In Love in Vain
Mel Tormé Lyrics


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It's only human for anyone to want to be in love
But who wants to be in love in vain
At night you hang around the hall
And eat your heart out
And cry your eyes out
And rack your brains

You sit and wonder why anyone as wonderful as she
Should cause you such misery and pain
I thought that I would be in Heaven
But I'm only up a tree
'Cos it's just my luck to be in love in vain.

You sit and wonder why anyone as wonderful as he
Should cause you such misery and pain

I thought that I would be in Heaven
But I'm only up a tree





'Cos it's just my luck to be in love in vain.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Mel Tormé's song "In Love in Vain" encapsulate the universal experience of wanting to be in love but the pain and loneliness that can come with unrequited affection. The opening line acknowledges that love is a natural desire for anyone, but it quickly turns to the reality that being in love without reciprocation can be a painful, frustrating experience. As the night wears on, the singer is left alone with their thoughts and emotions, ruminating on what went wrong and why they're feeling such heartache.


The second stanza continues the theme of questioning why this love affair has caused so much pain. The singer draws attention to the fact that the person they love is wonderful, which only adds to the confusion and disappointment they're feeling. They thought that being in love would bring them happiness and fulfillment, but instead, they're left feeling lost and alone, high up in a tree metaphorically speaking.


Overall, these lyrics beautifully communicate the vulnerability and emotional turmoil that come with unrequited love. They will resonate with anyone who has ever found themselves in a similar situation.


Line by Line Meaning

It's only human for anyone to want to be in love
It's a natural human desire to seek love.


But who wants to be in love in vain
No one wants to experience unrequited love.


At night you hang around the hall
You spend your nights alone, longing for your love to return.


And eat your heart out
You anguish over the unreciprocated love, causing emotional distress.


And cry your eyes out
The sadness and pain of unrequited love becomes overwhelming, leading to tears.


And rack your brains
You try to analyze and understand why your love is unreturned, causing mental strain and confusion.


You sit and wonder why anyone as wonderful as she
You can't comprehend why someone so amazing doesn't love you back.


Should cause you such misery and pain
The pain and suffering of unrequited love comes from not being able to attain someone you desire.


I thought that I would be in Heaven
You believed being in a relationship with this person would bring great joy and happiness.


But I'm only up a tree
Instead, you feel lost and stuck in a difficult situation because of unrequited love.


'Cos it's just my luck to be in love in vain.
You feel like it's just your unfortunate fate to experience unreciprocated love.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JEROME KERN, LEO ROBIN

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