She Moves Among Men
June Tabor Lyrics


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"Speak to me gently before we begin"
She pleads but they laugh and pull her down
And after they′ve used her briefly and roughly
They leave her to face the dawn alone

When they have gone she moves on her side
Thinks of the men that with her have lain
And none of them gave her a kind-worded loving
And after they'd done not one of them stayed

Once she was wary, chose but a few
To roll in her arms at the end of the day
But the flower so proud begins now to wither
That any may pluck at the petals so gay

Alone in the night she muses a while
And thinks of the days and how they will pass
She cries for the lonely years that awaiting
Till death takes her hand and weds her at last

Down in the barroom she moves among men
Who watch her and touch her whenever they can
And she notices hands and mouths as they drink
And over the tankards the eyes of each man





Speak to me gently before we begin...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to June Tabor's song 'She Moves Among Men' are an emotional and melancholic portrayal of a woman who is used by men, and left alone to face the dawn. The opening line of the song, "Speak to me gently before we begin," is a plea for kindness and compassion from the men who use her. However, they ignore her request and instead laugh at her, pulling her down. The song goes on to describe how men use her briefly and roughly, without giving her any kindness or love, and how they leave her alone to face the consequences of their actions.


The song is a somber reflection on the harsh reality of women being objectified and used by men. The woman in the song is once proud, but begins to wither as any man can come and take advantage of her. She is left alone to reflect on the lonely years ahead and the inevitability of death.


The imagery in the lyrics is both powerful and brutal, painting a vivid picture of a woman who is struggling to find love, and who is being used and abused by men. It is a heartbreaking song that captures the pain and sadness of a woman who is trapped in a cycle of abuse, longing for someone to speak to her gently and treat her with kindness.


Line by Line Meaning

Speak to me gently before we begin
She begs for kind treatment before any intimacy begins.


She pleads but they laugh and pull her down
Despite her plea, they disregard and use her roughly.


And after they?ve used her briefly and roughly
Once they're done, they leave her alone to face the dawn.


They leave her to face the dawn alone
They leave her to wake up to a new day all alone.


When they have gone she moves on her side
Once they leave, she turns away from them.


Thinks of the men that with her have lain
She remembers all the men she's been intimate with.


And none of them gave her a kind-worded loving
None of them showed her any affection or love after they were done.


And after they'd done not one of them stayed
None of them stayed with her after they had their way.


Once she was wary, chose but a few
She used to be cautious and selective with who she engaged with.


To roll in her arms at the end of the day
To embrace and be intimate with at the end of a day.


But the flower so proud begins now to wither
Her once proud and confident demeanor is now fading.


That any may pluck at the petals so gay
Anyone can take advantage of her and her cheerful facade.


Alone in the night she muses a while
She spends time alone at night reflecting on her life.


And thinks of the days and how they will pass
She contemplates the future and how time will continue to pass her by.


She cries for the lonely years that awaiting
She weeps for the lonely years that lie ahead.


Till death takes her hand and weds her at last
She believes that death will be the only one to take her hand and truly be with her.


Down in the barroom she moves among men
She spends time with men in a barroom.


Who watch her and touch her whenever they can
These men ogle her and try to touch her as often as they can.


And she notices hands and mouths as they drink
She observes how the men use their hands and mouths while they drink.


And over the tankards the eyes of each man
She feels the gaze of every man in the barroom as they drink from their tankards.




Writer(s): Bill Caddick

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