In Spite of Me
Morphine Lyrics


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Last night I told a stranger all about you
They smiled patiently with disbelief
I always knew you would succeed no matter what you tried
And I know you did it all in spite of me
Still I'm proud to have know you for the short time that I did
Glad to have been a step up on your way
Proud to be part of your illustrious career
And I know you did it all in spite of me
In spite of me
Late last night I saw you in my living room
You seemed so close but yet so cold
For a long time I thought that you'd be coming back to me
Those kind of thoughts can be so cruel




So cruel And I know you did it all in spite of me
In spite of me

Overall Meaning

Morphine's song In Spite Of Me is a melancholic and reflective ballad that speaks about a lost love and the ways in which the person addressed in the lyrics has moved on and succeeded, in spite of the singer's doubts and shortcomings. The song is introspective, as the singer is not only coming to terms with the fact that their relationship is over, but also acknowledging their own limitations and recognizing the other person's achievements.


The first verse tells the story of the singer sharing information about their ex-partner with a stranger, who listens skeptically. The singer goes on to express their belief that the person they once loved would succeed regardless of the obstacles they faced. This idea is underlined in the chorus, as the repeated phrase "And I know you did it all in spite of me" emphasizes the singer's low self-esteem and feelings of inferiority. However, there is also a sense of pride and admiration towards the person addressed in the lyrics. The singer is happy to have known them and to have played a small part in their success. The second verse switches to a more surreal setting, as the singer sees their ex in their living room. The encounter is described as both close yet distant, with the person being cold and removed. This may indicate that the other person has moved on emotionally and is no longer interested in a romantic relationship. The singer acknowledges that it's cruel to entertain the hope of a reunion under such circumstances, and they admit that their ex's success is a testament to their strength and ability to thrive independently.


Line by Line Meaning

Last night I told a stranger all about you
I shared information with a random person I met about you yesterday evening


They smiled patiently with disbelief
They expressed amusement and skepticism without being rude


I always knew you would succeed no matter what you tried
I had faith in your abilities to triumph in any endeavor


And I know you did it all in spite of me
I am aware that your accomplishments were unrelated to me and not because of my involvement


Still I'm proud to have known you for the short time that I did
It brings me satisfaction to recall the brief period when we were acquainted


Glad to have been a step up on your way
I am happy to have played a small role in your journey to success


Proud to be part of your illustrious career
I take pride in my association with your impressive professional trajectory


Late last night I saw you in my living room
I had a vision or dream of you appearing in my personal space during the nighttime hours


You seemed so close but yet so cold
You appeared physically near to me but emotionally detached


For a long time I thought that you'd be coming back to me
I held onto the idea that you might return to me after a prolonged absence


Those kind of thoughts can be so cruel
The notion of such a potential reunion can be emotionally tormenting


And I know you did it all in spite of me, in spite of me
Once again, I acknowledge that any achievements you had were not influenced by my presence or efforts




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Mark Sandman

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@JoseAfonsoR

"Last night I told a stranger all about you
They smiled patiently with disbelief
I always knew you would succeed no matter what you tried
And I know you did it all in spite of me
Still I'm proud to have know you for the short time that I did
Glad to have been a step up on your way
Proud to be part of your illustrious career
And I know you did it all in spite of me
In spite of me
Late last night I saw you in my living room
You seemed so close but yet so cold
For a long time I thought that you'd be coming back to me
Those kind of thoughts can be so cruel
So cruel and I know you did it all in spite of me
In spite of me"

Que letra!



@andreiarodrigues7674

ranger all about you
They smiled patiently with disbelief
I' always knew you would succeed
No matter what you tried
And I know you did it all
In spite of me

Still I'm proud to have known you 
For the short time that I did
Proud to have been a step up on your way
Proud to be a part of your illustrious career
And I know you did it all
In spite of me
In spite of me

Late last night
I saw you in my living room
You seemed so close but yet so cool
For a long time I thought that you'd be coming back to me
Those kind of thoughts can be so cruel
So cruel

And I know you did it all 
In spite of me
In spite of me



@juanzorondo

Anoche le dije a un extraño todo acerca de ti,
Sonrió con paciencia e incredulidad.
Siempre supe que tendrías éxito no importa lo que intentases.

Y sé que lo hiciste todo a pesar de mí.

Todavía me siento orgulloso de haberte conocido por poco tiempo que fuera.
Me alegro de haber sido un paso adelante en tu camino,
Orgulloso de ser parte de tu ilustre carrera.

Y sé que lo hiciste todo a pesar de mí.
A pesar de mí.

Anoche te vi en mi sala,
Parecías tan cerca, pero al mismo tiempo tan fría.
Durante mucho tiempo pensé que ibas a volver a mi lado.
Ese tipo de pensamientos pueden ser tan crueles,
Tan cruel...

Y yo sé que lo hiciste todo a pesar de mí...
A pesar de mí.



All comments from YouTube:

@brholland62

this album moved me. my bf who died had introduced me to the sandman. i just love these lyrics. i have felt and seen him in my living room too. he was a beautiful soul and i miss him every  day.   r.i.p.  dan. the love of my life.  you saved me.

@Hermunkle

Brenda Holland R.I.P.  Return If Possible

@johnsound6107

@@Hermunkle but darling we always return,to not do so would be impossible.

@andrecarriere5510

bless you sister

@deadalivegirl

@@Hermunkle I have never heard that but I will never forget it.😔

@user-qk6kl3fy4r

:)

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@sye50

I remember when me and my wife lost our baby. I was just addicted to this song for many months. I never found anything that was so truthful as this song. To anyone that passed through a shit storm like that, all my best feelings... Time flies...

Still I'm proud to have know you for the short time that I did
Glad to have been a step up on your way
Proud to be part of your illustrious career
And I know you did it all in spite of me...

@JoseAfonsoR

"Last night I told a stranger all about you
They smiled patiently with disbelief
I always knew you would succeed no matter what you tried
And I know you did it all in spite of me
Still I'm proud to have know you for the short time that I did
Glad to have been a step up on your way
Proud to be part of your illustrious career
And I know you did it all in spite of me
In spite of me
Late last night I saw you in my living room
You seemed so close but yet so cold
For a long time I thought that you'd be coming back to me
Those kind of thoughts can be so cruel
So cruel and I know you did it all in spite of me
In spite of me"

Que letra!

@augustmoon0004

José Afonso R. “Glad” is another “Proud”

@tomasbarral

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