You're a Builder Upper
Julie Andrews Lyrics


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When you want to
You are able to make me feel that I'm Clark Gable
Then next minute you make me feel
I'm something from the zoo
First you warm up, then you're distant
Never knew a girl so inconsistent
I'm a big-shot at half past one
A so-and-so by two
Heaven forgive you for your sins
Keeping me on meaner than him

You're a builder-upper, a breaker-downer
A holder-outer, and I'm a giver-inner
Sad but true, I'm a sapper or two
Taking it from a big rover like you
Don't know where I'm atter
I'm just a this-er, then I'm a that-er
A taker on the chin-er
My, my, my, what a weakie am I
To love you as I do

Just when I'm ready to sob
You hand me a throb
And everything is hunky-dory
And that's my story
Open your arms and I'm a stooge for your charms
You're a builder-upper, a breaker-downer
A holder-outer and I'm a giver-inner
Sad but true, I love it I do
Being broken by a builder-upper like you





Sad but true, I love it I do
Being broken by a builder-upper like you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Julie Andrews's song You're a Builder Upper are about a relationship that is full of ups and downs, with the singer being constantly affected by the other person's actions. The singer describes the emotional rollercoaster that their partner takes them on, going from feeling like a Hollywood star to feeling like an animal in a zoo, and from feeling like a big-shot to feeling like a nobody. The song describes the partner as being inconsistent and often leaving the singer feeling hurt and vulnerable. Despite this, the singer expresses their love for their partner, even when they feel weak and helpless. Overall, the song is a bittersweet reflection of the highs and lows of being in love with someone who can break you down just as quickly as they build you up.


Line by Line Meaning

When you want to
Whenever you feel like it


You are able to make me feel that I'm Clark Gable
You have the power to make me feel like a movie star


Then next minute you make me feel
But then suddenly you change your mind and


I'm something from the zoo
You make me feel like an animal


First you warm up, then you're distant
At first you're affectionate, then you withdraw


Never knew a girl so inconsistent
I've never met someone who changes their mind so often


I'm a big-shot at half past one
For a moment, I feel important


A so-and-so by two
But soon I feel insignificant


Heaven forgive you for your sins
I hope you're forgiven for the way you treat me


Keeping me on meaner than him
Treating me worse than anyone else ever has


You're a builder-upper, a breaker-downer
You build me up and tear me down


A holder-outer, and I'm a giver-inner
You hold back while I give in


Sad but true, I'm a sapper or two
Sadly, I'm weak and vulnerable to your manipulations


Taking it from a big rover like you
Enduring your emotional abuse as a strong and confident person


Don't know where I'm atter
I have no idea where I stand with you


I'm just a this-er, then I'm a that-er
One moment I'm one thing, the next moment another


A taker on the chin-er
I constantly have to take your insults without fighting back


My, my, my, what a weakie am I
I can't believe how weak I am for staying with you


To love you as I do
Despite everything, I still love you


Just when I'm ready to sob
Just when I'm about to cry


You hand me a throb
You give me something to feel good about


And everything is hunky-dory
And everything is suddenly going well


And that's my story
And that's the way it always goes with us


Open your arms and I'm a stooge for your charms
Whenever you show affection, I can't resist


Sad but true, I love it I do
Sadly, I love the way you treat me


Being broken by a builder-upper like you
Even though it's painful, I enjoy being manipulated by you




Lyrics © S.A. MUSIC
Written by: E. Y. HARBURG, HAROLD ARLEN, IRA GERSHWIN

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