Kind of Like Spitting has taken a staunchly independent approach to making records and performing, releasing eight records (at latest count) on small DIY indie labels (including but not limited to Hush Records, Barsuk, and Redder Records) , and doing tours across the country in a variety of venues, from the neighborhood house party to the big rock arena. At the core of KOLS is Ben Barnett, singer/songwriter with a talent for writing gut-wrenching tales of life and love.
Ben was previously in an indie rock band called Slotcar and he also played in the original line-up of The Thermals for a while.
David J. has a solo project called Novi Split.
A new record is planned for release in January 2010 under the name Blunt Mechanic. Seattle's Barsuk will release the disc, which will be titled World Record. Barnett debuted the new band at Mississippi Studios in Portland, OR. in August 2009.
Discography
Birds of a Feather
Kind of Like Spitting Lyrics
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The opening line of "By the nape of my neck you can hand me down, to forge a little more in the quiet that we found" establishes the tone and theme of the song. The lyrics speak to the idea of being reliant on a partner in a relationship, albeit not in a healthy way. The metaphor of 'handing me down by the nape of my neck' implies a control that the singer in the song is willing to submit to in exchange for a semblance of peace during their time together. The idea of forging something 'in the quiet that we found' suggests that this relationship is founded on their mutual desire for tranquility.
The next line, "So just to say anything, you say that you love me," points to the idea that these two characters have little to say to each other, and therefore rely on empty declarations of affection as a way to fill the silence. The line "Only so much time you can waste on me, there's only so much time you can waste on me" suggests that despite the evident incompatibility, these two people are staying together out of fear of being alone.
The next few lines talk to the singer's struggle with faith and his belief in God punishing him for his lack thereof. The lines "And sometimes I believe in God punishing for lack of faith, so just to say anything I say that I love you too" suggest that the singer's declaration of love is rooted in fear rather than genuine emotion. The final lines of "You feel fat and I feel ugly. Together we don't like anybody. I feel sick 'cause I know you're gonna run, but I can't blame you" further point to the idea that the relationship is toxic, and both parties are aware of it but unwilling to do anything about it.
Line by Line Meaning
By the nape of my neck you can hand me down, to forge a little more in the quiet that we found.
You can control me and use me to deepen the intimacy we share.
So just to say anything, you say that you love me.
You say you love me just to fill the silence, without truly meaning it.
Only so much time you can waste on me, there's only so much time you can waste on me.
You have limited patience and tolerance for my flaws and insecurities.
And sometimes I believe in God punishing for lack of faith, so just to say anything I say that I love you too.
I fear divine retribution for not loving you enough, so I force myself to reciprocate your feelings.
You feel fat and I feel ugly. Together we don't like anybody.
We both struggle with self-esteem and rely on each other for validation, isolating ourselves from others.
I feel sick 'cause I know your gonna run, but I can't blame you.
I'm aware that you'll eventually leave me, but I can't fault you for it because I'm not enough.
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@drusticc5667
By the nape of my neck you can hand me down
To forge a little more in the quiet that we found
So just to say anything
You say that you love me
Only so much time
You can waste on me
There's only so much time you can waste on me
And sometimes I believe in God
Punishing for lack of faith
So just to say anything
I say that I love you too
Only so much time
You can waste on me
There's only so much time you can waste on me
You feel fat and I feel ugly
Together we don't like anybody
I feel sick cuz I know you're gonna run
But I can't blame you
@mrclean4850
One of the best songs ever written tbh
@plebula_9894
True
@BLOKKSTAR
💯
@Ottrond
what a sad thing it is to believe you're unworthy of love
@TheHuskiePhil
Here from a Frog skate video, song is incredible.
@beemelonhead1
Same homie. Frog rips
@sprainedankle8547
Nick Michel Evan Wassler
@davy-jonesdevil-fruit7606
Same
@what8546
Which frog video I’ve been looking 😭
@mil3sdagr3at72
Same