Heartaches By The Number
Leroy Van Dyke Lyrics


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Heartache number 1 was when you left me
I never knew that I could hurt this way
And heartache number 2 was when you come back again
You came back but never meant to stay

Now I've got heartaches by the number
Troubles by the score
Every day you love me less
Each day I love you more
Yes, I've got heartaches by the number
A love that I can't win
But the day that I stop counting
That's the day my world will end

Heartache number 3 was when you called me
And said that you was coming back to stay
With hopeful heart I waited for your knock on the door
I waited but you must have lost your way

Now I've got heartaches by the number
Troubles by the score
Every day you love me less
Each day I love you more
Yes, I've got heartaches by the number
A love that I can't win




But the day that I stop counting
That's the day my world will end

Overall Meaning

Leroy Van Dyke's song "Heartaches by the Number" describes the heartaches experienced by the singer due to a failed relationship. Heartache number one occurred when she left, and he did not know the extent to which it would cause him pain. Heartache number two was when she returned, but her intention was not to stay, which added to his pain. The singer proceeds to narrate that his love for her keeps increasing, but her love for him keeps dwindling. He has multiple heartaches and troubles, and his love for her seems unrequited. Nevertheless, he continues to count his heartaches and troubles every day, as that signifies his love for her.


One can interpret this song as a portrayal of unrequited love, a theme that is common in many love songs. It highlights the struggle of trying to keep a romantic relationship alive while one partner seems disinterested. The persona in the song appears to be putting in more effort into the relationship than the other party, which is causing him heartaches and troubles. This situation can be relatable to many individuals who have experienced similar circumstances in their relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Heartache number 1 was when you left me
The first of my many pains came when you abandoned me


I never knew that I could hurt this way
I had no idea that I could feel such great pain


And heartache number 2 was when you come back again
The second heartache came when you returned, but had no intention of staying


You came back but never meant to stay
Although you reappeared, it was only temporarily and not to stay with me


Now I've got heartaches by the number
I suffer from countless heartaches


Troubles by the score
My problems seem to be never-ending


Every day you love me less
With each passing day, your love for me is diminishing


Each day I love you more
Simultaneously, I fall more deeply in love with you


Yes, I've got heartaches by the number
The pains I feel are innumerable


A love that I can't win
My love for you is hopeless and cannot be reciprocated


But the day that I stop counting
However, the day that I finally stop keeping track


That's the day my world will end
Is the day that my life will crumble into nothingness


Heartache number 3 was when you called me
The third heartbreak occurred when you phoned me


And said that you was coming back to stay
And told me that you were going to remain with me


With hopeful heart I waited for your knock on the door
Filled with hopefulness, I eagerly waited for you to arrive at my door


I waited but you must have lost your way
But alas, you never showed up - perhaps you lost your way




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Comments from YouTube:

anthony belcher

Awesome song

Sondra Smith

Brings back memories of me singing this as a child all the time.

Sonny Dave

Good version of the much covered Harlan Howard classic.

Nilani Siriwardena

FABULOUS. LOVE IT SO MUCH.

Sondra Smith

I could reach people with my voice then and now.

John Benn

WOW WOW WOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
From a ma keen 74yo Aussie fan..

Jack Fischer

This is real country music

Lester Beedell

Why do people feel the need to downvote a video, if you don’t like it then surely just move on?

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If this is earl you left me 🥺

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