Don't Ask My Neighbors
Nancy Wilson Lyrics


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You're wondering if I care about ya
Is there's some cause that I should doubt ya
Oh I can see boy that you don't know me very well
You're so unsure

And you run here and there to ask my feelings
Friends only guess, they can't really say
Don't ask my neighbors
Don't ask the friends I hang around
Don't be afraid to come to me
Don't ask my neighbors, come to me
Don't be afraid of what ya see
You'll find I love you, come to me
Don't be afraid

You ask all my friends if I'm the same girl
You don't understand, you think I'm changing

Don't ask my neighbors
Don't ask the friends I hang around
Don't be afraid to come to me
Don't ask my neighbors, come to me
Don't be afraid of what ya see
You'll find I love you, come to me
Don't be afraid

Don't ask my neighbors, come to me
Don't be afraid of what ya see
You'll find I love you, come to me
Don't be afraid

Don't ask my neighbors, come to me
Don't be afraid what ya see




You'll find I love you, come to me
Don't be afraid

Overall Meaning

In this song, Nancy Wilson is addressing a lover who seems to have doubts about her feelings for him. She tells him that he doesn’t know her well enough to doubt her and he’s so unsure of their relationship that he has to run around asking her friends about her feelings towards him. Wilson warns him not to ask her neighbors or friends because they won’t give him a definite answer, only guesses. She then reassures him to come to her directly and not be afraid of what he sees because he will find that she loves him. She finally emphasizes that he should not be afraid to come to her, to talk to her about how he feels and to trust her love.


Line by Line Meaning

You're wondering if I care about ya
You're unsure if I have feelings for you


Is there's some cause that I should doubt ya
Are there any reasons why I shouldn't trust you?


Oh I can see boy that you don't know me very well
You have misunderstood me and do not know me very well.


You're so unsure
You are very uncertain about everything.


And you run here and there to ask my feelings
You go to my friends to ask about my feelings towards you.


Friends only guess, they can't really say
My friends can only speculate, they don't truly know my feelings.


Don't ask my neighbors
Do not ask my neighbors about my feelings towards you.


Don't ask the friends I hang around
Do not ask my close friends for answers about my feelings.


Don't be afraid to come to me
Don't be afraid to talk to me about your feelings.


Don't ask my neighbors, come to me
Don't ask others about my feelings, ask me directly.


Don't be afraid of what ya see
Don't be afraid of the truth, whatever it may be.


You'll find I love you, come to me
You will discover that I have feelings for you if you ask me directly.


Don't ask my neighbors, come to me
Don't go to someone else for answers, come to me instead.


Don't be afraid of what ya see
Don't be afraid to learn the truth about my feelings for you.


You'll find I love you, come to me
If you come to me directly, you'll learn that I love you.


Don't be afraid
Don't worry or be scared about the situation.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: SKIP SCARBOROUGH

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Comments from YouTube:

@rena764

My Goodness I thought the Emotions "Don't Ask My Neighbors" could ever be touched. Never, Never, Never imagined anyone singing this song better than the Emotions. I was wrong, 100% wrong. Miss Nancy, The Baby, The Lady sung the hell out of it.
This woman was everything to me. Class, Style and Beauty. No one was like heror is like her. There will never, ever be another Nancy Wilson. R.I.P. Ms. Nancy you are truly missed, at least by me.

@marvinking9848

The Emotions are singing the background on this recording. This was their original hit and they were more than delighted to sing with The Legendary Nancy Wilson.

@darrylmccants7280

When I first saw this video I nearly cried because The Emotions were the perfect surprise as they came down the stairs. I still get chills.

@bigcountryvma1

R.I.P. Nancy....You Know You Are A Legend When You Have The Original Singers (The Emotions & Phillip Bailey) singing background vocals for you!

@jaimerichardson66

Bought tickets to see Ms. Nancy Wilson in Emeryville, CA a few years ago....bought an airline ticket & flew to The Bay Area....called in sick from work & saw an amazing show that evening!!!! This woman did what she had to do.

@shetrieseverything2206

So jealous!!! Wish I would have done that!

@TenderhornH

I love and miss you, Nancy Wilson - I think you so much for this song! May you rest in peace!

@vicrollerson

RIH Ms. Nancy Wilson the epitome of elegant and beauty with a smooth soulful voice. Definitely one of my all-time favorites.

@jeshun7071

Happy heavenly 83rd birthday to Nancy Wilson, with a career that spanned over 5 decades, she will always be known as one of the greats

@greeneyes0078

When I think of Nancy Wilson - I also think of Diahann Carroll - "CLASS ALL THE WAY"!!! Both are gone and they are truly missed!!!!

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