asking what steps I need to take to have my voice and opinions acknowledged and respected


What do I say when it's all over
I am wondering what words are appropriate to express my feelings when a relationship has ended


And sorry seems to be the hardest word
I find it difficult to apologize because it requires admitting fault and weakness


It's sad, so sad
This situation is causing me great emotional pain and sorrow


It's a sad, sad situation
The current circumstances are very unfortunate and disheartening


And it's getting more and more absurd
The situation is becoming increasingly ridiculous and irrational


Why can't we talk it over
I am questioning why we cannot have a conversation to address and resolve our issues


Oh it seems to me
From my perspective, it appears that


That sorry seems to be the hardest word
Apologizing and admitting fault is a difficult and uncomfortable process


What do I do to make you love me
I am still searching for a way to win your affection and admiration


What have I got to do to be heard
I continue to question what actions I must take to have my opinions and feelings acknowledged


What do I do when lightning strikes me
I am still uncertain how to cope when unexpected hardship comes my way


What have I got to do
I need guidance and direction on how to improve our relationship


What have I got to do
I need help and support in making positive changes to our relationship


When sorry seems to be the hardest word
I am struggling to apologize and take responsibility for my part in our difficulties




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BERNIE TAUPIN, ELTON JOHN

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Я думал, что перепеть эту классику жанра не дано никому... Но Джо...
Он сделал невероятное, невозможное..Каждый день я с волнением, слушаю это и каждый раз не могу не восхищаться...
Это не объяснить и не передать...Буря, ураган, смерч эмоций, жестикуляция, этот завораживающий голос..
И конечно саксафон...
Только бы за одну эту песню Джо достоин увековечивания в анналах
Рок музыки. Покойся с миром великий, неповторимый, обожаемый миллионами но простой ковбой Джо Коккер.
Ты не напрасно прожил свою жизнь.

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Да, Почему-то вспомнились кривляния Лепса..

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