If I Needed You
Melanie Lyrics


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I've gotten rid of my g(u)ilt and my lily white
And I've gotten used to an empty bed...sometimes
We used to be glowing
But I wouldn't be going now
If I needed you
If I needed you

Oh love, you know I could hold you long
But the holding has turned to lean upon
And I may be blowing it
But I wouldn't be growing now
If I needed you

I'll take this space in time
For what I need to say
Some race within the limit
Winning 'cause their needs are in it
Mine have always got in my way

But, I'll sing along to the life and times
Just go wandering alone and learn that I'm the guide
At least it keeps me believing
But I wouldn't be needing now
If I needed you

I wouldn't be bleeding now
I may be blowing it
But I wouldn't be growing now
I would be lying
But I wouldn't be crying now
This might be living
But I wouldn't be dying now
I may be blowing it
But I wouldn't be growing now
I would be lying




But I wouldn't be crying now
If I needed you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Melanie's song If I Needed You seem to be about a person who's gotten over a broken relationship and has learned to live on their own. They've let go of their guilt and innocence and have grown accustomed to sleeping alone. The chorus repeats the phrase "If I needed you" suggesting that although they may have once relied on their partner, they're now at a point where they can live independently. The lyrics also suggest that the person has become more aware of themselves as a result of being alone, that they have learned to take the time to listen to their own needs, and that they are now their own guide.


The lines "Some race within the limit, Winning 'cause their needs are in it, Mine have always got in my way" suggest that the person has been held back by their own needs in the past, but now they have learned to prioritize themselves. There's also a sense of determination to this song to reclaim one’s identity: "I'll sing along to the life and times, Just go wandering alone and learn that I'm the guide, At least it keeps me believing."


Overall, the song seems to convey a sense of empowerment that comes from being able to live on one's own terms, in spite of the difficulties that come with it.


Line by Line Meaning

I've gotten rid of my g(u)ilt and my lily white
I have let go of my past mistakes and facade of purity.


And I've gotten used to an empty bed...sometimes
I've accepted being alone, but sometimes I still feel lonely.


We used to be glowing
Our relationship was once full of life and energy.


But I wouldn't be going now
I wouldn't be leaving you now, if it wasn't for my personal growth.


If I needed you
If I truly needed you, I would stay.


Oh love, you know I could hold you long
I could hold onto our relationship for a long time, out of comfort.


But the holding has turned to lean upon
However, now I have been relying on our relationship too much for support.


And I may be blowing it
I might be making a mistake by leaving.


But I wouldn't be growing now
But I know that leaving is necessary for my personal growth.


I'll take this space in time
I will take this moment to express myself.


For what I need to say
To say what I need to say.


Some race within the limit
Some people compete within their boundaries.


Winning 'cause their needs are in it
They win because their needs are a driving force.


Mine have always got in my way
However, my own needs have always hindered me.


But, I'll sing along to the life and times
But, I will still enjoy life and its moments.


Just go wandering alone and learn that I'm the guide
I will wander and learn to depend on myself for guidance.


At least it keeps me believing
But at least it keeps me hopeful.


But I wouldn't be needing now
If I truly didn't need to leave, I would stay.


I wouldn't be bleeding now
I wouldn't be hurting if it wasn't necessary.


I would be lying
I would be lying if I said I didn't care.


But I wouldn't be crying now
But I wouldn't be crying if I didn't feel the pain.


This might be living
This might be how I'm meant to live my life.


But I wouldn't be dying now
But I wouldn't feel like a part of me is dying if it wasn't necessary.


I may be blowing it
I may be making a mistake, but it's necessary for my growth.


But I wouldn't be growing now
But I wouldn't be growing if I didn't make necessary changes.


I would be lying
I would be lying if I said I didn't care about you.


But I wouldn't be crying now
But I wouldn't be crying if I didn't feel the pain of leaving you.


If I needed you
If I truly needed you, I would stay.




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Comments from YouTube:

drew Roberts

she absolutely blows it out of the park with this one....one of her most gorgeous ballads ever

Barbara Holley

Thanks for all the effort, putting in the lyrics. She is so easy to sing along with.

warren herman

I agree with Ian. She is incredible talent with so much heart. 45 years later her songs, voice,are incredible. Still even a song Melanie didn't write becomes her very own

B Lyndon

This is one of my absolute favorite pop ballads--it's as perfect a song, arrangement and performance as I've ever heard. I love Melanie anyway, but on the Photograph sessions she excelled herself. Thanks so much for posting!

Ian Walker

You're very welcome Brad. Thanks for reminding me...

Judy Perry

Beautiful

Hugh Fathers

I count myself very lucky to have seen Melanie when her Photograph Tour hit Western Australia in the late 70's . . .
Awesome concert, great album . . .

Anthony Vincent

Beautiful song from a great double cd.

Dale McCamish

What a voice!!!!

Richard Smith

The way she changes the meaning of "If I needed you" is poetic magic.

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