October Lover
Mating Ritual is the solo dance-rock outfit of Ryan Marshall Lawhon. Based … Read Full Bio ↴Mating Ritual is the solo dance-rock outfit of Ryan Marshall Lawhon. Based in Los Angeles, Lawhon was one-part of Pacific Air, a synth-rock duo with his brother Taylor. In 2014, the siblings put their group on hold so that Taylor could go back to school. Ryan forged ahead with his new project, a bouncy blend of hand-clap arena rock and synth melodies inspired by the '90s electronic and new age inspirations from his childhood, like Laurie Anderson, Ray Lynch, and Enya. Balancing those atmospheric sonics with the spirit of his emo and post-punk influences, Lawhon released his debut single in 2015. "Toxins" unveiled a hook-heavy sound reminiscent of the Naked & Famous, Miike Snow, and Passion Pit. He went on to release a string of other singles that year ("Game," "Moonlight" and "Hum Hum"). For his debut EP, he collaborated with his brother Taylor once again, as well as drummer Rob Humphries and singer Lizzy Land. The four-song self-titled Mating Ritual was released in early 2016. Building upon existing shimmery electronic layers, Lawhon bolstered the songs with some glam rock muscle on "I Can't Dance" and '80s new wave on "Don't Know Your Name." Early 2017 saw Lawhon issue a trio of singles -- "Thief," "Second Hand," and "Drunk" -- in anticipation of the release of his debut full-length How You Gonna Stop It?, which dropped later that June.

October Lover
Mating Ritual Lyrics


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(You are my October lover)
I see the leaf turn brown
And I started to weep,
I start to think to be more like you
Oh it's a Monday night
And I might be asleep
But then I might miss out
On meeting another freak, oh

I don't know
I don't know
I don't know what it means
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know who you are
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know if you're wearing a mask
But I know who you're trying to be
(You are my October lover)
(You are my October lover)

I see the weather app on my telephone
Go below 17 degrees
I see a girl with hair that's not her natural colour
And I know she's looking back at me

I don't know
I don't know
I don't know if you see
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know if you can see me
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know 'cause I'm wearing a mask
But I know who I'm trying to meet
(You are my October lover)
(Yeah, You are my October lover)

(You are my October lover)
(You are my October lover)
(You are my October lover)
(You are my October lover)

(You are my October lover)
(You are my October lover)




(You are my October lover)
(You are my October lover)

Overall Meaning

The song "October Lover" by Mating Ritual talks about loneliness and the search for love in a fast-paced world. The singer describes his infatuation with someone he refers to as his "October Lover," who he sees as a symbol of autumn's changing colors. He expresses sadness for the fading of summer, but acknowledges the beauty of the season and the potential for romantic connections.


The lyrics suggest a longing for companionship that drives the singer to stay awake on a Monday night, afraid of missing out on an opportunity to meet someone new. He acknowledges that he does not know everything about this person or what their intentions are, but he is still drawn to them. The mention of a weather app and a girl with dyed hair emphasizes the unpredictability of finding love and the importance of seizing fleeting opportunities. The repeated line "you are my October lover" reinforces the idea that the singer sees this person as a symbol of beauty and hope.


Overall, the song's lyrics evoke a feeling of wistfulness and a desire for connection. The singer reflects on the changing of the seasons and the fleeting nature of life, while holding onto the hope that love might bring some stability and joy.


Line by Line Meaning

I see the leaf turn brown
I notice the change in seasons and the coming of autumn


And I started to weep,
My emotions overflow as I am reminded of the passage of time and the fleeting nature of life


I start to think to be more like you
I try to emulate your attitude and outlook on life


Oh it's a Monday night
A mundane and unimportant detail of the present moment


And I might be asleep
I am indifferent to the possibility of missing out on opportunities


But then I might miss out
Realizing the consequences of inaction motivates me to take chances


On meeting another freak, oh
I wish to encounter someone special and unique


I don't know
Uncertainty dominates my thoughts


I don't know what it means
I am unsure of the significance of my current experiences


I don't know who you are
I am unfamiliar with the identity of the person I am seeking


I don't know if you're wearing a mask
I am uncertain of the true nature of a person's character


But I know who you're trying to be
Despite my doubts, I sense the intentions and aspirations of others


(You are my October lover)
You embody the essence of the fall season in my eyes, and I am drawn to your spirit and energy


I see the weather app on my telephone
I observe the forecast and prepare for the upcoming changes in temperature


Go below 17 degrees
The arrival of colder weather brings a sense of excitement and anticipation


I see a girl with hair that's not her natural colour
I notice someone who stands out and expresses their individuality through their appearance


And I know she's looking back at me
I sense a mutual attraction or interest


I don't know if you see
I am unsure if the person I seek is aware of my presence or actions


I don't know if you can see me
My doubts extend to my own visibility and impact on the world


I don't know 'cause I'm wearing a mask
My own fears and insecurities prevent me from expressing my true self


But I know who I'm trying to meet
Despite my uncertainties, I am driven by a desire to connect with others


(Yeah, You are my October lover)
Repeating my admiration and attraction to the person who embodies the essence of the fall season




Writer(s): Ryan Lawhon, Taylor Lawhon

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FD

Just best group in the world!
But so underrated...

Daniel Ilcsik

All of their songs are so good how are they still not famous af??????

Michael Minutti

Woo love that nostalgic vibe!

Sheldon Angeles

Que mΓΊsica tan buena!!!!!

slimeyyy. kayyy

This song makes me sad and happy at the same time 😭

teiluj emirak

Manting ritual... Siempre!!.

Dior Veneracion

I see the leaf turn brown
And I started to weep,
I start to think to be more like you
Oh it's a Monday night
And I might be asleep
But then I might miss out
On meeting another freak, oh
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know what it means
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know who you are
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know if you're wearing a mask
But I know who you're trying to be
(You are my October lover)
(You are my October lover)
I see the weather app on my telephone
Go below 17 degrees
I see a girl with hair that's not her natural colour
And I know she's looking back at me
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know if you see
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know if you can see me
I don't know
I don't know
I don't know 'cause I'm wearing a mask
But I know who I'm trying to meet
(You are my October lover)
(Yeah, You are my October lover)

Oscar Benitez

Dooooope! Come back to Vegas!

jose barrios

thanks for this moments

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