Lesson One
Just Jack Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

It's hard sometimes trying to be a geezer
A good bloke
Five pints down the local pub
Laughing at a filthy joke
And sleeping around
Just so that you can brag about it
You've got to get the crumpet
So you can blow your own trumpet
And talking about football
When you couldn't really give a fuck
About Owen being injured
And Watford's run of bad luck
And cheering when a fight breaks out
Even though you're feeling sick
As a parrot
But like a donkey to a carrot
You can't help yourself
'cause any sign of weakness
Could be used to inflict injuries
By one of your so-called friends
To hide his own insecurities
And nothing to look forward to
But daily stress and bringing home the bacon
And thinking about the other half of your wages
The tax man keeps taking
Staying strong emotionally
When your soul is breaking
And wondering when you're making love to your wife
Is it real or is she faking
And could it be that the most important things in life
Are getting lost or missed
When you're playing it safe
One of the lads
And scared to take a risk

It's so hard
It's so hard
Sometimes
And sometimes
It's so hard
It's so hard
When you're scared

Its hard sometimes trying to be a geezer
A good lad
With pressures to get on in life
And turn out like your dad
And getting a house, dog, kids, car
The whole kit and caboodle
And making out you can't cook
Apart from pot noodle
Treating your lady with sensitivity
Without the boys finding out
And keeping your feelings under wraps
So she'll never know what you're about
Trying to be different
But the same
And trying to follow the rules
Of the new game
Staring at the picture in the frame
An easier time, smiles shine
Now almost everything's changed.

It's so hard
It's so hard
Sometimes
And sometimes
It's so hard
It's so hard
When you're scared

Well sometimes its so hard
It's so hard
It's so hard
Yeah
When you're scared to
You're scared to
You're scared to
To take a risk




To take a risk
To take a risk

Overall Meaning

The song "Lesson One" by Just Jack is a commentary on the pressures and expectations faced by men in society, particularly in the UK. The lyrics describe the struggle of trying to fit in with the "lads" and be seen as a "good bloke" while also trying to live up to societal expectations such as providing for a family and being a responsible adult. The pressure to conform to traditional masculine ideals is evident throughout the song, as the singer describes engaging in behaviors like sleeping around, drinking heavily, and talking about football even when he doesn't care. These behaviors are presented as a way of proving oneself as a man and avoiding being seen as weak or vulnerable.


However, the song also suggests that this pressure to conform can be damaging and lead to feelings of loneliness and disconnection. The singer wonders whether he is really connecting with his wife or just going through the motions, and suggests that important things in life may be missed when playing it safe and trying to fit in. The repeated phrase "It's so hard" emphasizes the difficulty of navigating these expectations and pressures while staying true to oneself.


Line by Line Meaning

Its hard sometimes trying to be a geezer
It's difficult to fit in with the expectations of being a 'good bloke'.


A good bloke
Someone who conforms to the expectations of traditional masculinity and social norms.


Five pints down the local pub
Drinking heavily in a social setting.


Laughing at a filthy joke
Finding humor in crude or offensive jokes.


And sleeping around
Having casual sexual relationships without emotional attachment.


Just so that you can brag about it
Engaging in sexual behavior to impress others or for personal validation.


You've got to get the crumpet
Obtaining sexual partners.


So you can blow your own trumpet
To boast or show off about sexual conquests.


And talking about football
Conversing about sports in order to appear macho and interested in typically male topics.


When you couldn't really give a fuck
Not actually caring about the subject, but pretending to in order to fit in.


About Owen being injured
One specific example of a sports topic that the singer may pretend to care about.


And Watford's run of bad luck
Another example of a sports topic that the artist may pretend to care about.


And cheering when a fight breaks out
Enjoying violent or aggressive behavior, even if it is morally questionable or makes the singer feel sick.


Even though you're feeling sick
Despite feeling queasy or morally uncomfortable when engaging in destructive behaviors or attitudes.


As a parrot
Extremely drunk or intoxicated.


But like a donkey to a carrot
Feeling compelled like an animal to engage in harmful behaviors or attitudes, even if they are detrimental to oneself and others.


You can't help yourself
Feeling like one is unable to resist impulses or peer pressure.


'Cause any sign of weakness
Experiencing insecurity and feeling like displaying any vulnerability will result in being mocked or ostracized by peers.


Could be used to inflict injuries
Being afraid that any perceived weakness will cause one's peers to attack or bully them, resulting in emotional or physical harm.


By one of your so-called friends
Being let down by people who are supposed to be supportive and trustworthy.


To hide his own insecurities
Others may belittle or bully in order to cover up their own feelings of inadequacy.


And nothing to look forward to
Feeling hopeless or helpless about the future, and lacking a sense of purpose or direction.


But daily stress and bringing home the bacon
Living a mundane and unfulfilling life, with the focus on earning a living and supporting oneself or one's family.


And thinking about the other half of your wages
Worrying about money and finances, which can be a source of great stress and frustration.


The tax man keeps taking
Feeling taxed and burdened by the responsibilities and obligations of everyday life, from financial expenses to social pressures.


Staying strong emotionally
Suppressing one's emotions and feelings in order to appear tough, resilient, and capable in the face of adversity.


When your soul is breaking
Feeling deeply troubled or sad, with one's emotional or mental state in turmoil.


And wondering when you're making love to your wife
Questioning or doubting the emotional authenticity or passion of intimate relationships.


Is it real or is she faking
Feeling suspicious or unsure about the nature of romantic relationships or sexual encounters, and doubting whether it is an authentic or genuine experience.


