I Surrender Dear
Mel Tormé Lyrics


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Pride, sad, splendid liar,
Sworn enemy of love
Kept my lips from saying
Things I was thinking of.
But now my pride you've humbled,
I've cast it to the winds,
Broken, beaten, sick at heart
My confession begins.

We've played the game of stay away
But it cost more that I can pay.
Without you I can't make my way,
I surrender, dear.

I may seem proud, I may act gay,
It's just a pose, I'm not that way,
'Cause deep down in my heart I say
I surrender, dear.

Little mean things we were doing
Must have been part of the game,
Lending a spice to the wooing,
But I don't care who's to blame.
When stars appear and shadows fall,
Why then you'll hear My poor heart call,
To you my love, my life, my all
I surrender, dear.

We've played the game of stay away
But it cost more that I can pay.
Without you I can't make my way,
I surrender, dear.

I may seem proud, I may act gay,
It's just a pose, I'm not that way,
'Cause deep down in my heart I say
I surrender, dear.

Little mean things we were doing
Must have been part of the game,
Lending a spice to the wooing,
But I don't care who's to blame.
When stars appear And shadows fall,




Why then you'll hear My poor heart call,
To you my love, my life, my all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "I Surrender Dear" by Mel Torme describe the singer's feelings of surrendering their pride and confessing their true emotions to a lover. The singer acknowledges their past actions of putting up a façade of pride and bravado, but they now realize that it has only hurt their chance at love. They express regret for the "little mean things" they did while also recognizing that these actions were part of the game of wooing. The singer's heart longs for the lover and they express their willingness to surrender everything to them.


The song captures the desperation and vulnerability that come with confessing one's love. The lyrics paint a picture of a person who is humbled and broken, but in their surrender, they find a sense of freedom and relief. They have cast away their pride, and in doing so, they have found the courage to express their true emotions.


Overall, "I Surrender Dear" is a poignant and emotional song about the risks and rewards of opening oneself up to love. It speaks to the longing and courage that are necessary to find true connection and is a classic example of the standards of love and heartbreak in jazz.


Line by Line Meaning

Pride, sad, splendid liar,
Despite putting on a show of pride, I am actually feeling sad and deceptive.


Sworn enemy of love
My pride has made me push away the possibility of love, seeing it as a threat.


Kept my lips from saying
My pride has prevented me from being honest with myself and the one I love.


Things I was thinking of.
I have been holding back my true feelings and emotions.


But now my pride you've humbled,
You have helped me break down the barriers of my pride.


I've cast it to the winds,
I have let go of my pride and am now more vulnerable.


Broken, beaten, sick at heart
My heart is hurting and I am feeling defeated.


My confession begins.
I am finally admitting my true feelings.


We've played the game of stay away
We have been avoiding each other.


But it cost more that I can pay.
The price of being apart is too high for me to bear.


Without you I can't make my way,
I need you by my side in order to move forward in life.


I surrender, dear.
I am giving into my emotions and admitting my love for you.


I may seem proud, I may act gay,
I may come off as confident and carefree, but that is only a facade.


It's just a pose, I'm not that way,
I am not truly a confident and carefree person.


'Cause deep down in my heart I say
My true feelings and emotions contradict my outward appearance.


Little mean things we were doing
Our actions towards each other may have been hurtful and selfish.


Must have been part of the game,
Our hurtful actions may have been a result of trying to protect ourselves from getting hurt.


Lending a spice to the wooing,
Our playful banter and teasing may have added excitement to our courtship.


But I don't care who's to blame.
The blame for our past actions does not matter, I just want to move forward with you.


When stars appear
During the dark and lonely times of night.


And shadows fall,
When the world seems to be closing in on me.


Why then you'll hear
You will hear me calling out to you.


My poor heart call,
My heart is crying out in pain and longing.


To you my love, my life, my all
You are everything to me.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Integrity Music
Written by: GORDON CLIFFORD, HARRY BARRIS

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