Disconnect
Man Overboard Lyrics


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I drove through Berlin tonight.
Straight shot down the highway and through my chest.
And I thought about missing you and the meaning of the word futile.
I walked around this rainy college campus
on a Sunday for three hours.
I thought about home and how you wouldn’t be there.
And I thought of me and how you just don’t care.
But I could swear I saw your reflection
in the puddle of rain on the concrete.
You were standing next to me and your lips were on my cheek.
And I can swear I feel the dissection
of the whole me when you leave.
And I’ve grown to hate this connection that I weave.
I drowned you in alcohol last night.
But you poked air holes through my chest.




You fought hard to maintain your place in my heart and on my mind.
Connections wearing thin.

Overall Meaning

In Man Overboard's song Disconnect, the singer's thoughts revolve around their longing for a significant other. The singer starts by saying they drove through Berlin at night, where they reminisce about the person they miss and question the point of it all. The singer then walks around a college campus on a rainy day and thinks about their own home and how it won't be the same without the significant other there. The singer then begins to think that the person they miss doesn't care as much as they do. The singer then experiences a hallucination of sorts, imagining the person they miss standing next to them and kissing them on the cheek. However, the singer comes to the realization that the connection between the two was negative and damaging, hence the line "And I've grown to hate this connection that I weave." The song ends with the line "Connections wearing thin," a reference to the breakdown of their relationship.


The song is a heart-wrenching depiction of the impact of a toxic relationship on the psyche of the person affected. Through the lyrics, we see the singer experiencing different stages of grief - denial, anger, bargaining, and finally acceptance - all the while unable to fully disconnect from their significant other.


Line by Line Meaning

I drove through Berlin tonight.
I was driving through Berlin and the feelings of missing you hit me hard like a physical blow.


Straight shot down the highway and through my chest.
The pain of missing you felt like a sudden and direct hit to my chest that I couldn't ignore.


And I thought about missing you and the meaning of the word futile.
As I thought about how much I miss you, I also questioned the point of it all and whether my efforts to move on are worth it.


I walked around this rainy college campus on a Sunday for three hours.
I spent three hours wandering around a rainy college campus, lost in thought and consumed by your absence.


I thought about home and how you wouldn’t be there.
As I walked, my mind drifted to thoughts of home and how empty it feels without you there.


And I thought of me and how you just don’t care.
In my thoughts, I couldn't help but consider how distant and uncaring you seem to be towards me.


But I could swear I saw your reflection in the puddle of rain on the concrete.
As I walked through the rain, I imagined seeing your reflection in a puddle on the ground, feeling your presence all around me.


You were standing next to me and your lips were on my cheek.
In my imagination, you were standing close to me and the sensation of your lips on my cheek was overwhelming and vivid.


And I can swear I feel the dissection of the whole me when you leave.
Whenever you leave, I feel like a part of me is being ripped away, torn apart in a way that leaves me feeling lost and incomplete.


And I’ve grown to hate this connection that I weave.
As our relationship continues to fray and come undone, I find myself resenting the bond we share, knowing how painful it is to keep trying to hold onto something that's slipping away.


I drowned you in alcohol last night.
In an attempt to forget my feelings for you, I tried drowning them out with alcohol.


But you poked air holes through my chest.
No matter how much I try to bury my feelings, they always come back to the surface, leaving me feeling exposed and vulnerable.


You fought hard to maintain your place in my heart and on my mind.
Despite everything, you still hold a significant place in my heart and thoughts, and it's a fight to try and let go of those feelings.


Connections wearing thin.
Our relationship is wearing thin and it feels like it's only a matter of time before it snaps completely.




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John Doe

Hands down, best pop punk band ever.

j3r3mysk8

debatable

Colin FB

In my opinion, the best pop-punk bands of this generation are Man Overboard, The Story So Far, and City Lights. Even though City Lights borders on easycore

tea

Ever.... maybe not. Best band of this pop punk era / resurgence? Yes.

Missing Since Monday

This album has some of the best songs in my opinion. We play pop punk really similar to this, check us out if you've got a minute :)

Lanee

I miss this band a lot.

Michael Whitmire

im in love.

larry stylinson

LITERALLY TWO SECONDS IS AND IDK MAN SOMETHING HAPPENED. I LIKE THIS A LOT OKAY

AllFeelingsAside

Still here

Jack McMahon

Defend Incelcore

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