Birds of a Feather
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By the nape of my neck you can hand me down, to forge a little more in the quiet that we found. So just to say anything, you say that you love me. Only so much time you can waste on me, there's only so much time you can waste on me. And sometimes I believe in God punishing for lack of faith, so just to say anything I say that I love you too. Only so much time, you can waste on me, there's only so much time you can waste on me. You feel fat and I feel ugly. Together we don't like anybody. I feel sick 'cause I know your gonna run, but I can't blame you.




Overall Meaning

The opening line of "By the nape of my neck you can hand me down, to forge a little more in the quiet that we found" establishes the tone and theme of the song. The lyrics speak to the idea of being reliant on a partner in a relationship, albeit not in a healthy way. The metaphor of 'handing me down by the nape of my neck' implies a control that the singer in the song is willing to submit to in exchange for a semblance of peace during their time together. The idea of forging something 'in the quiet that we found' suggests that this relationship is founded on their mutual desire for tranquility.


The next line, "So just to say anything, you say that you love me," points to the idea that these two characters have little to say to each other, and therefore rely on empty declarations of affection as a way to fill the silence. The line "Only so much time you can waste on me, there's only so much time you can waste on me" suggests that despite the evident incompatibility, these two people are staying together out of fear of being alone.


The next few lines talk to the singer's struggle with faith and his belief in God punishing him for his lack thereof. The lines "And sometimes I believe in God punishing for lack of faith, so just to say anything I say that I love you too" suggest that the singer's declaration of love is rooted in fear rather than genuine emotion. The final lines of "You feel fat and I feel ugly. Together we don't like anybody. I feel sick 'cause I know you're gonna run, but I can't blame you" further point to the idea that the relationship is toxic, and both parties are aware of it but unwilling to do anything about it.


Line by Line Meaning

By the nape of my neck you can hand me down, to forge a little more in the quiet that we found.
You can control me and use me to deepen the intimacy we share.


So just to say anything, you say that you love me.
You say you love me just to fill the silence, without truly meaning it.


Only so much time you can waste on me, there's only so much time you can waste on me.
You have limited patience and tolerance for my flaws and insecurities.


And sometimes I believe in God punishing for lack of faith, so just to say anything I say that I love you too.
I fear divine retribution for not loving you enough, so I force myself to reciprocate your feelings.


You feel fat and I feel ugly. Together we don't like anybody.
We both struggle with self-esteem and rely on each other for validation, isolating ourselves from others.


I feel sick 'cause I know your gonna run, but I can't blame you.
I'm aware that you'll eventually leave me, but I can't fault you for it because I'm not enough.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@drusticc5667

By the nape of my neck you can hand me down
To forge a little more in the quiet that we found
So just to say anything
You say that you love me
Only so much time
You can waste on me
There's only so much time you can waste on me

And sometimes I believe in God
Punishing for lack of faith
So just to say anything
I say that I love you too
Only so much time
You can waste on me
There's only so much time you can waste on me

You feel fat and I feel ugly
Together we don't like anybody
I feel sick cuz I know you're gonna run
But I can't blame you



All comments from YouTube:

@mrclean4850

One of the best songs ever written tbh

@plebula_9894

True

@BLOKKSTAR

💯

@Ottrond

what a sad thing it is to believe you're unworthy of love

@TheHuskiePhil

Here from a Frog skate video, song is incredible.

@beemelonhead1

Same homie. Frog rips

@sprainedankle8547

Nick Michel Evan Wassler

@davy-jonesdevil-fruit7606

Same

@what8546

Which frog video I’ve been looking 😭

@mil3sdagr3at72

Same

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