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Judy Collins Lyrics


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My child arrived just the other day,
He came to the world in the usual way.
But there were planes to catch and bills to pay.
He learned to walk while I was away.
And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
You know I'm gonna be like you."
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home?"
"I don't know when,
We'll get together then, son.
You know we'll have a good time then."

My child turned ten the other day.
He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad come on let's play.
Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
I've got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok."
He turned away, but his smile never dimmed,
"I'm gonna be like him," he said.
Yes, I'm gonna be like him."

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home?"
"I don't know when,
We'll get together then, son.
You know we'll have a good time then."

Well, he came from college the other day,
So much like a man I just had to say,
"I'm proud of you, son. Will you sit for a while?"
He shook his head and he said with a smile,
"What I'd really like to do is borrow the car keys.
I'll see you later. Can I have them please?"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home?"
"I don't know when,
We'll get together then, son.
You know we'll have a good time then."

Well, I've long since retired and my child moved away.
I called him up just the other day.
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time."
He said, "My new job's a hassle, and the kids got the flu,
But it's so nice talking to you, dad.
It's so nice talking to you."

And as I hung up the phone,
It occurred to me,
My boy's a lot like me.
My boy's a lot like me.

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home?"
"I don't know when,
We'll get together then, son.
You know we'll have a good time then."





"We'll get together then, son.
You know we'll have a good time then."

Overall Meaning

The song Cat's in the Cradle by Judy Collins is a melancholic narrative about a father and his son, the relationship between them, and how it evolves over time. The father is busy with work, always has an excuse for not spending time with his son, while the son is eager to connect with his father but is always turned down. The first verse shows how the father is consumed with his responsibilities, and he misses his son's essential learning milestones such as walking and talking. The chorus, "And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon, Little boy blue and the man in the moon…," signifies the disconnect, and there is a metaphorical distance between the father and son. The father is far away, almost unreachable, while the child is looking to the moon for his father's presence.


As the song progresses, the child grows, and the father retires. The son becomes very similar to his father, and their roles are reversed, indicating that the son is now busy with life's responsibilities, and the father is yearning for his son's attention.


The song provides a powerful message about how absent fathers affect their children negatively. Despite the father's financial support, his son is still yearning for his father's emotional presence, and by the time they both have the luxury of time, it is too late to fix the relationship.


Overall, the song highlights the importance of the presence of a father in a child's life, guiding him and creating memories that will last a lifetime. It's also a warning to parents to be mindful of the time they spend making money rather than spending it with their children.


Line by Line Meaning

My child arrived just the other day,
My son was born recently


He came to the world in the usual way.
I gave birth to him in the normal way


But there were planes to catch and bills to pay.
I was busy with work and had to travel


He learned to walk while I was away.
I wasn't there to see him take his first steps


And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
He started speaking and growing up quickly


He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
He would tell me he wanted to be like me when he grew up


You know I'm gonna be like you."
He wanted to follow in my footsteps


And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
The cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon is a metaphor representing a life of luxury


Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
Little boy blue and the man in the moon is a metaphor representing childhood and growing up


"When you coming home?"
Asking when I would come home


"I don't know when,
I don't know when I will come home


We'll get together then, son.
We will spend time together when I get back


You know we'll have a good time then."
We'll enjoy our time together


My child turned ten the other day.
My son turned ten years old


He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad come on let's play.
Thanked me for the ball and wanted to play with me


Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
He asked me to teach him how to throw, but I declined


I've got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok.
He understood that I was busy


He turned away, but his smile never dimmed,
He was still happy despite my refusal


"I'm gonna be like him," he said.
He still wanted to be like me


Yes, I'm gonna be like him."
He was determined to follow my example


Well, he came from college the other day,
My son came back from college


So much like a man I just had to say,
He looked like a grown man


"I'm proud of you, son. Will you sit for a while?"
I was proud of him and wanted to spend time with him


He shook his head and he said with a smile,
He declined but was still happy


"What I'd really like to do is borrow the car keys.
He wanted to borrow my car


I'll see you later. Can I have them please?"
He wanted to use it later and asked for my permission


Well, I've long since retired and my child moved away.
I have retired and my son has moved out


I called him up just the other day.
I called him recently


I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
I asked if we could meet up


He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time."
He expressed his desire to meet up but was busy


He said, "My new job's a hassle, and the kids got the flu,
He couldn't meet up because of work and his kids' illness


But it's so nice talking to you, dad.
He enjoyed talking to me


It's so nice talking to you."
He appreciated our conversation


And as I hung up the phone,
I ended the phone call


It occurred to me,
I realized


My boy's a lot like me.
My son has become like me


And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
The metaphor of the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon is repeated


Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
The metaphor of Little boy blue and the man in the moon is repeated


"When you coming home?"
The question of when I will come home is repeated


"I don't know when,
The answer of not knowing when I will come home is repeated


We'll get together then, son.
The hope of getting together when I return is repeated


You know we'll have a good time then."
The certainty of enjoying our time together is repeated




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Written by: Sandy Chapin, Harry F. Chapin

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