Lovin' on the Side
Keith Urban Lyrics


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I can't believe it, guess I'll never understand
Seems to me, I'm lookin' at someone who's
an unchanged man
Tell me, what've I gotta do
To make you see that she's always loved you
Right there waitin' in the wings
Unaware of the foolish things you do, think about it
[Chorus]
She would never do a thing to hurt you
And there is nothing she'd ever need to hide
You're takin everything she gives for granted
You got it all and still I don't know why
You're lovin' on the side

If somebody told her 'bout your secret ways
Do you think you'd ever find another
who could take her place
I'd give everything I own
Just to have what you got at home
But still you are never satisfied
Why do you keep lovin' on the side when you know

[Chorus]

Tell me what I've gotta do
To make you see that she always loved you
Right there waitin' in the wings
Unaware of the foolish things you do,
well think about it
You're lovin' on the side
Lovin' on the side





[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Keith Urban's "Lovin' on the Side" depict a situation where someone is in a relationship and cheating. The singer is addressing the person who is cheating, telling them that they have someone else who loves them deeply and is waiting in the wings for them, but they are oblivious to it. The singer asks, "what've I gotta do to make you see that she's always loved you?" They are urging the cheating party to think about their actions and consider the feelings of the person they are cheating on.


The chorus reiterates the same message, that the other person would never do anything to hurt them and there is no reason for them to be hiding anything. The singer asks, "why do you keep lovin' on the side when you know?" which indicates that they are aware of the infidelity and want the cheater to realize the damage they are causing. The song ends on this same note, with the repeated phrase of "lovin' on the side."


Line by Line Meaning

I can't believe it, guess I'll never understand
It's puzzling that you're not happy with what you have.


Seems to me, I'm lookin' at someone who's an unchanged man
You are not ready to change or be committed to one person.


Tell me, what've I gotta do
I need to know what to do to help you see clearly.


To make you see that she's always loved you
To help you understand how much your partner loves you.


Right there waitin' in the wings
Your partner is always there waiting for you to notice them.


Unaware of the foolish things you do, think about it
Your partner doesn't know that you're doing foolish things behind their back.


She would never do a thing to hurt you
Your partner always has your best interests at heart and would never intentionally hurt you.


And there is nothing she'd ever need to hide
Your partner has nothing to hide and is always truthful to you.


You're takin everything she gives for granted
You're not appreciating all the love and effort your partner puts into the relationship.


You got it all and still I don't know why
You have everything you need in your partner, yet you chose to look for love elsewhere.


If somebody told her 'bout your secret ways
If someone were to reveal your infidelity to your partner.


Do you think you'd ever find another who could take her place
Would you be able to find someone who would love you as much as your current partner does?


I'd give everything I own
I would do anything to be in your position and have a loving partner.


Just to have what you got at home
To have the love and commitment that you have with your partner.


But still you are never satisfied
Even with all the love and commitment from your partner, you are still not content.


Why do you keep lovin' on the side when you know
Why do you continue to be unfaithful while knowing how much your partner loves you.


Tell me what I've gotta do
I want to help you see the light and make amends.


Unaware of the foolish things you do, well think about it
You need to realize how much your partner loves you and stop doing foolish things behind their back.


You're lovin' on the side
You're being unfaithful and seeking love elsewhere instead of appreciating the love you have at home.


Lovin' on the side
Continuously cheating on your partner and not being satisfied with the love at home.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: KEITH LIONEL URBAN, MARK RONALD HOLDEN

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Comments from YouTube:

Ruth Boykin

Great song! I don't recall hearing this song before. Love Keith Urban. Thank you John!

john sandiford

Glad you enjoyed it Ruth

Bethy-Lou

Terrified song. Like the voice, lyrics and music. Thank you.

john sandiford

Thanks for listening Beth

John Lewandowski

Great song! Presents a good question and good lesson!

john sandiford

Thanks for listening John

Primrose Haran

Fantastic singer Keith Great voice and song thanks for the lovely post

john sandiford

Glad you enjoyed it Primrose

Rosemary Downey

Awesome song keith urban is a great singer amazing artist thank you john enjoying all of this awesome music blessings to you all 👍👍

john sandiford

Glad you enjoyed it Rosemary

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