So Sorry I Said
Liza Minnelli Lyrics


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If this is a ghetto, I'm in it with you
If it's just a prison, I'm locked in it too
I tried to leave you but after all that we had said
I went to pieces when I should have shouted and screamed instead
So sorry, I said

Your powers of persuasion, those quizzical eyes
Have tired and tied me with innocent guile
I would have walked out and after all the tears we shed
I should have stalked out gone and painted the town bright red but instead
So sorry, I said

How tough it gets, don't talk to me about it
To pay off your debts, I worked on overtime
And you say you never believed in luck

If you need a reason, consider me mad
An old retainer, loyal and sad
I bought my freedom but after all that we had shared
I couldn't leave you, think of the skins I'd have to shed instead
So sorry, I said




So sorry, I said
So sorry, I said

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of "So Sorry, I Said" expressed a sense of resigned loyalty to the significant other. The singer is saying that she will be with her partner regardless of what difficulties may come their way, that she is in this ghetto and prison as much as he is. The lyrics reflect a relationship that has not been easy and the singer has tried to leave before, but had not been successful. The second verse speaks to the partner's power of persuasion and the hold that he has over her. The singer had thought of leaving before, but the partner played on her emotions so much that she could not imagine leaving him. It is a testament to the power of love that ties individuals and keeps them in relationships that are difficult.


The third verse talks of the sacrifices that the singer has made for her significant other. She has worked overtime to help pay off his debts, and yet he still does not believe in luck. The last verse talks about why the singer cannot leave the partner, and it's that she has already bought her freedom but cannot bring herself to leave him. She imagines that she would have to shed too many skins to begin again and that it is better to stay with the devil she knows.


The song is a poignant depiction of the complexities of love and the difficulties that come with having to make tough decisions. It is a melancholic ballad that speaks of the struggles of long-term relationships and the bonds that keep individuals together. The song's meaning is very relatable to anyone who has been in a difficult romantic relationship and has had to choose between leaving or staying.


Line by Line Meaning

If this is a ghetto, I'm in it with you
I am committed to you, even if it means facing hardship and adversity.


If it's just a prison, I'm locked in it too
I am willing to be with you, even if it means being confined and trapped in a challenging situation.


I tried to leave you but after all that we had said
I attempted to part ways, but our shared history made it difficult for me to walk away.


I went to pieces when I should have shouted and screamed instead
I suffered a breakdown and regret not expressing my emotions more assertively at the time.


Your powers of persuasion, those quizzical eyes
I am drawn to your ability to influence and charm me with your intriguing gaze.


Have tired and tied me with innocent guile
Your innocent yet crafty ways have exhausted me and bound me to you.


I would have walked out and after all the tears we shed
I was prepared to end things between us, despite the emotional pain it would cause.


I should have stalked out gone and painted the town bright red but instead
In hindsight, I should have left and enjoyed myself instead of staying, but I didn't.


How tough it gets, don't talk to me about it
I cannot handle any more difficulties, so please refrain from discussing any hardships with me.


To pay off your debts, I worked on overtime
I went above and beyond to help you pay off your debts, even if it meant sacrificing my own time and energy.


And you say you never believed in luck
You claim to be skeptical of luck and chance, despite depending on it to get us out of tight situations.


If you need a reason, consider me mad
I am deeply devoted to you, even if it means being labeled as crazy or irrational.


An old retainer, loyal and sad
I have been a long-time supporter and follower of yours, but it has made me unhappy and melancholic.


I bought my freedom but after all that we had shared
I thought that I could escape our relationship by purchasing my freedom, but our shared history made it impossible for me to move on.


I couldn't leave you, think of the skins I'd have to shed instead
I felt that I was too deeply ingrained in our relationship to leave, even if it meant having to change my entire identity and personality.


So sorry, I said
I apologize for my mistakes and for not being able to leave you, even though I know it would be best for both of us.


So sorry, I said
I feel remorseful and regretful for my actions and words.


So sorry, I said
I express my apologies and ask for forgiveness.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CHRISTOPHER LOWE, NEIL TENNANT

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@edgarfilho6129

Lyric:
If this is a ghetto, I'm in it with you
If it's just a prison, I'm locked in it too
I tried to leave you but after all that we had said
I went to pieces when I should have shouted and screamed instead
So sorry, I said
Your powers of persuasion, those quizzical eyes
Have tired and tied me with innocent guile
I would have walked out and after all the tears we shed
I should have stalked out gone and painted the town bright red but instead
So sorry, I said
How tough it gets, don't talk to me about it
To pay off your debts, I worked on overtime
And you say you never believed in luck
If you need a reason, consider me mad
An old retainer, loyal and sad
I bought my freedom but after all that we had shared
I couldn't leave you, think of the skins I'd have to shed instead
So sorry, I said
So sorry, I said
So sorry, I said



@tatakajaia2965

If this is a ghetto, I'm in it with you
If it's just a prison, I'm locked in it too
I tried to leave you but after all that we had said
I went to pieces when I should have shouted and screamed instead
So sorry, I said

Your powers of persuasion, those quizzical eyes
Have tired and tied me with innocent guile
I would have walked out and after all the tears we shed
I should have stalked out gone and painted the town bright red but instead
So sorry, I said

How tough it gets, don't talk to me about it
To pay off your debts, I worked on overtime
And you say you never believed in luck

If you need a reason, consider me mad
An old retainer, loyal and sad
I bought my freedom but after all that we had shared
I couldn't leave you, think of the skins I'd have to shed instead
So sorry, I said
So sorry, I said
So sorry, I said



All comments from YouTube:

@tuco359

я уже и забыл, как прекрасна эта песня

@user-st5gy7ep7o

I discovered this song in 2020 and I’m speechless how good is it. I now listen to it every day.

@TheFireline

discovered it today :-)

@evg931

Прекрасная песня!💎💐🍇💖

@BernardProfitendieu

I discovered it in 1989 - 30+ years of listening to it and it still sounds good!!

@allanhernandez2508

Beautiful song. Well done Pet Shop Boys and Liza Minnelli!

@user-sc3jb1ve3n

А я - в1990 (или в 91?) . Благодаря интернету "нашел" её в 2017! Песня - непередаваемо грустно-прекрасная. Обожаю творчество Лайзы! Женщина с трудной и тяжёлой судьбой

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@RBS_

...an elegant, subdued Liza, singing with sophisticated flair, about someone, who is so fearful of being alone, they apologize to their emotionally abusive lover with self-defeatist, insecure, & masochistic tendency....& looks sublime, while doing it...So Sorry, LIZA said.....

@nathanfarias1051

Totally agreed .. always wanted her to continue in this direction .. one slight critique of the album is they restrained her voice a bit too much .. in interviews they wanted a more subdued delivery.. but I think a little more of her theatrical delivery would have worked better ..

@francoisgouws7288

Wonderful comment!

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