Appreciate Me
Kelis Lyrics


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I want ya, I need ya
I wake up first to feed ya
You're the only one I ever really loved (you're the man above)
I've been conquered and lovin' to you
You know all the real things I've been through, yeah
You rescue me when everyone has let me down
Like a soldier, you protect me from what's goin' down
But you better remember - talk to me like a lady
I know that you ain't crazy

[Chorus:]
Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)

Runnin' in the streets, you are the man
But when you come home, respect who I am
Keep it gangsta 'cause you 1ive on the block
But when you step inside the door, give the key to your heart
I'm not tryna wear the pants, they fit you right
But I'm your wife so in these hands, you put your life
Hold me like your baby, treat me like your lady
'Cause I know you ain't crazy

[Chorus:]

Just hold me close - I love you near
One look at you and I see so clear
The reason you won't let me down
'Cause I feel you in my heart
It's like I'm floatin' way up off the ground





[Chorus:]

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Kelis's song "Appreciate Me" speak of a woman's need for her partner to acknowledge and respect her. The first verse highlights the singer's dependence on her partner, who she wakes up early to care for. She affirms her love for him and the struggles they have overcome together. However, this does not mean her kindness should be taken for weakness. The chorus repeats the phrase "don't take my kindness for weakness" multiple times as a statement of her desire for recognition and appreciation.


In the second verse, the singer addresses her partner's street persona, reminding him that while he may be a tough guy on the block, at home, he needs to treat her with respect and love. She affirms her desire to be his partner, not to control him. She closes the verse by repeating the sentiment that he needs to appreciate her.


The final verse is a declaration of love and trust. The singer wants her partner to hold her and treat her like a lady, assuring him that she knows he is not crazy. The chorus repeats once more, reiterating the importance of appreciating her.


Line by Line Meaning

I want ya, I need ya
I desire your love and I depend on it to fulfill me


I wake up first to feed ya
I make sure that you are taken care of and provided for


You're the only one I ever really loved (you're the man above)
You are the only person I have truly loved and I view you as a higher power


I've been conquered and lovin' to you
I have surrendered myself to you and willingly show love to you


You know all the real things I've been through, yeah
You are aware of all the struggles and hardships that I have faced


You rescue me when everyone has let me down
You come to my aid when others have abandoned or disappointed me


Like a soldier, you protect me from what's goin' down
You defend and safeguard me from any harm or danger


But you better remember - talk to me like a lady
You should show me respect and treat me with dignity


I know that you ain't crazy
I understand that you are not irrational or insane


Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't mistake my benevolent nature for vulnerability, appreciate me instead


Runnin' in the streets, you are the man
When you are outside in the world, you are a dominant and powerful figure


But when you come home, respect who I am
When you enter our house, acknowledge and honor my identity and worth


Keep it gangsta 'cause you 1ive on the block
Maintain your toughness and streetwise demeanor because that is where you come from


But when you step inside the door, give the key to your heart
But when you enter our home, open your heart and show me affection


I'm not tryna wear the pants, they fit you right
I am not trying to dominate or control the relationship because you are the rightful leader


But I'm your wife so in these hands, you put your life
However, as your partner, you entrust me with your life and well-being


Hold me like your baby, treat me like your lady
Embrace me tenderly like you would a child and treat me with respect and courtesy like a lady


'Cause I know you ain't crazy
I know that you are not insane or irrational


Just hold me close - I love you near
Just embrace me tightly - I feel love when I am close to you


One look at you and I see so clear
A single glance at you clarifies and reminds me of my affection for you


The reason you won't let me down
The reason I trust that you won't disappoint me


'Cause I feel you in my heart
Because I feel a deep connection and love for you within my heart


It's like I'm floatin' way up off the ground
It feels like I am weightless and euphoric when I am with you


Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't mistake my benevolent nature for vulnerability, appreciate me instead


Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't mistake my benevolent nature for vulnerability, appreciate me instead


Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't mistake my benevolent nature for vulnerability, appreciate me instead


Don't take my kindness for weakness (appreciate me)
Don't mistake my benevolent nature for vulnerability, appreciate me instead




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAMON ELLIOTT, DAMON W. ELLIOTT, KELIS ROGERS

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