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Lace Lyrics


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(Giselle Brohman/Jason Barry)
(Track 8 - Time 4:54)

There's a little two-room house just outside of town
With a little picket fence and the blinds pulled down
A wife with two young kids
She sees them off to bed
As she waits for her husband to come home

Lately she's been doing a lot of thinking
About the arguments and why she's hurting
Is it worth the extra mile
To hang on for a little while
When she's had all the heartache she can stand
And her mama's words still echo in her head

Girl, he can't talk without his hands
What's made you stay this long I don't understand
If you leave now you might still have a chance
'Cause girl, he can't talk without his hands

There's a little two-room house just a few miles down
The little girl's grown up and she's married now
Tears on a window pane
With a baby on the way
As she waits for her husband to come home

She calls her mama up on the telephone
She says it's getting dark and I'm all alone
Can we talk for a little while
Mama says what's the matter child
But she knows that her baby's been misled
And her mama's words still echo in her head

She said, girl, he can't talk without his hands
What's made you stay this long I don't understand




If you leave now you might still have a chance
'Cause girl, he can't talk without his hands

Overall Meaning

The song "He Can" by Lace tells the story of two women in different stages of their lives, who are both in relationships with men that mistreat them. The first woman is a wife and mother who has reached her breaking point in her marriage. She's been doing a lot of thinking about the arguments and heartache she's endured and she's questioning if it's worth staying. Her mother's words echo in her head, "girl, he can't talk without his hands," and she's considering leaving for her and her children's safety.


The second woman is the daughter of the first woman, now grown up and married herself. She too is waiting for her husband to come home, but she's starting to see the same patterns in her relationship that her mother experienced. She calls her mother for comfort and advice, and once again hears her mother's words, "girl, he can't talk without his hands." This highlights the cyclical nature of abusive relationships, and how patterns of behavior can be passed down from generation to generation.


Overall, the song sheds light on the emotional toll of abusive relationships and how difficult it can be to break free, even when the signs are clear. It also emphasizes the importance of listening to loved ones and trusting their instincts when it comes to matters of the heart.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a little two-room house just outside of town
The story starts in a little house located just outside of town.


With a little picket fence and the blinds pulled down
The house has a picket fence and the blinds are lowered.


A wife with two young kids
The wife in the house has two young children.


She sees them off to bed
The wife is putting the children to bed.


As she waits for her husband to come home
The wife is waiting for her husband to come home.


Lately she's been doing a lot of thinking
The wife has been having deep thoughts lately.


About the arguments and why she's hurting
The wife is thinking about the arguments that led to her current emotional pain.


Is it worth the extra mile
She wonders if the effort is worth it.


To hang on for a little while
She is contemplating holding on for a little bit longer.


When she's had all the heartache she can stand
Despite her previous efforts, she has reached her limit of emotional pain.


And her mama's words still echo in her head
Her mother's advice from the past still resonates with her.


Girl, he can't talk without his hands
Her mother reminds her that her husband cannot communicate without physical actions.


What's made you stay this long I don't understand
Her mother wonders why she has been staying in the relationship for so long.


If you leave now you might still have a chance
Her mother believes that leaving now provides a chance for a better future.


'Cause girl, he can't talk without his hands
Her mother reminds her once more that her husband cannot communicate effectively without physical actions.


There's a little two-room house just a few miles down
In the second half of the story, there's another small house just a few miles away.


The little girl's grown up and she's married now
The little girl from the first half of the story has grown up and is married now.


Tears on a window pane
There are tears on a windowpane in the second house.


With a baby on the way
The woman in the second house is pregnant.


As she waits for her husband to come home
She is waiting for her husband to come home, just like the woman in the first half of the story.


She calls her mama up on the telephone
The woman reaches out to her mother for advice.


She says it's getting dark and I'm all alone
The woman is worried as it's getting dark and she's by herself.


Can we talk for a little while
The woman asks her mother if they can talk for a while.


Mama says what's the matter child
Her mother asks her what's wrong.


But she knows that her baby's been misled
The woman knows that her husband has misled her in some way.


And her mama's words still echo in her head
Once again, her mother's advice echoes in her head.


She said, girl, he can't talk without his hands
Her mother reminds her again that her husband cannot communicate effectively without physical actions.


What's made you stay this long I don't understand
Her mother again expresses disbelief as to why she has stayed for so long.


If you leave now you might still have a chance
Her mother tells her that leaving now might still provide a chance for a better future.


'Cause girl, he can't talk without his hands
Once again, her mother drives home the point that her husband lacks effective communication skills.




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@HopeDealer63

This was New York at its best. I am from NC but because I went to A&T with so many New Yorkers and having relatives there in the summer. I absorbed all the music. Made many cassettes with Shep Pettibone, Timmy Regisford. As a dj, thats how I created my style. Its the music, but its also painting the picture. This music in the late 70's early 80's provided an amazing canvass! I truely feel that all the best music has been made! No disrespect. just my opinion.

@57dms

When Larry played this cut at the Paradise Garage, the crowd danced on the WALLS! This song moved the crowd like few other soulful records could at the Big G. It is an experience, as long as I live on this side of this system of things, I will never forget! Keep Bangin!!!

@derekwalters1932

I still get GOOSE BUMPS !!! hearing this tune.. DJ Derek B. Nowhere and Nothing can come close to the Paradise Garage...The best FUCKIN' Sound Around...

@Rubmer

I remember leaving the garage around 10 am heading with my best friend to Rockaway beach, we would be under the water and we could hear this song. Larry had played the shit out of it , couldnt get it out of our ears. lol

@hardcorehouse

I'll always associate this NYC production with the purest of Paradise Garage and NYC memories from the golden era late 70s-early 80s. NYC, the world's incubator for today's most popular dance musics.

@michaelelam5631

Still fabulous after 31 years! Brings back wonderfully, wicked memories from my many nights at the Garage.

@hardcorehouse

On of the many NYC classic Garage productions from back in the day. NYC, the world's incubator for house, rap, hip hop, electro...

@Oldschool4evr

Been to the Garage a few times, But I was a straight up ZANZIBAR head, We did our thing in NEWARK, N.J. and for the record I'm over 45.....

@dadancingdeacon

Sooooo glad I had that experience. A young man coming from Houston, TX and walking into the Paradise Garage. Oh, the stories I could narrate from my perspective during the early 80's. Fab-u-lous!

@avp0713

All the NYC clubs, Jersey clubs, LI clubs... they all rocked this... and I been to ALL them clubs...

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