Independent
Kristy James Lyrics


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First stop at an expectation
I think I'm in the wrong destination
Cause boy you told me that you wouldn't ever waste my time
I bite the bullet now I'm taking chances
Partying in all these fancy dresses
I can't believe I thought that you would be the love of my life

I'm good without you I don't need your comments anymore
I'm free without you I don't need you keeping me behind locked doors

So say what your wanna say
Cause I'm not gonna stay
By living my damn life my own way

Do what you gotta do
Cause baby you and me are through through
Yeah I'm independent

Used to think that I couldn't be without you
Now I know that I was always bound to
Be better than you used to tell me I could ever be
I've been spending time alone
turns out I like it better on my own
these days I prefer my own Company

I'm good without you I don't need your comments anymore
I'm free without you I don't need you keeping me behind locked doors

So say what your wanna say
Cause I'm not gonna stay
By living my damn life my own way

Do what you gotta do
Cause baby you and me are through through
Yeah I'm independent

I'm good without you I don't need your comments anymore
I'm free without you I don't need you keeping me behind locked doors

So say what your wanna say
Cause I'm not gonna stay
By living my damn life my own way

Do what you gotta do
Cause baby you and me are through through
Yeah I'm independent

So say what your wanna say
Cause I'm not gonna stay
By living my damn life my own way

Do what you gotta do




Cause baby you and me are through through
Yeah I'm independent

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Independent" by Kristy James delve into the theme of empowerment and self-discovery after a relationship that turned out to be disappointing and stifling. The song's protagonist begins by expressing a sense of disillusionment and disappointment at the realization that the person they were involved with did not live up to their promises and expectations. The lyrics convey a feeling of betrayal and wasted time, as the singer reflects on believing that this person would be the love of their life.


As the song progresses, the singer asserts their newfound independence and strength, declaring that they no longer need the comments and restrictions imposed by their former partner. There is a clear sense of liberation and self-assertion in the lyrics, as the singer breaks free from the confines of a toxic relationship. The repeated refrain of being "good without you" and "free without you" emphasizes the empowerment that comes from realizing one's worth and autonomy.


The chorus of the song further drives home the message of independence and self-assurance. The singer defiantly proclaims that they will no longer be held back or controlled by anyone else. The repetition of the phrase "I'm independent" serves as a declaration of self-reliance and strength, reaffirming the singer's commitment to living life on their own terms.


In the final verses, the singer reflects on their journey towards self-discovery and self-acceptance. They acknowledge that they were once unsure of their ability to thrive without the other person, but now they have come to appreciate the freedom and empowerment that comes with being alone. The lyrics convey a sense of contentment and inner peace, as the singer embraces their own company and finds fulfillment in their independence. Overall, "Independent" by Kristy James is a powerful anthem of resilience, self-love, and empowerment in the face of adversity.


Line by Line Meaning

First stop at an expectation
Starting to realize that my expectations for you were misguided


I think I'm in the wrong destination
Recognizing that staying with you was a mistake


Cause boy you told me that you wouldn't ever waste my time
Remembering your false promises and realizing you wasted my time


I bite the bullet now I'm taking chances
Taking risks and moving on from you


Partying in all these fancy dresses
Enjoying life and embracing independence


I can't believe I thought that you would be the love of my life
Feeling disappointed in myself for believing in a false love


I'm good without you I don't need your comments anymore
Realizing I am better off without your negative remarks


I'm free without you I don't need you keeping me behind locked doors
Feeling liberated from your controlling behavior


So say what your wanna say
Feel free to speak your mind


Cause I'm not gonna stay
I am determined to move forward


By living my damn life my own way
Living life on my own terms


Do what you gotta do
You do you, I'll do me


Cause baby you and me are through through
Accepting that our relationship is over


Yeah I'm independent
Embracing my independence and self-reliance




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Cheryl James

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Comments from YouTube:

Michael Candy

A very polished performance and awesome music to listen to. Keep up the great work Kristy and band. 👏

Chris Boots lee

Excellent work! best wishes with it!

Mudduck's 4wd Touring

This is just brilliant. Cheers Steve

Riley O'Brien

Dear Kristy James love your video my grandfather is Grahame O’Brien he is in your video anyway you did a very good job

Kristy James

Thank you! Your grandfather is a brilliant actor! We love him

lea calais

This is awesome - commenting for Mick Piller - he stumbled across your name on Facebook last night. We are on our way to Sydney so that’s why I’m posting. We are going to listen to the others now!

Kristy James

Oh haha yeah a little step up lol... Mell is my sister :))) she’s pretty clever

lea calais

Leacalais is my YouTube name but my actual name is Leanne. When we looked at the other videos I thought I spotted Mel Brady in the video - Michael and I have seen her at karaoke - and we thought we were seeing things till I saw she did your make up in one of the videos - which looks fab by the way. We thought it was funny in this clip there is a poker table😉 - a bit fancier looking than the tables at the bushwhackers!

Kristy James

lea calais hey thank you! Have a great trip!

Grahame O'Brien

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