Foolin' Yourself
Melanie Lyrics


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Are you fooling
fooling yourself? - Are you fooling
fooling yourself?
Are you fooling
fooling yourself! - Are you fooling
fooling yourself?
To think I was a fool and I've been beaten -
A thought like that just kind of cramps my style.
But I'll get you some day for all your cheating
And from my face you're gonna see a smile.
You should have never told me
that you love me

You knew I'd start believing it some day.
And now you say
you're leaving me for lonely -
Someone else is gonna come my way.
you better take some time and think of what you're doing
Before you through away this harmony.
I don't think you know just who's been loosin'
'cause you've been fooling yourself when you think you're fooling me.
Now I'm the kind of girl who don't mind cryin'
But I ain't gonna shed a tear for you.
Unless you change your ways and stop your lying
I'm gonna change my mind about lovin' you.
You should have never told me
that you love me
. . .
You better take some time and think of what you're doin'
Before you through away this harmony.
'cause you don't realize just who's been loosing

Are you think you're fooling me ?
fooling
fooling yourself -
Are you fooling
fooling yourself ?
Are you fooling




fooling yourself ?
Foolin yourself.

Overall Meaning

In Melanie's song "Fooling Yourself", she addresses the issue of cheating in a relationship. She questions her partner's sincerity and asks if they are fooling themselves by thinking they can get away with cheating on her. She becomes aware of the infidelity and decides to take the matter into her own hands. Melanie acknowledges her own feelings and admits that even though she's been hurt, she's not going to shed a tear for her partner. She makes it clear that she is aware of the cheating and is not going to allow herself to be fooled any longer.


The refrain "Are you fooling, fooling yourself?" is repeated throughout the song, emphasizing the theme of deceit and self-deception. Melanie hints at her partner's hypocrisy and accuses them of trying to deceive her with their lies. Even though she is hurt by the cheating, she remains strong and vows to move on if her partner doesn't change their ways.


Overall, the song is a powerful statement about the importance of honesty and trust in a relationship. Melanie's words encourage listeners to be aware of the dynamics in their own relationships and to confront any behavior that is harmful or dishonest.


Line by Line Meaning

Are you fooling
Asking if the person is deceiving themselves


fooling yourself?
Questioning if the person is deluding themselves


Are you fooling
Reiterating the question of whether the person is lying to themselves


fooling yourself!
Stressing the importance of realizing the truth rather than living in self-delusion


To think I was a fool and I've been beaten
Reflecting on past mistakes and being hurt


A thought like that just kind of cramps my style.
Feeling constrained by negative thoughts


But I'll get you some day for all your cheating
Promising retribution for the other person's infidelity


And from my face you're gonna see a smile.
Vowing to stay strong in spite of hurt


You should have never told me
Blaming the other person for leading them on


that you love me
Specifically referencing the other person's deception


You knew I'd start believing it some day.
Accusing the other person of leading them on intentionally


And now you say
Referencing the other person breaking up with the singer


you're leaving me for lonely -
Expressing betrayal and sense of abandonment


Someone else is gonna come my way.
Looking towards the future with hope for new love


you better take some time and think of what you're doing
Warning the other person to reconsider their choices and reflect on their actions


Before you throwaway this harmony.
Urging the other person to consider the effects of their actions on the relationship


I don't think you know just who's been loosing'
Explaining that the other person is underestimating the cost of their actions


'cause you've been fooling yourself when you think you're fooling me.
Pointing out the other person's failing attempts to deceive the singer


Now I'm the kind of girl who don't mind cryin'
Acknowledging the emotional pain of the situation


But I ain't gonna shed a tear for you.
Rejecting the other person's hold on the singer's emotions


Unless you change your ways and stop your lying
Giving the other person a way to reclaim the singer's love and loyalty


I'm gonna change my mind about lovin' you.
Expressing a willingness to move on if the other person can't change


Foolin yourself.
Repeating the chorus to drive home the message of self-delusion




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