The Man I Love
Lou Donaldson Lyrics


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I often wonder why he came to me
Brought such a flame to me

And let it die
And if another love should find my heart
It will remind my heart of your goodbye

With every new love you
Will come back to me
In others eyes, its you I see
If I love again
Though its someone new

If I love again
It'll still be you
In someone else's firm embrace
I'll close my eyes but see your face

If I love again
I'll find other charms
But I'll make believe, you are in my arms
And though my lips whisper

"I love you"
My heart will not be true




I'll be loving
Every time I love again

Overall Meaning

Lou Donaldson's song "If I Love Again" deals with the idea of finding new love while still holding on to memories of a past love. The singer is grappling with the experience of moving on from somebody that he cared about deeply, but is struggling to let go. The first verse starts by questioning why this past love came into his life in the first place, bringing a passionate feeling with it only to let it die. This feeling of loss and betrayal is echoed throughout the song, as the singer comes to terms with the idea that he'll never fully move on.


The next few verses further emphasize this idea of struggling to move on, as the singer notes that every new love he experiences will remind him of the past love. They'll see the old love's face in the eyes of a new flame, unable to truly let go. The idea of holding onto the past is even more fully realized in the lines "And though my lips whisper 'I love you', my heart will not be true. I'll be loving every time I love again". The singer is acknowledging that they will never be able to fully commit to a new love, as they'll always be comparing it to the old love.


Overall, the song portrays a realistic, but melancholy view of love. It recognizes that sometimes we can't just move on from past loves and that they'll continue to haunt us even as we move on to new ones.


Line by Line Meaning

I often wonder why he came to me
I ponder about why he chose me


Brought such a flame to me
Brought passion into my life


And let it die
He let the passion diminish


And if another love should find my heart
If I fall in love again


It will remind my heart of your goodbye
I will recall our farewell


With every new love you
With every new love interest


Will come back to me
Your memory will still linger


In others eyes, its you I see
I visualize you in their place


If I love again
If I love someone else


Though its someone new
Despite being someone new


It'll still be you
It'll still feel like it's you


In someone else's firm embrace
In the arms of someone else


I'll close my eyes but see your face
In my mind, I'll see your face


If I love again
If I give love another chance


I'll find other charms
I'll discover other qualities to adore


But I'll make believe, you are in my arms
But I'll pretend you're still holding me


And though my lips whisper
Even if I say


"I love you"
"I love you"


My heart will not be true
But my heart won't be sincere


I'll be loving
I'll be loving


Every time I love again
Every time I fall in love anew




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MURRAY JACK, BEN OAKLAND, JACK MURRAY

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Peter Palaj

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