Song for Our Daughter
Laura Marling Lyrics


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Though they may want you
To tread in their trail
Only to see if the path they set fails
Though they may want you to take off your clothes
Whatever they think that the action exposed

With your clothes on the floor
Taking advice from some old balding bore
You'll ask yourself
Did I want this at all
Do you remember what I said
The book I left by your bed
The words that some survivor read

Lately I've been thinking
About our daughter growing old
All of the bullshit that she might be told
There's blood on the floor
Maybe not, I believe her for sure
She remembers what I said
The book I left by her bed
The words that some survivor read

Though they may take you
For all you had left
You won't be forgotten
For what you had not done yet

So you asked for a kiss from God
And you moan childless loss
Innocence gone, but it's not forgot
You'll cut your way through it somehow

You remember what I said
The book you left by your bed




The words that we all have lived
The debt

Overall Meaning

Laura Marling's "Song for Our Daughter" is a poignant ode to the strength and resilience of women in the face of societal pressures and expectations. The first verse is a warning to the daughter that the world will try to influence her choices and make her follow in their footsteps, but it's important to not succumb to that. Marling highlights the patriarchal views of society that often judge women for their actions and choices, especially when it comes to revealing their bodies. She encourages the daughter to listen to her own voice and not let anyone else tell her what to do.


However, the second verse is a reflection of Marling's own fears for her daughter growing up and being impacted by the same societal pressures. She worries about the misinformation and myths that society perpetuates, which might cloud her daughter's judgement and decision-making. She assures her daughter that even though there may be times when she might be misled, she will always remember what her mother taught her through the book left by her bed.


The last verse acknowledges that even if the daughter goes through tough times, she is strong enough to get through them. It's a reminder that she is not defined by society's expectations of her and that she has the power to make her own choices. Marling ends the song on a note of hope, celebrating the debt of survival and resilience that has been passed down through generations of women.


Line by Line Meaning

Though they may want you
They may try to influence you


To tread in their trail
To follow in their footsteps


Only to see if the path they set fails
Just to prove that their way is not the only way


Though they may want you to take off your clothes
They may try to make you vulnerable


Whatever they think that the action exposed
Whatever they think they can gain from seeing you vulnerable


With your clothes on the floor
With your guard lowered


Taking advice from some old balding bore
Following the advice of someone who doesn't understand your situation


You'll ask yourself
You'll question your own decisions


Did I want this at all
Did I really choose this path


Do you remember what I said
Remember my words of caution


The book I left by your bed
The lessons that I shared with you


The words that some survivor read
The experiences that others have learned from


Lately I've been thinking
I'm contemplating


About our daughter growing old
Concerned about our daughter's future


All of the bullshit that she might be told
All the lies and manipulations she may encounter


There's blood on the floor
Someone has been hurt


Maybe not, I believe her for sure
I trust her perspective


She remembers what I said
She's heeding my advice


The book I left by her bed
The wisdom that I gave her


The words that some survivor read
The experiences that others have shared


Though they may take you
Even if they take everything from you


For all you had left
For what you have left to give


You won't be forgotten
You'll still be remembered


For what you had not done yet
For the things you have yet to accomplish


So you asked for a kiss from God
You prayed for guidance


And you moan childless loss
Regretting not having started sooner


Innocence gone, but it's not forgot
You've lost your naivety but not your determination


You'll cut your way through it somehow
You'll find a way forward


The debt
The price that we all pay to survive




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: George Jephson, Laura Marling

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Comments from YouTube:

pazer

This song alone deserves 10 Grammys. It's the human soul in the form of music.

Matthew Woodley

I've been a fan of Laura's music for so many years and it just grows more and more beautiful.

Emiliano Rios Villarreal

Esto realmente me tocó el corazón de una forma que no puedo explicar

Parkhi Nagar

Congrats on the Grammy Nomination!!!!❤❤❤

Fiona Fey Music

Clicked through to see what was new, strange synchronicity, I also put out a song called 'For You' this week. (At the time a song for an unborn child who is now 16 m/o ❤)
Another gorgeous lot of songs from Laura Marling, that's my night sorted :)

anthony green

Beautiful and emotive. As always.

Stuart Coles

She sings to my heart

Garret Henderson

This is one of the best songs I've ever heard.

HeartSinking

Gorgeous song ❤️

Bes

So beautiful ❤

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