Love Will Tear Us Apart
New Order Lyrics


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When routine bites hard,
And ambitions are low,
And resentment rides high,
But emotions won't grow,
And we're changing our ways, taking different roads.

Then love, love will tear us apart again.
Love, love will tear us apart again.

Why is the bedroom so cold?
You've turned away on your side.
Is my timing that flawed?
Our respect runs so dry.
Yet there's still this appeal
That we've kept through our lives.

But love, love will tear us apart again.
Love, love will tear us apart again.

You cry out in your sleep,
All my failings exposed.
And there's a taste in my mouth,
As desperation takes hold.
Just that something so good just can't function no more.

But love, love will tear us apart again.
Love, love will tear us apart again.




Love, love will tear us apart again.
Love, love will tear us apart again.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of New Order's "Love Will Tear Us Apart" convey the difficulties that arise in a relationship when routine sets in and the spark fades away. The singer is lamenting the emotional distance between him and his partner. He describes how they are taking different paths in life and their ambitions have dwindled, leading to the rise of resentment. Despite these issues, there remains an unexplainable appeal which they have held on to throughout their lives. The singer is plagued by doubts and questions, wondering if it's his timing that's off, if he's responsible for the rut their relationship is in.


The second verse of the song is particularly powerful, depicting the physical and emotional distance between the two partners. The singer notes how the bedroom feels cold, how his partner has turned away on her side, and their respect has run dry. He feels frustrated because despite these issues, the attraction between them still exists. The final verse amplifies the emotional turmoil the singer is experiencing as his partner cries out in her sleep, and his faults are exposed. Desperation takes hold, and he can taste it in his mouth. In the end, he comes to the realization that the good thing they had together can no longer function, and love is going to tear them apart again.


Line by Line Meaning

When routine bites hard,
When the monotony of day-to-day life becomes overwhelming,


And ambitions are low,
And we've lost sight of our goals,


And resentment rides high,
And we feel bitter and resentful towards each other,


But emotions won't grow,
But we can't seem to connect on an emotional level,


And we're changing our ways, taking different roads.
And we're each going our separate ways and changing ourselves.


Then love, love will tear us apart again.
In times like these, the intensity of our love is what ultimately drives us apart.


Why is the bedroom so cold?
Why is the intimacy between us gone?


You've turned away on your side.
You're physically and emotionally distant.


Is my timing that flawed?
Am I to blame for this lack of connection?


Our respect runs so dry.
Our mutual respect for each other is diminishing.


Yet there's still this appeal
Despite our issues, there's something that draws us together.


That we've kept through our lives.
Something that's been present throughout our entire relationship.


But love, love will tear us apart again.
Even though we still have affection for each other, it's love that will ultimately be our downfall.


You cry out in your sleep,
You're struggling with this just as much as I am.


All my failings exposed.
All of my shortcomings are being laid bare.


And there's a taste in my mouth,
And the situation is leaving a bitter taste in my mouth.


As desperation takes hold.
As the situation becomes more dire, I'm feeling increasingly desperate.


Just that something so good just can't function no more.
It's difficult to comprehend how something that was once so good can no longer work.


But love, love will tear us apart again.
Despite everything, it's our love that will be our undoing.


Love, love will tear us apart again.
As we've seen before, our love will ultimately cause our separation.


Love, love will tear us apart again.
It's a sobering thought that our love, which we hold so dear, will be our ultimate downfall.


Love, love will tear us apart again.
But it's a reality that we must face.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Bernard Sumner, Ian Kevin Curtis, Peter Hook, Stephen Paul David Morris

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