The More We Try
Kenny Loggins Lyrics


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Some lessons are forever
Never need to change
Write and the word is written
Then we turn the page

Some lessons take forever
Time and time again
Caught in a battle that you can't surrender
And can never win

You tried to make me the boy of your dreams
Ones that you never could find
You thought you saw your face in mine

The more we try
The more we just get lonely
Though you've shown me how
The things you say are true

The lesson learned, is no concern
If you don't even know me
To need love is all
I really learned from you

The more we try
The more we just get lonely
Though you've shown me how
The things you say are true

The lessons learned, are no concern
'Cause you don't even know me
Sure you've done what you can do




But when all our time is through
To be loved is all I ever needed of you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Kenny Loggins's song, The More We Try, highlight the importance of learning lessons that are timeless and never-changing. The opening lines suggest that some lessons are so critical that once they are learned, they need not be changed but rather applied again and again. The act of writing and turning the page is symbolic of taking note of those valuable lessons and moving on to the next chapter in life.


However, the song also suggests that some lessons take longer to learn and may even result in being stuck in a fight that cannot be won. The line "caught in a battle that you can't surrender and can never win" describes a sense of hopelessness, suggesting that there are some lessons that may not be worth the effort required to learn them.


The second half of the song seems to express a relationship that is one-sided. The lyrics depict being pushed to become someone else, to live up to an unattainable standard. This attempt to make the singer into the “boy of your dreams” speaks to the experience of being trapped in someone else's expectations, and the difficulty of ever fulfilling them. The more they try, the more they feel isolated and alone, despite the lessons learned. In the end, the singer finds that what they really needed and wanted was love, and it was never given to them authentically.


Overall, the song serves as an ode to the importance of learning lessons that will serve us throughout life but also a warning to be careful who we allow to influence and shape us. It suggests that sometimes the lesson we need to learn is not about what we gain or achieve but rather about what we need and deserve in terms of love and authenticity.


Line by Line Meaning

Some lessons are forever
There are lessons that last eternally


Never need to change
And they won't ever require adjustment


Write and the word is written
Express it, and it becomes fact


Then we turn the page
And move on to the next chapter


Some lessons take forever
Some learning experiences seem eternal


Time and time again
Repetition is key


Caught in a battle that you can't surrender
Stuck in a dilemma where there's no way out


And can never win
Where victory isn't an option


You tried to make me the boy of your dreams
You aimed to turn me into your wishful thinking


Ones that you never could find
The ones you could never locate


You thought you saw your face in mine
You believed that you found your reflection in me


The more we try
The harder we attempt to achieve


The more we just get lonely
The more isolated we become


Though you've shown me how
Even if you've demonstrated the proper technique


The things you say are true
Your words hold validity


The lesson learned, is no concern
The takeaway isn't relevant


If you don't even know me
Unless you have no genuine comprehension of who I am


To need love is all
That craving for affection and connection is everything


I really learned from you
That's the most significant message I received from you


Sure you've done what you can do
Undoubtedly, you did your best


But when all our time is through
At the end of our journey


To be loved is all I ever needed of you
All I ever needed from you was to feel loved




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: EVA EIN LOGGINS, KENNETH CLARK LOGGINS

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