Ruin My Day
Jon Brion Lyrics


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I know it's today so I guess you could say one recovers
Thought you should call me but then after all we were lovers
I don't wait by the phone like I used to
I don't hope for kind words you might say
You don't prey on my mind like you used to
But you can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day
You're telling me now you regret how we never connected
Oh as if you forget that it's me you regret you rejected
I don't easily forgive like I used to
And I seldom get carried away
No you don't have the pull that you used to
But you can still ruin my day
Oh you can still ruin my day

Love, it was nothing
It hardly hurt a bit

Sounds good to me but unfortunately I remember it
Now I don't lose my place like I used to
I'm not moved by your ? display
No you can't draw me in like you used to
But you can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day





You can still ruin my day
I said you can still ruin my day

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jon Brion's song "Ruin My Day" tell the story of a past lover who is trying to reconnect with the singer after some time has passed. The singer reflects on how that person once had a hold on them and how things have changed since then. While they no longer wait by the phone for calls or hope for kind words, and they no longer lose their place or get carried away, this person can still have the power to ruin their day. The singer acknowledges that they seldom get carried away and don't fall for the person's displays as they used to. However, the emotional pull is still there, and they struggle to shake off the hold the person once had on them.


The song captures the sentiments and emotions of anyone who has ever been in a situation where they thought they had moved on from a past love but is still vulnerable to their impact. The lyrics suggest that while the grip of the past love may have lessened over time, any sign of interest or regret from the past love still has the power to impact the present. Jon Brion's "Ruin My Day" is a poignant reminder of how all-consuming love can be and how the emotions associated with a past relationship do not always fade easily.


Line by Line Meaning

I know it's today so I guess you could say one recovers
I acknowledge that it's the present and therefore healing takes place


Thought you should call me but then after all we were lovers
I initially anticipated a phone call from you owing to our romantic history


I don't wait by the phone like I used to
I no longer anticipate communications from you in the same manner as previously


I don't hope for kind words you might say
I have no expectations of receiving desirable responses from you


You don't prey on my mind like you used to
You no longer consume my thoughts like you did before


But you can still ruin my day
However, you still possess the power to negatively influence my current mood


You're telling me now you regret how we never connected
You're informing me at present that you regret our failure to establish a connection


Oh as if you forget that it's me you regret you rejected
Oh, acting as though you've forgotten that it's me who you regret declining


I don't easily forgive like I used to
I'm unwilling to forgive as readily as I once did


And I seldom get carried away
I'm infrequently inclined to indulge in excessive emotional reactions


No you don't have the pull that you used to
The attraction I once had towards you no longer holds its former weight


But you can still ruin my day
Although weakened, you still have the ability to negatively impact my current state


Love, it was nothing
In retrospect, our romantic entanglement bears no significance


It hardly hurt a bit
In fact, it did not inflict much emotional pain on either party


Sounds good to me but unfortunately I remember it
The notion of our insignificance seems plausible, but regrettably, I cannot forget the experience


Now I don't lose my place like I used to
I no longer become disoriented like previously


I'm not moved by your display
Your actions and behavior no longer provoke me


No you can't draw me in like you used to
Your charm and attraction no longer elicit the same response


But you can still ruin my day
However, you still have the power to spoil my current state of mind


You can still ruin my day
I explicitly state again that you can impact my emotional state negatively




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JON BRION, JEFF MCGREGOR

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Pierre S

I know it's today so I guess you could say one recovers
It's odd you should call me but then after all we were lovers
I don't wait by the phone like I used to
I don't hope for kind words you might say
You don't prey on my mind like you used to
But you can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day

You're telling me now you regret how we never connected
Oh as if you forget that it's me you regret you rejected
I don't easily forgive like I used to
And I seldom get carried away
No you don't have the pull that you used to
But you can still ruin my day
Oh you can still ruin my day

Love, it was nothing
It hardly hurt a bit

Sounds good to me but unfortunately I remember it
Now I don't lose my place like I used to
I'm not moved by your artful display
No you can't draw me in like you used to
But you can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day



All comments from YouTube:

The Breaks Inc.

Every now and then you come across a song you never heard before, and you hate yourself for not discovering it earlier in your life. This is one of those songs. Outstanding. I saw a video with Jon talking about Elliott, and this song was in the background. Someone in the comments was nice enough to identify it. Brilliant.

T Lightning

3:10 the way everything takes off in this moment is amazing, its like when ur @ the park and u see the leaves get swirled up like a tornado hahaha. jon brion kills shit

Jess Hart

Saw him open for Harvey Danger a decade back. Even with a wicked cold he was just amazing, playing all the instruments and looping them before launching into vox and lead guitar, slaying the audience.

Pierre S

I know it's today so I guess you could say one recovers
It's odd you should call me but then after all we were lovers
I don't wait by the phone like I used to
I don't hope for kind words you might say
You don't prey on my mind like you used to
But you can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day

You're telling me now you regret how we never connected
Oh as if you forget that it's me you regret you rejected
I don't easily forgive like I used to
And I seldom get carried away
No you don't have the pull that you used to
But you can still ruin my day
Oh you can still ruin my day

Love, it was nothing
It hardly hurt a bit

Sounds good to me but unfortunately I remember it
Now I don't lose my place like I used to
I'm not moved by your artful display
No you can't draw me in like you used to
But you can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day
You can still ruin my day

D P

Pedro SP thanks for the lyrics

Todd Michael Johnson

Best song on the album.

bitukukuasukgremany3

My ex-wife said I couldn't see my daughter on Fathers Day and always ruins my visits..she has voices in her head for sure..

Sam O'd

If he and Elliott kept their alliance going I believe they'd have been better than John and Paul

SithSpit Danikan

I sing this song to the sneezes i need to belt out that never make it through.

theZeek

Damn near perfect.

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