Understanding
Judie Tzuke Lyrics


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Understanding all the reasons that you have, for keeping just a step away
You'd better start believin' that deceit, it's never gonna pay
Understanding that the light of every day holds a different feeling
You'd better start believin' that there'll be no more grievin' about it next time round

This time you seem so sure
Talkin' like I never heard before
Oh this time I want to believe in what you say
This time I want you to know that if I stay

I'm understanding all the reasons that you have, for keeping just this step away
But believe me when I tell you that now has to be another way
Understanding that the light of every day holds a different feeling
You'd better start believin' that there'll be no more grievin' about it next time round

This time, so sure
Talkin' like you never did before
Oh this time I want to believe in what you say
This time I want you to know that if I stay

Will you listen when I tell you that I'm tired of keeping one more step away?
Now the game that we've been playing has been changed, and it's by my rules that we play
Not the child that follows blindly in the dark, watching and believing
I'm much stronger and I won't be torn apart, fooled by shallow pleading

This time
You might say that we all need secrets, but I say that you're running away
This time
You can say that I won't wait forever, but I'm giving you one more day
This time
You might say that we all need secrets, but I say that you're running away
This time
You can say that I won't wait forever, but I'm giving you one more day
This time
You might say that we all need secrets, but I say that you're running away




This time
You can say that I won't wait forever, but I'm giving you one more day

Overall Meaning

The song "Understanding" by Judie Tzuke speaks about the importance of trust and transparency in a relationship. The lyrics hint at a relationship that has hit a rough patch because one person is withholding information or perhaps even lying. The first verse encourages this person to come clean and be honest about their reasons for keeping their distance. They are warned that deception is not a sustainable solution and they need to start believing in the power of openness and honesty.


The second verse seems hopeful, with the person expressing a desire to believe and trust in their partner again. However, they remind them that they need to do their part in creating a healthy relationship. They need to stop keeping secrets and being distant, and instead embrace the different emotions that come with each new day. They are promised that there will be no more heartache if they can work together to build a strong foundation.


The bridge takes a more assertive tone, with the person declaring that they will no longer tolerate being kept at arm's length. They have grown stronger and are no longer willing to be fooled by empty promises. They make it clear that they have their own set of rules and will not continue to blindly follow someone who is not willing to be open and honest. The chorus is repeated several times, emphasizing the importance of communication and trust in a healthy relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Understanding all the reasons that you have, for keeping just a step away
Recognizing why you are hesitant to get too close to me


You'd better start believin' that deceit, it's never gonna pay
Realizing that lying and hiding things will never lead to a good outcome


Understanding that the light of every day holds a different feeling
Acknowledging that each day brings a new emotion or experience


You'd better start believin' that there'll be no more grievin' about it next time round
Accepting that there should be no more sadness or regret in the future


This time you seem so sure
Noticing that you sound more confident this time around


Talkin' like I never heard before
Expressing yourself in a way that is new and surprising to me


Oh this time I want to believe in what you say
Wanting to trust and have faith in your words


This time I want you to know that if I stay
Letting you know that if I choose to remain in this situation, it is because I believe you


Will you listen when I tell you that I'm tired of keeping one more step away?
Asking if you will take my feelings into consideration and stop pushing me away


Now the game that we've been playing has been changed, and it's by my rules that we play
Indicating that there is a shift in power dynamics, and I am now in control


Not the child that follows blindly in the dark, watching and believing
Refusing to be naive and gullible like a child


I'm much stronger and I won't be torn apart, fooled by shallow pleading
Asserting my strength and independence, and rejecting any insincere attempts to win me over


You might say that we all need secrets, but I say that you're running away
Disagreeing with the idea that keeping secrets is necessary, and accusing you of avoiding intimacy


You can say that I won't wait forever, but I'm giving you one more day
Admitting that my patience is limited, but still granting you a small extension of time to change




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Comments from YouTube:

@brendancarroll9376

I bought her Sportscar album in 1980. Never grew tired of this song. Never will.

@helenabarnett6441

Superb... A Tzuke & Paxman classic. Even playing through a phone you can hear the power and the emotion Judie puts into the song.
Thanks for posting... πŸ‘

@xhk508s

I had the pleasure of working with Judie back in 1990. What a charming lady and such a voice.

@eddyvideostar

Dear Mike Farley: Do you remember or can find a link and/or data regarding the concert Judie did in Central Park, NYC, in 1980, as an opening act for Elton John?

@malcolmthomas180

Reminds me of a memorable time with a beautiful lady and this was the song associated with our short time together. Evocative, you bet.

@smithc8355

and 41 years later it still is an AMAZING Song WOW!

@CSchaefer1960

Judie will forever be one of the greatest artists of all time. Simply put

@contourbody

This is an absolute gem of a song, too easily bypassed and forgotten in an era of bilge called the Voice et Al : (

@grantfoster1

Incredible song - never stop listening to it - thank you!

@sanjeevpande9963

One of my all time favourites by Judie, a true timeless classic!

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