People's Parties
Joni Mitchell Lyrics


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All the people at this party
They've got a lot of style
They've got stamps of many countries
They've got passport smiles
Some are friendly
Some are cutting
Some are watching it from the wings
Some are standing in the centre
Giving to get something

Photo Beauty gets attention
Then her eye paint's running down
She's got a rose in her teeth
And a lampshade crown
One minute she's so happy
Then she's crying on someone's knee
Saying, laughing and crying
You know it's the same release

I told you when I met you
I was crazy
Cry for us all, Beauty
Cry for Eddie in the corner
Thinking he's nobody
And Jack behind his joker
And stone-cold Grace behind her fan
And me in my frightened silence
Thinking I don't understand

I feel like I'm sleeping
Can you wake me?
You seem to have a broader sensibility
I'm just living on nerves and feelings
With a weak and a lazy mind
And coming to people's parties
Fumbling deaf dumb and blind

I wish I had more sense of humor
Keeping the sadness at bay
Throwing the lightness on these things
Laughing it all away




Laughing it all away
Laughing it all away

Overall Meaning

Joni Mitchell's song "People's Parties" is an introspective observation about social gatherings and the many characters that one can encounter in such events. Mitchell's use of contrasting elements such as different personalities, emotions, and attitudes of the party-goers creates a whole picture of the human experience. She sings of people who have "a lot of style," but also encounter those who are "nobody" and standing on the fringes of the party. She then juxtaposes Photo Beauty's fleeting happiness and spontaneous vulnerability, crying on someone's lap, with the stoic, silent Grace hidden behind her fan. Mitchell also references her own anxiety and struggles with understanding people and fitting in, singing the line, "And me in my frightened silence/Thinking I don't understand."


Mitchell also reflects on the futility of superficiality in social gatherings. She humorously critiques the idea of Photo Beauty, who cries after her eye makeup runs, yet wearing a lampshade as a crown. She suggests that there is buried sadness that often accompanies the glamour of beauty and social standing. From Eddie in the corner who thinks he's "nobody" to Jack behind his "joker" facade, even the most seemingly "put together" people are not immune to loneliness and anxiety. Mitchell brings all these characters together in the chorus, where they cry for the same release- a cathartic, emotional outpouring that often happens in social gatherings.


Line by Line Meaning

All the people at this party
Everyone at this gathering


They've got a lot of style
They appear fashionable


They've got stamps of many countries
Some have been to different parts of the world


They've got passport smiles
Their smiles reflect travel experience


Some are friendly
A few are amicable


Some are cutting
Some are sarcastic or caustic


Some are watching it from the wings
Some are observing from a distance


Some are standing in the centre
Some are in the middle of the action


Giving to get something
They're socializing with an agenda


Photo Beauty gets attention
Attractive people draw a crowd


Then her eye paint's running down
But their beauty is not perfect


She's got a rose in her teeth
She's posing provocatively


And a lampshade crown
Even silly objects can be fashion statements


One minute she's so happy
Beauty is not a guarantee of happiness


Then she's crying on someone's knee
Emotions can be unpredictable


Saying, laughing and crying
Both expressions are a release of emotions


You know it's the same release
Both laughter and tears can be cathartic


I told you when I met you
This is not surprising


I was crazy
I'm a little wild


Cry for us all, Beauty
Your tears represent everyone's emotions


Cry for Eddie in the corner
Pity those who are ignored


Thinking he's nobody
Feeling like a social outcast


And Jack behind his joker
Or those who hide behind masks


And stone-cold Grace behind her fan
Or those who are aloof


And me in my frightened silence
Or those who are too scared to speak up


Thinking I don't understand
Feeling like an outsider


I feel like I'm sleeping
I feel disengaged


Can you wake me?
Can you help me feel alive?


You seem to have a broader sensibility
You appear to have more depth than me


I'm just living on nerves and feelings
I'm ruled by emotion


With a weak and a lazy mind
I feel intellectually inferior


And coming to people's parties
Yet I'm still trying to socialize


Fumbling deaf dumb and blind
But I'm struggling to fit in


I wish I had more sense of humor
I wish I was more lighthearted


Keeping the sadness at bay
To avoid feeling down


Throwing the lightness on these things
To make light of serious matters


Laughing it all away
To find joy even in difficult times


Laughing it all away
To find joy even in difficult times


Laughing it all away
To find joy even in difficult times




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Written by: Joni Mitchell

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