Born in New York City, his jazz work was chiefly in the hard bop, post-bop and free jazz genres. He is known for his distinctive chord voicings and adaptable style, which was originally inspired by the playing of Thelonious Monk.
After obtaining a B.A. in music from Queen's College, New York, he worked in New York City in the early 1950s with Ike Quebec, "Big" Nick Nicholas, and rhythm and blues groups. He worked frequently with Charles Mingus from 1954 to 1956 and was Billie Holiday's regular accompanist from 1957 until her death in 1959. He also supervised recording sessions for Prestige Records, for which he provided arrangements and compositions (including the jazz standard "Soul Eyes"). After Holiday's death he chiefly led his own groups.
Waldron had a unique playing style. He played chords in a lower bass part of the keyboard, and is comparable to Bud Powell in his dissonant voices. His solo style is in noted contrast to players like Red Garland.
He was frequently recorded, both as a leader and sideman, with, among others, John Coltrane, Eric Dolphy, Clifford Jordan, Booker Little, Steve Lacy, Jackie McLean and Archie Shepp.
Besides performing he composed for films (The Cool World, Three Bedrooms In Manhattan and Sweet Love Bitter), theatre, and ballet. In 1963 he had a major nervous breakdown, and had to re-learn his skills, apparently by listening to his own records. Waldron's playing style re-emerged more brooding, starker and percussive, combining bebop and avant-garde melodies, and at times weaving repetitive melodic motifs using just a few notes over a drone like accompaniment figure. After working on a film score in Europe he moved there permanently in 1965 initially living in Munich, Germany and in his last years he was based in Brussels, Belgium. On the principle that working at local venues reduced his fee, he avoided playing in the city in which he lived. He regularly returned to the United States for bookings.
Through the 1980s and 1990s he worked in various settings with Steve Lacy, notably in soprano-piano duets playing their own compositions as well as Monk's.
After some years of indifferent health, though continuing to perform, Waldron died in December 2002 in Brussels, Belgium.
You Don't Know What Love Is
Mal Waldron Lyrics
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'Til you've learned the meaning of the blues
Until you've loved a love you've had to lose,
You don't know what love is.
You don't know how lips hurt
Until you've kissed and had to pay the cost,
Until you've flipped your heart and you have lost,
Do you know how a lost heart fears
At the thought of reminiscing,
And how lips that taste of tears
Lose their taste for kissing?
You don't know how hearts burn
For love that can, not live yet never dies.
Until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes,
You don't know what love is.
The lyrics of Mal Waldron's "You Don’t Know What Love Is" express how one can only appreciate and understand the existence of true love when one has experienced heartbreak and the pain of love lost. The opening line “You don’t know what love is” is repeated throughout the song and followed by examples of what love is not. The first verse explains how love cannot be known until it is lost, and one has loved someone they have had to let go. The second verse describes how love can be painful due to the hurt and cost that may come with loving someone. The third verse talks about how the fear of losing love may consume one’s mind and how tears can make the idea of kissing someone unappealing. The final verse explains how real love burns so intensely, it is hard to forget, and even though it cannot be lived, it never really dies.
Overall, "You Don't Know What Love Is" highlights the emotional intensity of love that seems impossible to define; it is not just an idea but something that needs to be experienced. It argues that without going through the suffering that comes with love, one cannot genuinely appreciate the joy that comes with it. This song serves as a reminder that love is not just about happiness and fulfillment but includes vulnerability and pain.
Line by Line Meaning
You don't know what love is
Love is a feeling too deep to be understood until it has truly been experienced.
'Til you've learned the meaning of the blues
You can't fully comprehend love's complexity until you've felt the pain of heartbreak.
Until you've loved a love you've had to lose,
You can't grasp the fragility and beauty of love until it slips away from your grasp
You don't know how lips hurt
Love can bring physical pain that lingers long after a kiss has ended
Until you've kissed and had to pay the cost,
Only those who have had to endure the aftermath of a love lost can understand the true cost of loving someone
Until you've flipped your heart and you have lost,
Losing love can feel like a sudden and unexpected jolt to the heart, leaving one feeling lost and disoriented.
You don't know how hearts burn
The pain of love can be so intense that it feels like a fire inside one's chest.
For love that can, not live yet never dies.
Even though love may not always manifest itself in a physical form, it remains an intense and powerful feeling that endures.
Until you've faced each dawn with sleepless eyes,
The pain of lost love can rob one of the ability to sleep, leaving them to face the day ahead feeling exhausted and drained
Do you know how a lost heart fears
The fear and uncertainty of a broken heart can be all-consuming and overwhelming.
At the thought of reminiscing,
The mere thought of revisiting memories of lost love can be too painful for some to bear.
And how lips that taste of tears
Tears of heartbreak can cause the taste of salt to linger on one's lips, forever reminding them of their pain.
Lose their taste for kissing?
Can love and intimacy ever truly be enjoyed again after being wounded so deeply?
Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DON RAYE, GENE DE PAUL
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