Killing Me Softly With His Song
Lori Lieberman Lyrics


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Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song
Telling my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song

I heard he sang a good song
I heard he had a style
And so I came to see him to listen for awhile
And there he was this young boy, a stranger to my eyes

Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song
Telling my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song

I felt all flushed with fever
Embarrassed by the crowd
I felt he found my letters and read each out loud
I prayed that he would finish But he just kept right on

Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song
Telling my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song

He sang as if he knew me
In all my dark despair
And then he looked right through me as if I wasn't there
And he just kept on singing
Singing clear and strong

Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song




Telling my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song

Overall Meaning

In Lori Lieberman's "Killing Me Softly With His Song," the lyrics convey a deep and emotional response to hearing a song that speaks directly to the singer's innermost thoughts and feelings. The opening lines, "Strumming my pain with his fingers/Singing my life with his words/Killing me softly with his song," suggest that the singer feels as though the songwriter has found a way to reach into her very soul and express everything she has been feeling but unable to articulate. The repetition of "Killing me softly with his song" reinforces this sense of being deeply moved and affected by the music.


The second verse introduces the songwriter himself, who is described as being young and unfamiliar to the singer. She has come to hear him based on what she has heard of his abilities, and is immediately struck by the power of his performance. The line "And there he was this young boy, a stranger to my eyes" suggests that, while she may be drawn to his music, she does not necessarily know him personally.


The final verse describes the singer's emotional response to hearing the song, which causes her to feel "flushed with fever" and embarrassed by the attention of the crowd around her. However, she is also intensely moved by the experience, as the songwriter seems to sing directly to her and express all of the pain and darkness she has been carrying inside. The lines "He sang as if he knew me/In all my dark despair/And then he looked right through me as if I wasn't there" suggest that the song has the power to make the singer feel both seen and unseen at the same time, as if the songwriter has the ability to understand her completely while also expressing something almost transcendent.


Line by Line Meaning

Strumming my pain with his fingers
He plays the guitar in a way that expresses the deep emotional pain I feel inside.


Singing my life with his words
The lyrics of his song perfectly describe and express my life experiences and emotions.


Killing me softly with his song
His song touches me so deeply that it feels like he is taking my breath away.


Killing me softly with his song
The impact of his song on me is so strong that I feel like I am slowly dying.


Telling my life with his words
His song tells a story that is so close to my own experiences and emotions that it feels like he is narrating my life.


Killing me softly with his song
His song is so powerful and emotional that it feels like it is destroying me from the inside out.


I heard he sang a good song
I had heard rumors that he was an excellent singer and songwriter.


I heard he had a style
I had also heard that he had a unique and compelling musical style.


And so I came to see him to listen for awhile
I was curious to hear him perform live and experience his music for myself.


And there he was this young boy, a stranger to my eyes
When I finally saw him perform, I was struck by how young he was and how I didn't know him at all.


I felt all flushed with fever
I was overcome with strong emotions and feelings while listening to him sing.


Embarrassed by the crowd
I felt self-conscious being surrounded by so many people while experiencing such intense emotions.


I felt he found my letters and read each out loud
His lyrics resonated so deeply with me that it felt like he had somehow found and exposed my private thoughts and feelings.


I prayed that he would finish But he just kept right on
Despite feeling overwhelmed, I didn't want him to stop singing and I was eager to hear more of his music.


He sang as if he knew me
His singing style and lyrics felt incredibly personal, as if he intimately understood and related to my experiences and emotions.


In all my dark despair
His lyrics acknowledged the depth of my pain and the difficult experiences that had brought me to that point.


And then he looked right through me as if I wasn't there
Despite his intimate knowledge of my emotions, he remained distant and detached, almost as if he was singing to a larger audience rather than to me specifically.


And he just kept on singing
Despite my complicated emotional reaction to his music, he simply continued to perform with the same intensity and emotion.


Singing clear and strong
His singing was powerful and impactful, drawing in the audience and captivating them with every word.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@marclewis150

I heard he sang a good song
I heard he had a style
And so I came to see him
To listen for a while
And there he was, this young boy
A stranger to my eyes
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G C
Am7 D
Em
Am7 D7
G B7
Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song
Telling my whole life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Em Am D7 G
Em Am D C
G C
Fmaj7#11 E
I felt all flushed with fever
Embarrassed by the crowd
I felt he found my letters
And read each one out loud
I prayed that he would finish
But he just kept right on
Am7 D
G C
Am7 D
Em
Am7 D7
G B7
Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song
Telling my whole life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Em Am D7 G
Em Am D C
G C
Fmaj7#11 E
He sang as if it he knew me
In all my dark despair
And then he looked right through me
As if I wasn't there
But he was there, this stranger
Singing clear and strong
Am7 D
G C
Am7 D
Em
Am7 D7
G B7
Strumming my pain with his fingers
Singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Killing me softly with his song
Telling my whole life with his words
Killing me softly with his song
Em Am D7 G
Em Am D C
G C
Fmaj7#11 E



All comments from YouTube:

@omiinahellcat

She’s the original version she wins no debate

@lindafoxwood78

I wish I could play any musical instrument! Musicians have always been people I admire! I have one song in the Library of Congress with a copywrite. I have to wait for ever get it for sales. The name is "Merry Little Christmas"; it is so beautiful. Thank you so much for enjoying my video.

@tomm1109

It isn't necessarily a competition. It's a form of respect to put your own spin on a song and give it a new life. Their is a time and a place for both versions. I prefer the upbeat Fugee's version, but that doesn't mean I can't respect the lyrics, melody and vocals of this verison.

@repeater08

If you know the orign of the song and why it was written and think about it when hearing the song, then the original version wins hands down. Each main version has it's place and they were popular for obvious reasons. But, this song hits differently when you know what it's about.

@DGot14U

Of course not. No one remakes bad songs.

@bushwacka5187

No debate.

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@robertsaca3512

This original is better than all the future covers of it, can't believe it took me decades to hear the original.

@Debbiesdilemmas

This is just beautiful. I can’t believe this version wasn’t successful. The words are basically how we all connect with music. Our love of music comes from how the lyrics resonate within us. I had to come and hear the original and so happy that I did.🥰

@lindafoxwood78

Thanks for listening

@hardipsinghgura3728

Love this ...sooooo powerful

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