Anderson charted 12 No. 1, 18 Top 10, and more than 50 Top 40 hits. In addition to being named "Top Female Vocalist" by the Academy of Country Music (ACM) twice and "Female Vocalist of the Year" by the Country Music Association (CMA), Anderson won a Grammy Award (earning seven nominations), People's Choice Award and an American Music Award (AMA). She was named Billboard's Female Artist of the Decade (1970–1980).
Anderson was the first female country artist to win the American Music Award (in 1974), as well as the first to headline and sellout Madison Square Garden that same year.
Anderson debuted in 1966, at the age of 19, and had her first hit with Ride, Ride, Ride. After a series of Top 10 hit singles on the country charts during the late 1960s, Anderson signed with Columbia Records in 1970. Under Columbia, she had her most successful string of hits. Her signature song, "(I Never Promised You a) Rose Garden", remains one of the biggest selling country crossover hits of all time. In addition, the song also went to No. 3 on the Billboard Pop Chart and reached the top of the charts in several countries, an unprecedented achievement at the time. CMT ranks "Rose Garden" at No. 83 on its list of the "100 Greatest Songs in Country Music History". Anderson continued to record and remained a popular concert attraction until her death, regularly headlining major casino showrooms, performing arts centers and theaters.
She grew up in Sacramento, California with her mother, acclaimed singer-songwriter Liz Anderson who wrote "The Fugitive" and "(All My Friends Are Gonna Be) Strangers", both Merle Haggard hits, among others. She began her solo career in 1966 with "In Person", followed by a hit with her mother's "If I Kiss You (Will You Go Away)".
In 1968 she married Glenn Sutton, a future Nashville Songwriters Hall of Fame inductee, with whom she had a daughter, Lisa. (They divorced in 1977.)
Consistent hits followed, and she was a regular on The Lawrence Welk Show during the 1967-68 season. In 1969 Anderson signed to Columbia where her work veered a bit more toward a polished, pop sound. She released her signature song, "Rose Garden" in late 1970. The song, written by Joe South, won a Grammy Award for Best Female Country Vocal Performance reached number 1 on the U.S. country charts, and also hit number 3 on the pop charts, as well as being a hit in fifteen countries. Anderson also received Grammy nominations for her recordings "Big Girls Don't Cry" (1968), "That's a No No" (1969), and "How Can I Unlove You" (1971)> Anderson's other hits during this period included "You're My Man", "Listen to a Country Song", "Top of the World" (a number 1 country record for Anderson before becoming a pop hit for The Carpenters), "Cry", "Keep Me in Mind", "What a Man My Man Is" and "Smile For Me". In 1971, she was voted Top Female Vocalist of the year by both the Academy of Country Music and Country Music Association. Anderson charted eight no.one singles, 18 Top-Tens and earned a total of 17 international Gold records. She was perhaps the most in-demand country female vocalist on network television throughout the 1970's but after 1975 her records usually peaked in the top 20 as opposed to her earlier top ten success.
Anderson married a Louisiana businessman in 1978. The second marriage produced two more children, and she was divorced in 1982.
Anderson remained one of the top female country singers into the 1980's. Her last top ten record was 1984s "You're Welcome to Tonight". During the late 1980's and early 1990s, she received much press for her disputes with her now-divorced second husband. After spending time on her ranch, raising horses and participating in equestrian events, she began recording again in 1992.
"The Bluegrass Sessions", released in 2004, earned Anderson her first Grammy nomination in over 30 years.
That same year Anderson was arrested in Denton, Texas, for drunk driving.
The American Rose Society created and named in her honor a white and raspberry hybrid tea rose.
Anderson released a new CD of original songs entitled "Cowgirl" in 2006, all of the songs penned by her mother, the acclaimed songwriter Liz Anderson.
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Lynn Anderson Lyrics
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How can I undo the things that we used to do?
Tell me how can I unfeel the way I feel for you?
How can I unlove you?
How can I untight the hold that you got on me?
When you won't unchain my heart and set me free
I can't unremember every memory
I'll never, never uncry the tears
That I cried when you said goodbye
No, I'll never, never unmiss
The thrill that I missed when we used to kiss
How can I unsay the things I said to you?
And how can I undo the things that we used to do?
Tell me how can I unfeel the way I feel for you?
How can I unlove you?
Woah, I'll never, never uncry the tears
That I cried when you said goodbye
No, I'll never, never unmiss
The thrill that I missed when we used to kiss, oh
How can I unsay the things I said to you?
How can I undo the things that we used to do?
And tell me how can I unfeel the way I feel for you?
How can I unlove you?
How can I unlove you?
How can I unlove you?
Lynn Anderson's song "How Can I Unlove You" is a heart-wrenching ballad about the pain of trying to move on from a former lover. The singer of the song is grappling with the impossibility of erasing the memories and emotions tied to their past relationship. They lament, "How can I unsay the things I said to you? How can I undo the things that we used to do? Tell me how can I unfeel the way I feel for you? How can I unlove you?" These questions are powerful and poignant, capturing the struggle of trying to let go of someone who has left a lasting mark on your heart.
The song also acknowledges the physical and emotional hold that the former lover still has on the singer. They say, "How can I untight the hold that you got on me? When you won't unchain my heart and set me free." Despite the singer's efforts to move on, they are still held captive by their feelings for this person.
The song is a moving tribute to the complexities of love and heartbreak. Despite the pain, the singer acknowledges that they will never forget the memories they shared with their former love. The song's raw emotion and powerful lyrics have resonated with listeners for decades.
Line by Line Meaning
How can I unsay the things I said to you?
I wish I could take back everything I said to you that hurt you.
How can I undo the things that we used to do?
I wish I could go back in time and erase all the things that we did together.
Tell me how can I unfeel the way I feel for you?
I wish I could stop feeling the love that I have for you, but I don't know how to do it.
How can I unlove you?
I wish I could make my heart stop loving you, but I don't know how.
How can I untight the hold that you got on me?
I wish I could break free from the grip that you have on my heart, but it's a hold that I can't seem to let go of.
When you won't unchain my heart and set me free
I feel like I'm trapped in love with you because you won't let me go.
I can't unremember every memory
All the memories that we made together are still so vivid in my mind, and I can't forget them.
I'll never, never uncry the tears that I cried when you said goodbye
I'll never be able to forget the pain that I felt when you left me.
No, I'll never, never unmiss the thrill that I missed when we used to kiss
I'll always remember the feeling of excitement and passion that I had when we kissed.
Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: Joe South
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