When I'm Gone
Joey Rory Lyrics


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A bright sunrise will contradict the heavy fog that weighs you down
In spite of all the funeral songs
The birds will make their joyful sounds

You'll wonder why the earth still moves
You'll wonder how you'll carry on
But you'll be okay on that first day when I'm gone
Dusk will come with fireflies and whippoorwill and cricket's call
And every star will take its place
In silvery gown and purple shawl

You'll lie down in our big bed
Dread the dark and dread the dawn
But you'll be alright on that first night when I'm gone

You will reach for me in vain
You'll be whispering my name
As if sorrow were your friend
And this world so alien

But life will call with daffodils
And morning glorious blue skies
You'll think of me some memory
And softly smile to your surprise

And even though you love me still
You will know where you belong




Just give it time, we'll both be fine
When I'm gone

Overall Meaning

Joey + Rory's song, "When I'm Gone," is about coming to terms with death and the grief that often comes with it. In the first stanza, the lyrics "A bright sunrise will contradict the heavy fog that weighs you down/In spite of all the funeral songs/The birds will make their joyful sounds" suggest that life will continue as usual, even though someone has passed away. The singer urges their loved one to soldier on, saying that they will be okay on the first day after their death.


In the second stanza, the song describes the peacefulness of nightfall, with fireflies, crickets, and stars. The lyrics "You'll lie down in our big bed/Dread the dark and dread the dawn/But you'll be alright on that first night when I'm gone" continue to encourage the listener that they will get through this difficult time. In the third stanza, the song acknowledges the pain of grief and the difficulty of moving on. The line "You'll be whispering my name/As if sorrow were your friend/And this world so alien" captures the sense of loss and disorientation that comes with losing a loved one.


Finally, the song ends on an optimistic note, suggesting that time will heal all wounds. The line "And even though you love me still/You will know where you belong/Just give it time, we'll both be fine/When I'm gone" suggests that even though the singer is gone, their love will endure and life will eventually go on.


Line by Line Meaning

A bright sunrise will contradict the heavy fog that weighs you down
Even though you may feel weighed down with sadness and grief, life goes on and there will be happy moments to come


In spite of all the funeral songs
Despite the sadness of this moment, life continues after a loved one has passed away


The birds will make their joyful sounds
There will still be moments of joy in life after a loved one has passed away


You'll wonder why the earth still moves
The loss of a loved one can make it feel like life should stop, but it continues without them


You'll wonder how you'll carry on
It can be difficult to imagine life without a loved one, but somehow, you will find a way to keep going


But you'll be okay on that first day when I'm gone
Despite the pain and sorrow of your loss, you will eventually find a way to be okay


Dusk will come with fireflies and whippoorwill and cricket's call
Nature continues on, even after a loss, and may bring comfort in its beauty


And every star will take its place
The night sky remains unchanged, a reminder that the world goes on despite our grief


In silvery gown and purple shawl
The stars shine brightly in the night sky, beautiful even in the midst of sorrow


You'll lie down in our big bed
The loss of a loved one can make everyday moments feel lonely and empty


Dread the dark and dread the dawn
The thought of facing another day without your loved one can be overwhelming


But you'll be alright on that first night when I'm gone
The first night without a loved one can be difficult, but with time, you will learn to cope


You will reach for me in vain
Even though your loved one is gone, the impulse to reach out to them remains


You'll be whispering my name
Thoughts of your loved one may bring you comfort, even though they are no longer with you


As if sorrow were your friend
Grief may feel like a constant companion, always with you as you navigate life without your loved one


And this world so alien
After the loss of a loved one, the world can feel unfamiliar and strange


But life will call with daffodils
Despite the pain, life goes on, and there are still beautiful moments to experience


And morning glorious blue skies
The beauty of nature can serve as a reminder that life contains both sorrow and joy


You'll think of me some memory
Memories of your loved one may bring pain, but can also be a source of comfort and connection


And softly smile to your surprise
Even though you may be facing immense pain, moments of joy can still find their way into your heart


And even though you love me still
The love you had for your loved one will always be a part of you, even after they are gone


You will know where you belong
As time passes, you will find new ways to connect with life and feel a sense of belonging


Just give it time, we'll both be fine
Healing from a painful loss takes time, but eventually, you can find a way to live with your grief




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SANDRA EMORY LAWRENCE

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@carlaanderson4527

I am dying with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. I have been married to a beautiful man for 43 years. Thank you my love for your love. Most of all thank you Jesus for your precious and priceless gift of salvation. For thriugh him the veil tore between God and man to be able to have everlasting life with himm. It was love that kept him on the cross until the work was finished. He rose again in 3 days conquering sin and death. If anyone reading this does not know Christ as your saviour, please put your faith in him and the precious gift he gave to mankind. I love you Jesus

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I wish you well Carla. My prayers to you and yours.

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I don't know what to say, love to you, pray you don't suffer, love you.

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And my husband was together 43 years. Prayers for you.

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Right now my wife is i a nursing home with MS and dementia. I haven't been able to see her since late March. I don't know what I will do if she goes first. This is a women who took in and loved a broken and angry Vietnam veteran and turned him into a devoted, loving husband and father. I just hope I go first as I am 8;years older than her and at 75 cannot imagine living without her.

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i’m praying for you

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Praying for you.

@bambiwilson5811

My husband said this to He is a 100% disabled Vietnam vet to with Parkinson's & dementia Thanks for serving our country and God bless you & your wife Sending prayers your way

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@@mdflefon6152 yes prayers for you that you will see her soon ..God bless you and her

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