Momma Momma
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Momma Momma, I fear you reared me wrong
Momma Momma, I fear you reared me wrong
'cause I pick up my head, can't tell where I belong

Momma Momma, something's hurting me bad
Momma Momma, something's hurting me bad
I have a yearning for something that I never had
Oh, sometimes I feel my life has come and then it's gone
Sometimes I feel my life has come and gone
I live in this world but I'm only looking on

I can't understand, it's too far over my head
I can't understand, it's too far over my head
I'm living the life but I'm really dying instead, yeah

Momma Momma, I fear you reared me wrong
Momma Momma, I fear you reared me wrong




'cause I lift up my head and I can't tell where I belong
Momma Momma Momma Momma, something's terribly wrong

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Melanie's song "Momma Momma" express the confusion and pain felt by the singer, who feels lost and disconnected from the world around her. The repetition of the phrase "Momma Momma" throughout the song emphasizes the singer's search for guidance and a sense of belonging, which she feels her mother has failed to provide.


The first verse sets the tone, with the singer expressing her fear that her mother raised her in a way that has left her feeling disconnected from the world. She feels unsure of her place in society and struggles to find her identity. The second verse intensifies this feeling of discomfort, as the singer yearns for something she's never had. This desire is likely connected to the yearning for a sense of belonging, as the singer is constantly looking for a place where she fits in.


The song's chorus, "sometimes I feel my life has come and then it's gone", suggests a sense of transience and fleetingness, as the singer feels like she can never fully embrace her life. She is physically present in the world but unable to fully engage with it, feeling disconnected and unfulfilled. The final verse emphasizes this sense of despair, as the singer feels like she is dying on the inside despite living her life on the outside.


Overall, "Momma Momma" is a powerful and emotional song that captures the feeling of disconnect and yearning for belonging that many people experience at some point in their lives.


Line by Line Meaning

Momma Momma, I fear you reared me wrong
I'm worried that the way you raised me was not right


Momma Momma, something's hurting me bad
I'm experiencing a great deal of emotional pain


I have a yearning for something that I never had
I desire something that I have never experienced before


Sometimes I feel my life has come and gone
At times, it seems like my life has already happened and passed me by


I live in this world but I'm only looking on
I'm present in this world, but I feel like a spectator rather than a participant


I can't understand, it's too far over my head
I can't comprehend or make sense of something because it's too complex for me


I'm living the life but I'm really dying instead, yeah
Although I'm alive, I feel like I'm slowly losing myself and fading away


Momma Momma Momma Momma, something's terribly wrong
I'm really distressed and there's something seriously amiss




Lyrics © CARLIN AMERICA INC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MELANIE SAFKA

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Comments from YouTube:

Morrigan Ravenchild

This is pure heart rendering poetry - must have been written from the experience of deeply riven feelings.  It makes me cry every time I hear it.  I think she used to cry singing it.

Jim O

Yes, tell her.  She will really appreciate it.

Kwei Brown

I am young and grew up on this Wonderful music and others I Love that music had meaning back then and there are alot of us that want more of this. Thank you for this song and the world thanks you for your heart!!

Norbert Seiferlein

Seit meinem 10 Lebensjahr bin ich Melanie Fan.Diese Frau hat eine unglaubliche Dynamik in der Stimme und Gefühl pur!
Danke an all die ,die mir mit den Videos ein Live Gefühl geben ,dass ich leider nie erleben konnte.

Jade Shannon

This song is exactly how I feel.

Jade Shannon

Yes my mother was a definite problem 2 me as well 4 ages.It's 20 years now she finally she stopped back stabbing me 2 my siblings and god knows who else.I just can't b bothered with her crap these days and always try 2 think of something good good about her!maybe if any one else reads this it may help them.

Fenyk

Was listening to this the other nite crying, cos I wish I had had the words to explain how screwed my head was growing up, that I felt lonely, that I was outside, looking into the window of my family and everyone elses' lives, that the predators were circling. I was ill, had early-onset bipolar 2 ( & mild Aspergers) in childhood, dysmorphia, and was just totally lost. too, and just couldn't explain it. As a kid, I didn't have any words in my vocabulary to explain just how - strange, it felt. I was a free-spirit, still am. Always stood out, still do. I'm now content with the fact that I never belonged anywhere, and my life is now on track courtesy of Mum finally understanding, amazing friends, and the fact that I went out and studied. So many times it tried to snatch my life away - but I fought back.

D Lynn

@Fenyk so sorry to hear that. I went through similar. Healing still. Here's a virtual hug from me. 🤗

Jade Shannon

Moonchild all the best,and the other comment as well and I have epilepsy as well and have been with out medication 4 weeks now because of the stupidity of the pharmacists,not my doctor what I mean here is if they want 2 party all the time with drugs,they don't know what ther doing at all.All I can suggest here is prayer works wonders 4 me.Maybe it maybe very helpful to u both.All the best!

Fenyk

D Lynn No, not at all. A sheltered childhood and growing up in a small town where mental illness was stigmatised has a lot to do with it. My father however, is the absolutely typical narcissistic parent, hence my rejecting him repeatedly. He has Bipolar as well and I believe my biological paternal grandmother battled mental illness. He also has temporal lobe epilepsy (i don't have it, thankfully) and narcissistic personality disorder. He is also a massive hypochondriac and pathalogical liar.
Mum has been there to help me, but has felt completely helpless so many times, wishing she could have done more for me, protected me more. Growing up in Thatcher's Britain as a child, divorced/single mothers were especially hated by the Tories and that attitude flourished here in Cornwall. I was a free-spirited moonchild, colourful, creative and Mum always encouraged me as long as i was behaving myself. I stood out without trying, felt that I was different to other kids. Not that I thought i was better than them - i just felt i was different. I never fitted in anywhere and what bothered people most is that i was happy in my own company, was healthily self-confident and really didn't give a crap about fitting in.
I had a teacher at infant school, a lovely lady. She spoke to Mum quietly and mentioned i should see a child psychologist. Mum knew I should due to certain unusual behaviours. But back then if Mum had said anything - we will have been separated and i will have gone into foster care with god knows what happening to me. That is how prejudiced they were down here. The fact that i was clean, well-dressed, loved, came from an immaculate home, fed, healthy, cared for - it wouldn't have meant anything to Social Services. Mum and I were close and i was actually quite clingy to her, hating school, etc because i just wanted to be at home with Mum.
Later, Mum married another narc - and he really did the damage psychologically. The stepfather from hell to match the wicked stepmother who used to beat me and scared me into silence at my father's place and my father emotionally and psychologically abused me too. Of course, their kids were fine. It was me who got it cos the stepmother is jealous of my Mum. Mum made the mistake of being naive herself and ended up brainwashed by this spineless, narcopathic piece of shit stepfather she married He bullied me constantly! His kids were put first and he effectively tried to force me out of my own family, tearing a wedge between Mum and I, because at the time he had her blinded so much that she always took his side. Where i do not excuse her behaviour - I can understand it, having been in these kinds of relationships myself. Because of the damage he did - i cannot cope with living with anyone and could never bring myself to have children. Now that cowardly bastard's buggered off, she is listening and understanding me more. But it angers me that it took this long and that both my father and step-parents succeeded in scaring me into silence for so many years.

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