R n B side
Kate Nash Lyrics


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Why'd you have to be such a wanker, it was better when it was just me

You let me down, hardly gently,
You left me without my dignity.
Why do I feel so pathetic?
Why'd you have to be such a dick?

You never opened doors,
I believed that I was yours.
I did all the work, gave you all my time,
but you were never mine.

You used yours to manipulate,
never giving me, always take take take

Why'd you have to be such a wanker, it was better when it was just me

Cause you make the stone feel cold,
make my hands feel older,
when I wake up on time,
wish I could get you off my mind.

Cause I can be brave,
yeah, I can pull myself through.
I can yeah get to the top of the tree,
I can get over you.

And you can never make yourself bigger than me
And I may not have found my happiness but at least I'm free.





Why'd you have to be such a wanker, it was better when it was just me
It was better when it was just me.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Kate Nash's song R n B Side tell a story of a woman who has been mistreated by a man who she thought loved her. The song is a breakup anthem where the singer questions why her partner had to be a wanker and a dick, leaving her without dignity. The woman feels pathetic for believing that her partner belonged to her, and now she feels used and manipulated. She believed that she gave him everything, but he never reciprocated with the same level of affection and attention.


Moreover, the woman is struggling to move on from the relationship as it is affecting her mental and emotional well-being. She feels cold and old, and she wishes she could get her ex off of her mind. However, she tries to be brave, and she knows that she can overcome the situation. She wants to get to the top of the tree and get over her ex, who could never make himself bigger than her. Finally, she acknowledges that although she has not found her happiness yet, at least she is free from the toxicity of the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You let me down, hardly gently,
You disappointed me in a harsh manner and were not considerate of my feelings.


You left me without my dignity.
You caused me to feel ashamed and embarrassed by your actions.


Why do I feel so pathetic?
I am confused and uncertain about why I am feeling weak and helpless.


Why'd you have to be such a dick?
Why did you have to be so unpleasant and hurtful towards me?


You never opened doors,
You never showed me kindness or demonstrated affection towards me.


I believed that I was yours.
I felt like I belonged to you and trusted you completely.


I did all the work, gave you all my time,
I invested all of my energy and resources into our relationship.


but you were never mine.
You never reciprocated my efforts and were not committed to our relationship.


You used yours to manipulate,
You used your power and influence over me to control and exploit me.


never giving me, always take take take
You never gave me anything in return for what I gave you and only took advantage of me.


Cause you make the stone feel cold,
Your presence and actions make me feel empty and alone.


make my hands feel older,
Your behavior causes me stress and pain, making me feel older than I am.


when I wake up on time,
When I am not distracted by thoughts of you and can focus on myself,


wish I could get you off my mind.
I wish that I could stop thinking about you and move on from our relationship.


Cause I can be brave,
I have the ability to be strong and face my fears.


yeah, I can pull myself through.
I am capable of overcoming my struggles and moving forward with my life.


I can yeah get to the top of the tree,
I can achieve great things and become successful, despite my current difficulties.


I can get over you.
I will eventually be able to move on from our relationship and let go of my feelings for you.


And you can never make yourself bigger than me
You will never have power over me or be able to control my life or happiness.


And I may not have found my happiness but at least I'm free.
I may not be completely happy yet, but I am free from your hold on me and will continue to grow and thrive on my own.


Why'd you have to be such a wanker, it was better when it was just me
You were unpleasant and hurtful towards me, and I wish that I was still alone instead of being with you.


It was better when it was just me.
I was better off alone before I met you and got caught up in this harmful relationship.




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Comments from YouTube:

Cis4Caro

I really really wish I could find the lyrics to this. I love it so much

Gershon Nundkumar

Memories of 2010 man
Wish I could go back
Love this song
Love from South Africa

Miles George

Same ; |

Gianluca D'Elia

this was so amazing last night

Gianluca D'Elia

her guitarist Bret came up with the name of the song. it was influenced by an RnB song that was a b side on a cd... so R&B side

T00 Lay-z

Paris Album version available on my channel

Sophiiixoxo

@AnotherHistoryBoy you can download it for free on amazon :) x