A Daughter or a Son
Miss Li Lyrics


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It was after the show
At the hotel-bathroom, cold and lonely floor
And I didn't know
Didn't understand until i held you in my hand

And now, are you all alone?
Are you lost and cold?
I wish that i could keep you warm.
And I, I would sing a song.
And I would have known if you were a daughter or a son.

I didn't know, it would hurt this much to lose and let you go.
Why did you leave? Had I been drinking to much? I wish I had known.

And now, are you all alone?
Are you lost and cold?
I wish that i could keep you warm.
And I, I would sing a song.
And I would have known if you were a daughter or a son.

And I want you to know, though i wasn't ready for you
I still love you so!

And now, are you all alone?
Are you lost and cold?
I wish that i could keep you warm.




And I, I would sing a song.
And I would have known if you were a daughter or a son.

Overall Meaning

The song "A Daughter or a Son" by Miss Li speaks to the emotions of a woman who has just experienced a miscarriage, specifically the multitude of questions that arise in the aftermath of the loss. The first line of the song references a performance or show of some kind, perhaps indicating that the woman was still in the public eye at the time of her miscarriage, adding to the pressure and sense of isolation she feels. The bathroom floor is described as "cold and lonely," using sensory details to establish a sense of physical discomfort and emotional vulnerability. It is not until she sees the physical evidence of her miscarriage, "held you in my hand," that the reality of the situation hits her.


The chorus of the song repeatedly asks if the lost child is "all alone," "lost and cold," while the singer imagines she could keep them warm and comfort them through singing. The lyrics convey a profound sense of grief and longing, with the singer wishing she could have known "if you were a daughter or a son," adding to the complex web of unanswered questions and unfulfilled hopes surrounding the miscarriage. At the same time, she affirms that she still loves the child, even if she wasn't "ready for" them.


Line by Line Meaning

It was after the show
After the performance was over


At the hotel-bathroom, cold and lonely floor
Lying on the cold and lonely floor of a hotel bathroom


And I didn't know
Unaware


Didn't understand until i held you in my hand
Only realized the magnitude of the situation upon holding you


And now, are you all alone?
Questioning if you are all by yourself


Are you lost and cold?
Feeling lost and cold with nobody to turn to


I wish that i could keep you warm.
Longing to provide warmth and comfort to you


And I, I would sing a song.
Would serenade you with soothing music


And I would have known if you were a daughter or a son.
Would have known your gender if given the opportunity


I didn't know, it would hurt this much to lose and let you go.
Was unaware of how much it would pain me to let you go


Why did you leave? Had I been drinking to much? I wish I had known.
Wondering why you left and if my drinking played a role, wishing for clarity


And I want you to know, though i wasn't ready for you
Wants you to know that even though I wasn't prepared for you


I still love you so!
Still love you dearly




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