Don't Think I'm Not
Kandi Lyrics


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I don't have to question
Where you were last night
Cause I already know what you will say
I already know you'll lie

But I can't be mad at ya
Cause there's something that you don't know
That when your gone I do my own thing
Can I catch a bone? Why you dogging me?

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

When I try to get your attention
You ignore me everytime
You were so caught up doing your dirt
That you didn't notice mine

Well I couldn't put up with your scheming
And I couldn't put up with your lies
They say two wrongs won't make a right
But it suited me just fine

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

Don't be surprised to know that sometimes women play the field
You may not believe it, but it's real
The game is so real, so real, so real
Oh, don't think we won't do it
When your out in the club.

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not




When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Kandi's song Don't Think I'm Not talks about a woman who knows her partner is cheating on her but doesn't confront him. Instead, she defends her own actions of going out and doing her own thing while he's not around. The song implies that women can also play the field and that men shouldn't assume that just because they're out doing their own thing, their partners aren't doing the same.


The song expresses the internal conflict of knowing that one's partner is being unfaithful but not wanting to confront them, possibly out of fear of losing them or just not wanting to deal with the drama. The chorus reinforces the message that the singer is capable of doing the same things her partner is doing and doesn't need his permission or approval.


Overall, the song empowers women to take control of their own lives and not be afraid of stepping out of the traditional gender roles that society has placed on them. It challenges the stereotype that women are only supposed to be faithful and subservient to their partners, and instead encourages self-sufficiency and independence.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't have to question
I don't need to ask


Where you were last night
About your whereabouts from last night


Cause I already know what you will say
Because I'm aware of your predictable response


I already know you'll lie
I'm certain that you will be dishonest


But I can't be mad at ya
But I can't stay angry with you


Cause there's something that you don't know
Because there is something you're unaware of


That when your gone I do my own thing
That when you're absent, I pursue my own interests


Can I catch a bone? Why you dogging me?
Can I get affection? Why are you treating me like a dog?


When your out in the club, don't think I'm not
When you're partying, don't assume I'm not doing the same


Even when your out making love, don't think I'm not
Even when you're having sex, don't assume I'm not doing the same


When your feeling good in somebody's spot, getting hot, don't stop
When you're enjoying yourself at someone else's place, don't quit


Just don't think I'm not, cause I'm out getting mine
Just don't assume I'm not because I'm also taking care of myself


When I try to get your attention
When I attempt to grab your focus


You ignore me everytime
You overlook me on every occasion


You were so caught up doing your dirt
You were preoccupied with your immoral activities


That you didn't notice mine
That you failed to recognize my endeavors


Well I couldn't put up with your scheming
Well, I was unable to tolerate your deceitful behavior


And I couldn't put up with your lies
And I was unable to tolerate your falsehoods


They say two wrongs won't make a right
It's said that making two incorrect choices won't lead to a correct outcome


But it suited me just fine
But it was acceptable to me


Don't be surprised to know that sometimes women play the field
Don't be astonished that women occasionally date more than one person


You may not believe it, but it's real
You may doubt it, but it's true


The game is so real, so real, so real
The process is incredibly genuine and authentic


Oh, don't think we won't do it
Oh, don't assume we won't engage in it either


When your out in the club.
When you're partying.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Bernard Jr. Edwards, Katrina Celeste Willis, Kandi L. Burruss, Kevin J. Briggs, Isaac Hayes

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@coachtracyeden

This song hit different when you’re an adult

@reneedillard7511

Yes
My current situation

@Natalie9285

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@eccho1

That part

@cherinacoll5955

Same here xx

@alishadawson2821

That's a whole fact

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@missymiss2308

Back when all relationship problems were solved with dance battles 😩

@appetite4chic878

Lmao they did this is music videos and 90’s movies 💀😂

@missymiss2308

@Appetite 4 Chic Right?! Those were the days. I legit believed that would happen to me in real life one day. Still waiting... 🤣

@temaereharris4305

😂😂nothing beats a good dance battle

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