Getting Evil In The Playground
Neils Children Lyrics


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When you say, it's not OK,
Then I say that it is
When you say, come out to play,
Then I say that I've been

When you say, the sky is grey
Then I say that it's blue
When you say, it must be me
Then I say that it's you

They say opposites attract
Well I think that is wrong
I say opposites repel
The whole thing is a con

The further away you are
The happier I am
Although I do this to you
Simply because I can

When I say these things to you
It's not a jest - I really mean it
If I don't stop, what will you do
There's no way out
We've already been here
Already been here

They say opposites attract
Well I think that is wrong
I say opposites repel
The whole thing is a con

The further away you are
The happier I am
Although I do this to you
Simply because I can





We've already been here before.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Neils Children's song "Getting Evil In The Playground" tell the story of two people who are playing a power game. The singer is defiant and wants to assert their control over the situation. They do this by adopting an opposing attitude to everything their counterpart suggests. When their counterpart says "It's not OK," the singer confidently responds, "Then I say that it is." This happens again when their counterpart invites them to play, and again when the sky is described as grey. The singer is deliberately taking an opposing view, asserting their dominance and causing chaos.


The singer becomes self-aware and acknowledges that their behaviour is not healthy, but they are unable to stop. They attribute their own actions to a desire for distance and solitude, claiming that the further away their counterpart is, the happier they are. However, the true cause of their actions is a desire for control, and they are unable to stop themselves from causing chaos, despite recognizing the destructive nature of their actions. The song's closing line, "We've already been here before," suggests a cycle of behaviour that is difficult to break.


Line by Line Meaning

When you say, it's not OK,
I will disagree with you just for the sake of it


Then I say that it is
I will always take the opposite stance


When you say, come out to play,
I will say that I'm not interested in playing with you


Then I say that I've been
I will give you a pointless excuse not to play


When you say, the sky is grey
I will argue with you about anything


Then I say that it's blue
I will contradict you just to cause a reaction


When you say, it must be me
I will blame you for everything


Then I say that it's you
I will point fingers without any evidence


They say opposites attract
Some people believe in the myth of opposites attracting


Well I think that is wrong
I believe that opposite personalities do not fit well together


I say opposites repel
I believe opposing personalities only cause tension and conflict


The whole thing is a con
The idea of opposites attracting is a lie


The further away you are
I prefer to keep a distance from those who are different from me


The happier I am
I feel more comfortable around people who share my views


Although I do this to you
I purposely antagonize those who are not like me


Simply because I can
I derive a sense of power from controlling others


When I say these things to you
I want you to know that I am serious about my opinions


It's not a jest - I really mean it
I am not joking or trying to be funny or sarcastic


If I don't stop, what will you do
I am aware that my behavior is harmful and I wonder how you will react


There's no way out
I am stuck in my negative behavior towards you


We've already been here
This cycle of behavior has happened before


Already been here
This pattern has repeated and will likely happen again




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