Boys Don't Cry
Lostprophets Lyrics


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I would say I'm sorry
If I thought that it would change your mind
But I know that this time
I have said too much
Been too unkind
I try to laugh about it
Cover it all up with lies
I try and laugh about it
Hiding the tears in my eyes
Because boys don't cry
Boys don't cry
I would break down at your feet
And beg forgiveness
Plead with you
But I know that it's too late
And now there's nothing I can do
So I try to laugh about it
Cover it all up with lies
I try to laugh about it
Hiding the tears in my eyes
Because boys don't cry
Boys don't cry
I would tell you
That I loved you
If I thought that you would stay
But I know that it's no use
That you've already
Gone away
Misjudged your limit
I pushed you too far
Took you for granted
I thought that you needed me more, more , more...
Now I would do most anything
To get you back by my side
But I just keep on laughing
Hiding the tears in my eyes
Because boys don't cry
Boys don't cry




Boys don't cry
Boys don't cry

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Lostprophets' song Boys Don't Cry describes the remorse and regret felt by the singer, who has lost someone they love due to their own mistakes. The singer acknowledges that they have said and done things that were unkind, and that they have misjudged the other person's limits. Despite wanting to apologize and beg for forgiveness, the singer knows that it is too late and nothing they say or do can change what has happened.


The chorus, "boys don't cry," adds a layer of complexity to the song. It suggests that the singer is trying to conform to societal expectations of masculinity, which dictate that men should not express vulnerability or show their emotions. Instead of openly weeping and begging for forgiveness, the singer tries to hide their tears and laugh off their pain. The repetition of the phrase emphasizes the pressure that the singer feels to keep their emotions bottled up and suggests that this pressure may have contributed to the breakdown of the relationship.


As a whole, the song highlights the destructive nature of toxic masculinity, which places unrealistic expectations on men and discourages them from expressing their emotions openly. It also highlights the devastating consequences that can result from miscommunication and taking someone for granted.


Line by Line Meaning

I would say I'm sorry
I regret my actions and wish to apologize


If I thought that it would change your mind
I am aware that my apology may not fix the situation


But I know that this time
This is not the first time I have made mistakes


I have said too much
I have crossed the line with my words


Been too unkind
My behavior towards you has been unfair


I try to laugh about it
I try to hide my pain and discomfort with humor


Cover it all up with lies
I deceive others about how I truly feel inside


Hiding the tears in my eyes
I don't want others to see my vulnerability and sadness


Because boys don't cry
As a male, I am expected to be strong and not show emotions


I would break down at your feet
I would show extreme emotion and vulnerability in front of you


And beg forgiveness
I would plead with you for your forgiveness


Plead with you
I would beg earnestly for your mercy


But I know that it's too late
I recognize that there may be no way to fix the situation


And now there's nothing I can do
I have no power or control over the current situation


I would tell you
I wish to express something important and meaningful to you


That I loved you
I have deep affection and caring towards you


If I thought that you would stay
I would express my love if I believed it would make you stay


But I know that it's no use
I understand that my feelings may not change the outcome


That you've already gone away
You have already left and moved on from our relationship


Misjudged your limit
I overestimated how much you could handle or tolerate


I pushed you too far
I went too far with my actions or words towards you


Took you for granted
I did not appreciate or value you enough


I thought that you needed me more, more , more...
I had an inflated sense of my importance in your life


Now I would do most anything
I am willing to do anything to reconcile with you


To get you back by my side
I desire to have you back in my life and close to me


But I just keep on laughing
I continue to cover up my pain and try to move on


Boys don't cry
I am reluctant to express my true emotions


Boys don't cry
I feel pressure as a male to hide my vulnerability and emotions


Boys don't cry
The idea that men should not cry is ingrained in our society




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