Where Have You Been
Merle Haggard Lyrics


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Look around you, look at your friends
They're still out there, but where have you been?
You better get busy, start calling them in
'Cause they still love you, but where have you been?

You better get friendly and keep all your friends
If you wanna be loved, you gotta give in
Pick up the pieces, start over again
Your friends still love you, but where have you been?

You better get friendly, keep all your friends
If you wanna be loved, you gotta give in




Pick up the pieces, start over again
Your friends still love you, but where have you been?

Overall Meaning

In Merle Haggard's song "Where Have You Been," the message is clear – don't neglect your friends, keep them close and appreciate them. The lyrics urge listeners to take a look at their lives and reflect on where they've been and where they're going. The repetition of the phrase "but where have you been?" emphasizes the importance of staying connected with the people in your life.


The first verse prompts the listener to look around and realize that their friends are still around even though they may have lost touch. The second verse advises them to start reaching out and calling their friends back in. The chorus drives home the idea that if you want to be loved, you need to make an effort to keep your relationships strong. The final verse encourages listeners to start over and pick up the pieces, reminding them that their friends are still waiting for them.


Overall, "Where Have You Been" is a reminder to not take your friendships for granted and to put in the effort to maintain them. The song is a timeless message that holds true today as it did when it was first released.


Line by Line Meaning

Look around you, look at your friends
Take a good look at the people around you who care about you and have always been there for you


They're still out there, but where have you been?
Your friends haven't gone away or abandoned you, but you have been absent or distant lately


You better get busy, start calling them in
It's time for you to take action and reach out to your friends, rather than waiting for them to come to you


'Cause they still love you, but where have you been?
Your friends haven't stopped caring about you, but they're wondering where you've been and why you haven't been around


You better get friendly and keep all your friends
To maintain your friendships, you need to be open, available, and willing to put in the effort to stay close to your friends


If you wanna be loved, you gotta give in
To receive love and support from others, you must be willing to reciprocate and show them that you care


Pick up the pieces, start over again
If there have been problems or distance between you and your friends, it's time to acknowledge the issues and work together to rebuild and improve your relationships


Your friends still love you, but where have you been?
Once again, the song emphasizes that your friends haven't stopped caring about you, but they are concerned about your absence and want you back in their lives




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Written by: WILLIAMS

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Jimmy Ray


on Carryin' Fire

I'm a co-writer on this song and the lyrics are not quite right here. Instead of the word high it should be higher. The last verse is A moth slowly circles the flickering candle, the fire is all it can see...

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