Trying
Kate Walsh Lyrics


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I've been trying hard to be somebody else
But no one can entertain that I could be anything else

Don't waste your time on throw away love, seas the day love
It seems all you can do is give away love, throw away love

So I've been trying hard to keep hold of my heart, love is true, they say
I must have been lying to myself anyway
I'm done with trying

I can't help what I am, yes I'm easily swayed
And I can't keep love away, but I don't want to anyway

Don't waste your time on throw away love, seas the day love
It seems all you can do is give away love, throw away love

No, don't waste your time on throw away love, seas the day love
It seems all you can do is give away love, throw away love

So I'll just have to except that I'm easily bowled over by you
Though I know that you'll go, so don' throw me a smile




Because you know from the moment you walk in the door
I'm done for

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Kate Walsh's song, "Trying" speak of the struggle to pretend to be someone else in order to fit in or be accepted by others. The persona in the song feels unappreciated for who they really are and feels like they are forced to put on a façade. However, this seems to have no effect on other people, as they only seem to care about throw-away love, love that has no substance and is not meaningful. The persona, therefore, decides to stop trying to be something else and to just be themselves, as they realize that they cannot help who they are and that true love will come their way eventually.


The chorus of the song is repeated twice and emphasizes the idea of not wasting time on meaningless love, but rather, embracing the present and making the most out of life. As the song progresses, the persona seems to have come to terms with their vulnerabilities and is willing to accept their flaws. They acknowledge that they are easily swayed by emotions and that they cannot keep love away, but are still willing to give it a chance.


In the end, the persona seems to have accepted their reality and despite knowing that the person they love will eventually leave, they choose to embrace the moment anyway. The song seems to encourage people to be true to themselves and not to try to be someone else in order to please others. It also reminds us that love should be meaningful and not thrown away.


Line by Line Meaning

I've been trying hard to be somebody else
I have been making an effort to pretend to be someone I am not


But no one can entertain that I could be anything else
However, no one seems to believe that I am capable of being anyone else


Don't waste your time on throw away love, seas the day love
Do not spend your time on relationships that are temporary or meaningless; make the most of every opportunity for love


It seems all you can do is give away love, throw away love
It appears that all you can do is give your love to others, even if it is not reciprocated or appreciated


So I've been trying hard to keep hold of my heart, love is true, they say
Therefore, I have been striving to protect my heart, as it is said that love is meaningful and genuine


I must have been lying to myself anyway
However, I now realize that I have been deceiving myself all along


I'm done with trying
I have given up trying


I can't help what I am, yes I'm easily swayed
I cannot change who I am; I am easily influenced by others


And I can't keep love away, but I don't want to anyway
Although I cannot prevent love from happening to me, I do not wish to stop it from occurring


No, don't waste your time on throw away love, seas the day love
Do not waste your time on superficial relationships, seize the opportunity for genuine love


So I'll just have to except that I'm easily bowled over by you
Therefore, I have to acknowledge that I am easily impressed by you


Though I know that you'll go, so don' throw me a smile
Even though I know you will leave me, please do not give me false hope by smiling at me


Because you know from the moment you walk in the door
You are aware from the very beginning


I'm done for
That I am completely smitten and powerless to resist your charm




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@Biju065

It's kinda crazy that she's still known for greys anatomy and not private practice .....

@maddiewillie132

greys anatomy has more of an audience than private practice did. plus that's where the character originated
:)

@lightsea4205

She is naturally a good story teller, like fun in a natural way, I love her ❤️

@jordanco7380

Omg she is hilarious, people need stop being so sensitive ... This is why I love her , she doesn't give a fuck.

@ax6175

Obviously she was joking, but if you don't know her too well (from interviews, social media etc.), I understand how you might consider it offensive. From what I've seen she's an incredibly funny and caring person. You can tell she cares a lot just from watching the last bit of 13 Reasons Why, where the actors, writers and producers discuss the show. So I'm sure she never meant to offend or hurt anyone!

@vaida476

Mette V I know right

@lizannewhitlow1085

When they talk at the same time, and never let up, I get anxious.

@TheVallex

me too, this interview was a mess, damn

@MariaBeatriz-pt6ci

This is definely the best interview I ever saw

@NathyMabu

Kate Walsh is just so.... <3

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