The Man Who...
Josh Rouse Lyrics


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He used to work in Central Park where
at least a dozen women broke his heart
and there he'd sit and think about his past
she lived in Brooklyn and she rode the trains
first she'd take the G then the L
and that is where they met upon that day
she wants to help him now
Cuz he's the man who doesn't know how
he's the man who doesn't know how
he's the man who doesn't know how to smile

It's not that simple just to change a man
even if you think that you have skill
with disadvantaged hearts
so used some caution when you see him pass
he won't hurt you but his face is sad
and everyday he's breathin through the gills
she's gonna help him now

Cuz he's the man who doesn't know how
he's the man who doesn't know how
he's the man who doesn't know how to smile
he's not happy by himself

The summer turned into fall
and they took a little trip to the cape
and that is where they laid they're bodies down
and in the morning when the the sun came up
she looked at him just to say
that she would never go astray
it's gonna work out now

Cuz he's the man who doesn't know how
he's the man who doesn't know how




he's the man who doesn't know how to smile
he's not happy by himself

Overall Meaning

The song "The Man Who..." by Josh Rouse is a contemplative piece on the struggles of a man who has been wounded by love in the past. The opening lines describe how he used to work in Central Park and was hurt repeatedly by women, leaving him with a heavy heart. The lyrics suggest that he has lost his ability to be happy and smile, and the singer implies that this is a reflection of a deeper wound.


The chorus repeats the refrain "he's the man who doesn't know how" to emphasize his lack of ability to find happiness on his own. The singer warns that it is not easy to change a person, especially one who has been hurt so deeply. However, there is hope when she talks about helping him.


The last verses talk about a woman who meets him on the train and takes a trip to the cape with him. The lyrics suggest that this relationship may be the key to his healing. The song ends on a hopeful note, with the woman reassuring him that she will never leave him.


Overall, "The Man Who..." is a reflective piece that explores the complexities of love, pain, and healing. It highlights the importance of human connection and the role it can play in helping people overcome their past hurts and find happiness once again.


Line by Line Meaning

He used to work in Central Park where
He worked in Central Park


at least a dozen women broke his heart
He had his heart broken multiple times by different women


and there he'd sit and think about his past
He would sit and contemplate his past while at work in Central Park


she lived in Brooklyn and she rode the trains
The woman he meets lives in Brooklyn and commutes by train


first she'd take the G then the L
She takes two trains, the G and the L


and that is where they met upon that day
They met on the train


she wants to help him now
The woman wants to help him


Cuz he's the man who doesn't know how
He is a man who is struggling


he's the man who doesn't know how
He doesn't know how to overcome his struggles


he's the man who doesn't know how to smile
He is not a happy person and cannot smile


It's not that simple just to change a man
Changing a person is not easy


even if you think that you have skill
Even if you think you have the ability to change someone


with disadvantaged hearts
For those with a damaged heart or difficult past


so used some caution when you see him pass
Be cautious when interacting with him


he won't hurt you but his face is sad
He won't harm you, but he is unhappy


and everyday he's breathin through the gills
He is just barely getting by


she's gonna help him now
The woman is going to help him through his struggles


The summer turned into fall
Summer ended and fall began


and they took a little trip to the cape
They went on a small trip to the Cape


and that is where they laid they're bodies down
They laid down together while on the trip


and in the morning when the the sun came up
The next morning when the sun rose


she looked at him just to say
She looked at him and spoke


that she would never go astray
She promised to never leave or stray


it's gonna work out now
Things are finally going to work out


he's not happy by himself
He is not a happy person on his own




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