You're My Incentive
Kevin Devine Lyrics


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Your bearings are shot
And your car don't work
Like she used to
Your friends don't call

And they don't even bother
With offering excuses
The t.v is on
But it's always on

So it's useless
It's just the awful news
And the sorry truth
That we're definitely sinking

so I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you
You'll just hurt your chest
And your face'll turn bright blue
This is how it's gonna be

This is how it's gonna be
This is how it'll be
And there's nothing that we can do
And if you start believing that
I'll stop holding my breath too

you've been praying for change
But you ain't been to church since the 10th grade
And you cry at your job
Don't believe in your vote

And never celebrate your birthday
So you set up a dinner
To make you feel less desperate and worthless
But your dad gets drunk
So your mom throws a fit
While your man hits on the waitress

so I wouldn't waste my time if I were you
You'll just snap your spine
I'll just strip away your youth
This is how it's gonna be
This is how it's gonna be

This how this'll be
And there's nothing we can do
Yeah and if you start believing that
I'll stop wasting my time too

Yeah and if you start believing that
I'll stop wasting my time too




'Cause you're my incentive
And if you go, I'll go too

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Kevin Devine's song You're My Incentive speak to the frustration one often feels when life seems stagnant and unsatisfying. The first section describes a situation in which everything seems to be falling apart. The car doesn't work, friends are distant, and the TV is a constant source of bad news. The singer warns against holding out hope because things are unlikely to improve, and he doesn't want to see anyone get hurt in the process.


The second section is more introspective, focusing on the individual's feelings of hopelessness and their futile attempts to change things. They haven't been to church in years and have lost faith in the political system. They try to arrange a dinner to lift their spirits but end up feeling even worse due to familial drama and infidelity. The message here seems to be that, despite being aware of what's wrong, the person is unable to take meaningful action to improve their situation.


The final lines of the song reveal the reason why the singer cares so much about the other person's well-being. They are each other's motivation to keep going, and without the other, they don't see a purpose in continuing. Despite the bleakness of the lyrics, there is a sense of mutual reliance and compassion between the two characters.


Line by Line Meaning

Your bearings are shot
You've lost your direction and sense of purpose


And your car don't work
Your means of transportation is unreliable


Like she used to
It's not as good as it once was


Your friends don't call
Your relationships have faded away


And they don't even bother
Your friends don't make an effort to keep in touch


With offering excuses
They don't even bother with an explanation


The t.v is on
You spend your time watching meaningless things


But it's always on
It never turns off and you're always distracted


So it's useless
It's not making any positive contribution to your life


It's just the awful news
It's only negativity and sadness that you're consuming


And the sorry truth
The reality is harsh and disappointing


That we're definitely sinking
Things are only getting worse and it's hard to remain hopeful


so I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you
Don't expect things to get better anytime soon


You'll just hurt your chest
You'll only be disappointed and hurt yourself


And your face'll turn bright blue
You'll be dejected and sad


This is how it's gonna be
This is the unfortunate reality


This is how it'll be
Things are unlikely to change


And there's nothing that we can do
The situation feels hopeless and out of our control


And if you start believing that
If you accept that fate


I'll stop holding my breath too
I'll stop hoping for change as well


you've been praying for change
You've been hoping for something better


But you ain't been to church since the 10th grade
You haven't seen the possibility of hope in a long time


And you cry at your job
Your work is not fulfilling and brings you to tears


Don't believe in your vote
You don't see any power in your political choices


And never celebrate your birthday
You don't find joy in anything, even on your special day


So you set up a dinner
You try to make something happen


To make you feel less desperate and worthless
To regain some sense of self-worth and hope


But your dad gets drunk
Things still don't go according to plan


So your mom throws a fit
Your family dynamic is dysfunctional


While your man hits on the waitress
Even your closest relationships are disappointing


so I wouldn't waste my time if I were you
Don't try to make things happen that won't


You'll just snap your spine
You'll only be disappointed and hurt yourself further


I'll just strip away your youth
I'll stop trying to make you happy and hopeful


This how this'll be
This is the unfortunate reality


And there's nothing we can do
The situation is out of our control


Yeah and if you start believing that
If you accept that fate


I'll stop wasting my time too
I'll stop trying to make things better as well


'Cause you're my incentive
The only reason I keep trying


And if you go, I'll go too
If you give up, I have no reason to keep trying




Lyrics © THE BICYCLE MUSIC COMPANY
Written by: KEVIN PATRICK DEVINE

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