Stalemate
Millencolin Lyrics


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You say you want to leave me,
Say you want to be free
From everything you hate.
Get yourself together,
We'll always be together.
Love, you just can not rate.

Been so long since we hooked,
Been so long since we took
Time to get things right.
But I'll be here forever,
I'll lie to you forever.
Now, it doesn't look bright.

Nobody is killing more time than you and I.
Everybody's willing somehow to say goodbye.

I think we're getting used to,
Used to be abused to.
Doubt is all there is.
We can not spread out wings out,
Can not do a new thing.
Drought on what we miss.

When everything is falling,
It's like we both are crawling
Around and around again.
Every fight is too long,
Every word is too strong
Bound to end it all, but when?

The stalemate's on and what we had is dead and gone.
It's like we just don't care. We're going nowhere.

I want to say goodbye. Yeah, I want to say goodbye.
Goodbye to our big life lie, nothing's gonna be alright.
You know this is our best white lie. Nothing's gonna be alright.
Doesn't matter how we try, I want to ask you why we can't let it die?
Even though we both have tried, you know I always question why.
Why we just can't let it die?





It's our big life lie.

Overall Meaning

Millencolin's song "Stalemate" is a poignant exploration of a relationship that is clearly struggling to survive, with the singers locked in a cycle of doubt, recrimination, and despair. The title of the song itself suggests that the couple are stuck in a situation where they cannot move forward or backward, as if they are both frozen in a moment of intense emotional pain that they cannot escape. The song's opening verse describes the woman telling her partner that she wants to leave him and be free of all the things she hates. The couple is clearly at a crossroads, with the woman feeling trapped and desperate for a way out, and her partner struggling to hold onto her and keep their relationship alive. Despite his attempts to persuade her that they can work things out, the lyrics suggest that their love has become stale, and they are both struggling to find a way to move forward.


The second verse of the song provides further insight into the couple's predicament, with the singer acknowledging that it has been a long time since they were truly happy together. His admission that he will lie to her forever suggests that he knows deep down that their relationship is in trouble, and that he is using emotional manipulation to try and convince her to stay with him. The chorus of the song is particularly powerful, with the phrase "Everybody's willing somehow to say goodbye" suggesting that the couple is not the only one struggling to make their love last. The use of the word "stalemate" also reinforces this idea, as it suggests a sense of hopelessness and defeat.


Overall, Millencolin's "Stalemate" is a powerful song about the difficulties of maintaining a relationship in the face of doubt, uncertainty, and emotional pain. The song's lyrics are honest and raw, providing a frank and unflinching portrayal of the struggles that many couples face. Its message is timeless and universal, making it a song that will resonate with listeners who have experienced the pain of a failing relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You say you want to leave me,
You express the desire to depart from our relationship


Say you want to be free
You proclaim the wish to attain freedom


From everything you hate.
From all the aspects that you detest


Get yourself together,
Collect your thoughts and emotions


We'll always be together.
I will always be by your side


Love, you just can not rate.
Love is not something that can be measured or compared


Been so long since we hooked,
It has been a considerable amount of time since we came together


Been so long since we took
Been so long since we took any action


Time to get things right.
Required time to rectify our relationship


But I'll be here forever,
I will be here forever


I'll lie to you forever.
I will continue to deceive you with false promises


Now, it doesn't look bright.
Currently, the situation does not seem promising.


Nobody is killing more time than you and I.
You and I are wasting more time than anyone else.


Everybody's willing somehow to say goodbye.
Everyone is ready to part ways in some way.


I think we're getting used to,
I believe we are accustomed to


Used to be abused to.
We have grown accustomed to being mistreated.


Doubt is all there is.
Doubt is the only thing that remains.


We can not spread out wings out,
We can not explore and expand our horizons


Can not do a new thing.
We can not experience anything new.


Drought on what we miss.
We are fixated on the things we no longer have.


When everything is falling,
When everything is falling apart


It's like we both are crawling
We both seem to be crawling energetically


Around and around again.
In circles we go again.


Every fight is too long,
Every disagreement seems to last forever,


Every word is too strong.
Every statement is overly intense


Bound to end it all, but when?
We are destined to end our relationship, but we know not when.


The stalemate's on and what we had is dead and gone.
Our relationship is at a standstill, and what we had is gone.


It's like we just don't care.
It appears as though we do not care


We're going nowhere.
We are making no progress.


I want to say goodbye.
I want to bid farewell


Yeah, I want to say goodbye.
I truly want to say goodbye


Goodbye to our big life lie, nothing's gonna be alright.
We need to stop living our big life lie, as nothing will improve.


You know this is our best white lie.
Our best lie, the one we tell ourselves.


Nothing's gonna be alright.
Nothing is ever going to be okay


Doesn't matter how we try,
Regardless of our effort


I want to ask you why we can't let it die?
I want to question why we cannot allow our relationship to end.


Even though we both have tried,
Though we both attempted to fix it


you know I always question why.
I still question why we are attempting to salvage what is already dead.


Why we just can't let it die?
Why can't we allow it to die?


It's our big life lie.
It is our most significant falsehood, the lie that matters most.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: MATHIAS FARM, FREDRIK LARSSON, ERIK OHLSSON, NIKOLA SARCEVIC

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Conor S

kingwood is a masterpiece album from start to finish

Dan Gerous

one of their best Songs EVER!! the bridge is KILLER! but i never found any guitar tabs for this =((

Dan Gerous

plus i really think kingwood is in the top 3 maybe THE best album by millencolin

ian laflin

this is my favorite song by millencolin

ruttnaroger

Kingwood is an awesome album! :D But i think that Life on aplate is as good as

DJ Shoshana XD

great, one of my favourite =)

Mark Cullens

one of the saddest days was when i lost kingwood :(

Furious Hawk

Exceptional Song.

Farid Gohran

Best GRUNCh evetime 2020 good luck more

ruttnaroger

I like stalemate too x)

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