Wrecking Ball
Lifehouse Lyrics


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I'm alone, wandering in your space
Waiting for a sign of life
Looking so out of place
Then you whisper to me, it doesn't matter what you say
I feel the weight against the wind
The demolition of me caving in

And I'm always swinging on this wrecking ball
While you're building up and breaking down my wall
You push and pull, you give and take
And through it all I gravitate to you

I'm a fool, a mechanical tool for you
You've got all the switches and levers to blow my cool
And when you know I'm broken
That's when you come shining through
You set me up to knock me down
And leave my shattered pieces on the ground

And I'm always swinging on this wrecking ball
While you're building up and breaking down my wall
(I'm not ready to break)
You push and pull, you give and take
And through it all I gravitate to you

You set me up to knock me down
And leave my shattered pieces on the ground

And I'm always swinging on this wrecking ball
While you're building up and breaking down my wall
(I'm not ready to break)




You push and pull, you give and take
And through it all I gravitate to you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Lifehouse's "Wrecking Ball" describe a tumultuous relationship between two people where one person feels constantly torn down by the other. The singer describes feeling alone and out of place, waiting for a sign of life, while the other person seems to have all the power and control over them. Despite this, the singer gravitates towards the other person, even though they know they are being used and broken down. The metaphor of the wrecking ball is used to describe this relationship, with the singer feeling like they are constantly swinging back and forth between being torn down and built up by the other person.


The lyrics suggest that the other person is manipulating and using the singer, setting them up to be knocked down and leaving them shattered on the ground. However, the singer seems unable to break away from this toxic dynamic, gravitating towards the other person even as they continue to be torn down. The use of mechanical imagery - with the singer describing themselves as a "mechanical tool" - adds to the sense that this relationship is one-sided and lacking in genuine emotional connection.


Overall, "Wrecking Ball" is a powerful song that captures the emotional turmoil of a toxic relationship, where one person holds all the power and control over the other.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm alone, wandering in your space
Feeling isolated and disconnected, I am aimlessly moving about in your environment


Waiting for a sign of life
Hopeful for any indication of vitality or activity from you


Looking so out of place
Appearing clearly different and displaced among the surroundings


Then you whisper to me, it doesn't matter what you say
When you speak softly to me, I am comforted even if your words are inconsequential


I feel the weight against the wind
I sense the impact of the obstacles that are pushing against me


The demolition of me caving in
I am gradually collapsing and crumbling from outside pressure


And I'm always swinging on this wrecking ball
Like a pendulum, I am continuously swaying back and forth on this destructive force


While you're building up and breaking down my wall
As you construct and dismantle my defenses, alternatingly strengthening and weakening them


You push and pull, you give and take
You exert contradictory and inconsistent influence on me, vacillating between generosity and selfishness


And through it all I gravitate to you
Despite the turmoil you cause, I am compelled to come closer to you


I'm a fool, a mechanical tool for you
I am foolishly and mechanically functioning to fulfill your desires


You've got all the switches and levers to blow my cool
You know exactly how to make me lose control, manipulating every button and dial


And when you know I'm broken
Once you realize that I am damaged and vulnerable


That's when you come shining through
That's when you suddenly appear and save me


You set me up to knock me down
You intentionally create conditions for me to fail and falter


And leave my shattered pieces on the ground
Resulting in me being completely broken and ruined, lying on the floor


I'm not ready to break
I am not prepared or willing to completely fall apart


You push and pull, you give and take
You continue to exert controlling and influencing power over me


And through it all I gravitate to you
Despite the turmoil you cause, I am compelled to come closer to you




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing
Written by: Jude Anthony Cole, Bryce Soderberg, Jason Wade, Rick Woolstenhulme

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