The Letter
Karla Bonoff Lyrics


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Back there in your room, while you were gone
I found the pages that she wrote to you
My heart just froze, but I couldn't stop myself
I see what jealously can do

I see now it's true, well there has been somebody
Who's had a real hold on you
And here in this bed, I guess you must have held her
How strange I never knew

She wrote that you said
You needed her to face the world
I wish that it could all just be erased
I can't believe she could take my place

As you came up the stairs
You asked "Are you all right?"
"I'd better go" was all I said




But there in your room I saw something that
I really wish I never read

Overall Meaning

In Karla Bonoff's song, "Letter," the singer discovers a collection of letters her partner's ex-lover had written him. The discovery shocks and hurts her, as she realizes that there was someone who had a strong impact on her partner's life and that they must have shared intimate moments together in the bed they now share. The jealousy and hurt she feels are palpable as she reflects on how she never saw any indication of this relationship before.


The lines "She wrote that you said / You needed her to face the world" highlight the singer's fear and insecurity that she is replaceable in her partner's life. The discovery of the letters has made her wonder whether he still feels the same way about her or whether he truly needed her ex-lover to face the world as he said. The final lines of the song suggest that the singer feels a sense of regret at having peeked into her partner's past and learning something she wish she never had.


Karla Bonoff's "Letter" is a poignant exploration of jealousy, betrayal, and the vulnerability that comes with loving someone. Its lyrics are filled with raw emotions that many people can relate to, and the use of first-person point of view makes the song more personal and relatable.


Line by Line Meaning

Back there in your room, while you were gone
While you were away, I went to your room


I found the pages that she wrote to you
I found some letters that a woman wrote to you


My heart just froze, but I couldn't stop myself
I felt shocked and hurt, but I couldn't stop myself from reading the letters


I see what jealously can do
I now understand how jealousy can make a person feel


I see now it's true, well there has been somebody
I now realize that you have been seeing someone else


Who's had a real hold on you
This person has a strong emotional hold on you


And here in this bed, I guess you must have held her
I assume you have been intimate with this person in our bed


How strange I never knew
It's strange that I didn't know about this person before


She wrote that you said
The letters contained things you allegedly said to her


You needed her to face the world
You claimed that you needed this person's support to face the world


I wish that it could all just be erased
I wish that this situation could be undone and never happened


I can't believe she could take my place
I am surprised that this person has replaced me in your life


As you came up the stairs
When you approached the room


You asked "Are you all right?"
You asked if I was okay


"I'd better go" was all I said
I said that I should leave


But there in your room I saw something that
However, in your room I saw something that


I really wish I never read
I deeply regret having read the letters




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