Crying In The Chapel
John A. Walker Lyrics


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(Jimmy Alan Stewart/Chuck Cannon)

He's in a bar, and she's in the bedroom crying
He thinks he'll drown all the hurt that he's feeling inside
A river of tears is washing away her every reason for trying
And the distance between them is silence, anger and pride

They don't talk to each other
They're no longer lovers
They won't even say the three words that could keep love from dying
She needs a shoulder, he needs to hold her
But he's in a bar, and she's in the bedroom crying

He tells the bartender his problems and thanks him for listening
Then he orders more whiskey to have something warm he can hold
She picks up the phone, and calls up a friend,
And says she wishes she knew what was missing
Both of them ask the wrong people why their love's growing cold

They don't talk to each other
They're no longer lovers
They won't even say the three words
That could keep love from dying
She needs a shoulder, he needs to hold her
But he's in a bar, and she's in the bedroom crying





He's in a bar, and she's in the bedroom crying

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of John A. Walker's song "Crying In The Chapel" portray a sad scenario of two people who are in love but have drifted apart. The song tells a story of a man who is drowning his sorrows in a bar while his partner is at home crying. The couple is going through a rough patch in their relationship, and they cannot seem to communicate with each other. The hurt and pain they feel towards one another make them keep silent and avoid saying the three words that could save their relationship from dying.


The distance between the couple is not only physical, but it is also emotional. The silence, anger, and pride that define their relationship paint a picture of a couple whose love is fading away. The man seeks solace in alcohol, and the woman tries to reach out to friends. However, their attempts to find comfort, love, and support from other people show that they have lost faith in each other. The last line of the song, "He's in a bar, and she's in the bedroom crying," sums up the heartbreaking situation that the couple finds themselves in.


Line by Line Meaning

He's in a bar, and she's in the bedroom crying
He is drowning his sorrows in alcohol, while she is overwhelmed by sadness.


He thinks he'll drown all the hurt that he's feeling inside
He believes alcohol will ease his emotional pain.


A river of tears is washing away her every reason for trying
She is experiencing an uncontrollable flood of tears, causing her to question her motivation to continue the relationship.


And the distance between them is silence, anger and pride
They are emotionally disconnected, with their communication broken down due to anger and pride.


They don't talk to each other
They have stopped communicating with each other.


They're no longer lovers
Their relationship has lost its romantic spark.


They won't even say the three words that could keep love from dying
They are unable to express their love for each other, which could save their relationship.


She needs a shoulder, he needs to hold her
They both need each other for emotional support.


He tells the bartender his problems and thanks him for listening
He confides in the bartender about his issues, and expresses gratitude for someone to talk to.


Then he orders more whiskey to have something warm he can hold
He attempts to find comfort by holding his drink.


She picks up the phone, and calls up a friend, And says she wishes she knew what was missing
She reaches out to a friend for support, and expresses her confusion about the issues in her relationship.


Both of them ask the wrong people why their love's growing cold
They confide in people who cannot provide the answers they are seeking.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: CHUCK CANNON, JIMMY ALAN STEWART

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