now that i know you
Julian Lyrics


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I used to think a lonely heart was steady
You're better off just keeping loose
But I want every little string attached I'd
Get all of the rooms
Now that I know you

I know I'm supposed to play hard to get or
At least pretend to keep my cool
But I've been jealous lost and heavy-handed
Breaking all the rules
Now that I know you
I used to think I had a favorite hoodie
The kind you just don't wanna lose
I lost it happily to breakfast runs on
Sunday afternoon
Now that I know you

And I've never been someone to kiss and tell but
Now I get why people do
Because I swear I'd tell just anybody
I'd shout over the roofs
Now that I know you
I guess it's way too late to say forever
If I can't make you say it too
It's gon' be pretty hard to start again and




Meet somebody new
Now that I know you

Overall Meaning

"Julian's Song" is a romantic ballad that speaks to the ways in which love changes our hearts and minds. The singer confesses that they used to believe in keeping a "lonely heart" and avoiding attachments, but now that they have met the person they love, they want to be fully connected to them. The singer also acknowledges that they used to think they had everything they wanted in life, like a favorite hoodie, but now they know that a life without this person is incomplete. The singer is so smitten with their love that they no longer care about playing games or keeping cool, but instead want to shout their love from the rooftops. However, the singer is also aware that loving someone comes with risks, and that it could be difficult to start again if they were to lose this person. Overall, "Julian's Song" captures the complex emotions and transformative power of falling in love.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to think a lonely heart was steady
Before meeting you, I believed that being alone was the best path for me to take in life.


You're better off just keeping loose
It's more beneficial to be carefree than to feel tied down to anyone or anything.


But I want every little string attached I'd
Despite my previous beliefs, I now crave strong connections and attachments in my relationships.


Get all of the rooms
I desire to have access to all areas of your life and be a part of your every experience.


Now that I know you
My mindset has shifted after getting to know you and my desires have changed.


I know I'm supposed to play hard to get or
Society often suggests that individuals should make themselves scarce or difficult to obtain in order to attract others.


At least pretend to keep my cool
Even if I don't actually feel indifferent, I should try to act like I do in order to seem more desirable.


But I've been jealous lost and heavy-handed
Despite the above societal norms, I have been unable to contain my emotions and have acted recklessly in the past.


Breaking all the rules
I have been disregarding traditional dating/modern hookup culture rules because of my strong attraction to you.


I used to think I had a favorite hoodie
I once believed that material possessions were important in order to feel complete and comfortable.


The kind you just don't wanna lose
This specific hoodie was so important to me that losing it felt like a huge loss.


I lost it happily to breakfast runs on
However, I now realize that experiences and shared moments with you bring me more joy than any physical object ever could.


Sunday afternoon
This specific moment in time represents the quality time that we spend together.


And I've never been someone to kiss and tell but
I have always been a private person about my romantic experiences but


Now I get why people do
after experiencing the depth of connection with you, I understand why people are often so willing to share intimate details about their experiences with others.


Because I swear I'd tell just anybody
I am so ecstatic and grateful for our connection that I would be willing to share my happiness with anybody who would listen.


I'd shout over the roofs
I would be so excited and exuberant in expressing my joy that I would feel like shouting from the rooftops.


I guess it's way too late to say forever
It may be too late for me to express to you that I would like to be with you for the long haul.


If I can't make you say it too
Without the reassurance from you that you would like to be with me as well, my desire for a long-term commitment may be futile.


It's gon' be pretty hard to start again and
Finding someone new who fulfills me in the same way will be difficult.


Meet somebody new
The prospect of investing the same amount of time and energy into someone new is daunting and may never compare to the happiness I have found with you.




Writer(s): Julian Vahle

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