And could it be that the most important things in life
Contemplating the deeper meaning and purpose of existence, and wondering if one's priorities and values may be misguided.


Are getting lost or missed
Feeling like one may be missing out on important or meaningful experiences or opportunities, and questioning whether one's life is fulfilling, satisfying, or happy.


When you're playing it safe
Being overly cautious or conservative in order to avoid risk or vulnerability.


One of the lads
Being part of a friend group or social cohort, with a shared set of values and behaviors.


And scared to take a risk
Being afraid of the unknown, with a fear of failure, humiliation, or rejection preventing one from trying new things or embarking on new experiences.


Its hard sometimes trying to be a geezer
Reiterating the challenges and difficulties of living up to expectations of traditionally masculine gender roles and social norms.


A good lad
Echoing the feelings of trying to fit into traditional masculinity and social norms.


With pressures to get on in life
Feeling the weight of societal expectations to succeed and advance in one's career or other areas of life.


And turn out like your dad
Feeling the pressure to emulate or compete with one's father, a figure often associated with masculine ideals and expectations.


And getting a house, dog, kids, car
Fulfilling the expectations of a traditional adult lifestyle, with certain possessions and achievements as markers of success and maturity.


The whole kit and caboodle
Referring to the entirety of the expectations and pressures of adulthood, including financial stability, stable relationships, and a sense of purpose.


And making out you can't cook
Feigning incompetence in certain areas in order to appear more masculine or less domestic.


Apart from pot noodle
Joking about an unappealing or unhealthy food choice- a symbol of carelessness and irresponsibility.


Treating your lady with sensitivity
Acknowledging the importance of treating romantic partners with empathy and respect, even in the face of societal pressures to act in a more domineering or insensitive manner.


Without the boys finding out
Keeping certain behaviors or attitudes private or hidden from male peers, in order to maintain an image of toughness or conceal vulnerability.


And keeping your feelings under wraps
Suppressing personal emotions or vulnerabilities in order to maintain a certain image of strength or control.


So she'll never know what you're about
Feeling like certain aspects of one's personality or emotions must be kept hidden or suppressed from romantic partners, due to societal pressure more broadly.


Trying to be different
Striving for individuality and authenticity, rather than conforming to gender or social norms.


But the same
Balancing a desire for individuality with the need to fit in and conform to societal expectations.


And trying to follow the rules
Feeling restrained by societal norms and expectations, and attempting to navigate them in order to find a satisfactory place within society.


Of the new game
Describing the changing nature of societal norms and expectations, which individuals must adjust to and navigate, sometimes leading to stress, indecision or conflict.


Staring at the picture in the frame
Reflecting on one's past and the simpler times of one's life, when things may have seemed easier or less stressful.


An easier time, smiles shine
Recalling fond memories or positive moments from the past, which contrast with the stress or confusion of one's current state.


Now almost everything's changed.
Acknowledging the ever-evolving nature of society and societal expectations, sometimes leading to panic, confusion, and indecision regarding one's place and purpose within this changing world.


When you're scared
Summarizing the anxieties and fears that come with navigating societal expectations, and the desire to fit in while also striving for authenticity and individuality.


To take a risk
Describing the fear of trying new things, taking a chance, or departing from societal norms, and the worry that this may result in failure, ridicule, or worse.




Lyrics © OBO APRA/AMCOS

Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Comments from YouTube:

Gary Hollis

such a good song and will never stop loving it

Izzy Mahmood

heard this on pandora and i love it

Peter O'Hanraha-hanrahan

This song could be the theme song for Robert Webb's book "How Not To Be a Boy". They have the exact same message.

Sam Haines

100% accurate truth about being a lad growing up in England

Sakura Windsong

It's hard sometimes trying to be a geezer
A good bloke
Five pints down the local pub
Laughing at a filthy joke
And sleeping around
Just so that you can brag about it
You've got to get the crumpet
So you can blow your own trumpet
And talking about football
When you couldn't really give a fuck
About Owen being injured
And Watford's run of bad luck
And cheering when a fight breaks out
Even though you're feeling sick
As a parrot
But like a donkey to a carrot
You can't help yourself
Cos any sign of weakness
Could be used to inflict injuries
By one of your so-called friends
To hide his own insecurities
And nothing to look forward to
But daily stress and bringing home the bacon
And thinking about the other half of your wages
The tax man keeps taking
Staying strong emotionally
When your soul is breaking
And wondering when you're making love to your wife
Is it real or is she faking
And could it be that the most important things in life
Are getting lost or missed
When you're playing it safe
One of the lads
And scared to take a risk

(CHORUS)
It's so hard
It's so hard

Sometimes
And sometimes
It's so hard
It's so hard
When you're scared

Its hard sometimes trying to be a geezer
A good lad
With pressures to get on in life
And turn out like your dad
And getting a house, dog, kids, car
The whole kit and caboodle
And making out you can't cook
Apart from pot noodle
Treating your lady with sensitivity
Without the boys finding out
And keeping your feelings under wraps
So she'll never know what you're about
Trying to be different
But the same
And trying to follow the rules
Of the new game
Staring at the picture in the frame
An easier time, smiles shine
Now almost everything's changed

(CHORUS)
Well sometimes its so hard
It's so hard
It's so hard
Yeah
When you're scared to
You're scared to
You're scared to
To take a risk
To take a risk
To take a risk

Ruth Barr

Love to do the girls remix, sounds about right to me.

gil greiner

great groove & rap...thanks... warrants a lesson two?... please...

Hazy 141

F@ck me, so true 😀

More Versions