In Person
Lynn Anderson Lyrics


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You gave the heart you gave to me in person
You made the vows you made to me in person
Then when your love has lost all its glow you said your friend to let me know
I wish you would have told me so in person

You placed your ring upon my hand in person
You should have got it back again in person
But so afraid my tears will start you said your friend to do your part
You really should have broke my heart in person

If love is gone what I can understand but it hurts so much to hear it second hand
You once appeared at my front door in person
You won't appear there anymore in person




And though you send so what you prove to tell me that our love was true
I know I'll still be missing you in person I know I'll still be missing you in person

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Lynn Anderson's song "In Person" tell a story of a love gone wrong, with a sense of betrayal and regret. The song expresses the disappointment and hurt felt by the singer because their lover chose to communicate the end of their relationship through a friend rather than facing them directly. The phrase "in person" is used throughout the song to emphasize the importance of personal interaction and communication in matters of the heart.


The first verse focuses on the promises made by the lover, highlighting the significance of their actions and presence. The singer feels a sense of betrayal as their lover, instead of confronting them directly, sends a friend to deliver the news of their lost love. The singer expresses a longing for their lover to have been honest and upfront with them, suggesting that the pain would have been easier to bear if delivered "in person."


In the second verse, the singer reflects on the symbol of commitment, the ring, given to them by their lover. They express disappointment and frustration that their lover did not take the effort to retrieve the ring themselves, leaving it to a friend. The singer believes that their lover should have faced the consequences of their actions and broken their heart directly "in person."


The chorus emphasizes the hurt and confusion experienced by the singer upon hearing about the end of their love through someone else. It is clear that hearing about the breakup secondhand only intensifies their pain, emphasizing the importance of personal communication in matters of love and intimate relationships. Despite the hurt, the singer still admits to missing their lover, underscoring the deep emotions attached to the relationship.


Overall, "In Person" explores the themes of personal connection, betrayal, and regret, highlighting the importance of honest and direct communication in relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

You gave the heart you gave to me in person
You personally shared your love and affection with me


You made the vows you made to me in person
You directly made promises and commitments to me


Then when your love has lost all its glow you said your friend to let me know
When your feelings for me faded, instead of telling me yourself, you asked a friend to break the news


I wish you would have told me so in person
I would have preferred if you had been honest and told me directly


You placed your ring upon my hand in person
You personally gave me an engagement ring


You should have got it back again in person
You should have come to retrieve the ring yourself


But so afraid my tears will start you said your friend to do your part
You were scared that witnessing my emotions would upset you, so you sent a friend to handle the situation


You really should have broke my heart in person
It would have been more considerate if you had ended the relationship face to face


If love is gone what I can understand but it hurts so much to hear it second hand
I can accept that love can fade, but it is incredibly painful to learn about it from someone else


You once appeared at my front door in person
There was a time when you used to come to my house in person


You won't appear there anymore in person
Now you won't come to my house anymore


And though you send so what you prove to tell me that our love was true
Even though you send messages, it doesn't prove that our love was genuine


I know I'll still be missing you in person
I am aware that I will continue to feel the absence of your physical presence


I know I'll still be missing you in person
I am certain that I will still long for your personal companionship




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ELIZABETH ANDERSON

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Comments from YouTube:

cheryl taylor

I haven't heard this song in a long time. still beautiful

jann frank

Love Lynn’s music and always will. RIP, Lynn Rene Anderson.

Terry Rudenick

I loved Lynn's version so much as a kid, I had to record it myself. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kx1m3FZrKvU

Leon Grizzard

Love these old songs listened to them as a child looker
for them for quite awhile so happy to go down u tube made me happy and smile

Rebecca D

Lovely .Enjoying Thank you

Jermin Baldoue

The games of life reality song miss lyn

C R

There used to be a song on this album called, "Mr. Walker it's all over." I've been trying to find that song on here and can't. It used to be on here.

Terry Rudenick

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qpMmTOH687E

Chad Gilmore

It’s on this CD I bought this No. 9

C R

Eva Lehde Lynn Anderson does cover the song and it's very good!

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