Trying Not To Love You
Nickelback Lyrics


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You call to me, and I fall at your feet
How could anyone ask for more?
And our time apart, like knives in my heart
How could anyone ask for more?

But if there's a pill to help me forget,
God knows I haven't found it yet
But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to

'Cause trying not to love you, only goes so far
Trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
'Cause trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more
Only makes me love you more

And this kind of pain, only time takes away
That's why it's harder to let you go
And nothing I can do, without thinking of you
That's why it's harder to let you go
But if there's a pill to help me forget,
God knows I haven't found it yet
But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to

It's trying not to love you, only goes so far
Trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
'Cause trying not to love you
Only makes me love you more

So I sit here divided, just talking to myself
Was it something that I did?
Was there somebody else?
When a voice from behind me, that was fighting back tears
Sat right down beside me, and whispered right in my ear
Tonight I'm dying to tell you

That trying not to love you, only went so far
Trying not to need you, was tearing me apart
Now I see the silver lining, of what we're fighting for
And if we just keep on trying, we could be much more
'Cause trying not to love you
Oh, yeah, trying not to love you




Only makes me love you more
Only makes me love you more

Overall Meaning

Nickelback's song "Trying Not To Love You" is a heart wrenching ballad that explores the difficulties of trying to move on after a lost love. The opening lyrics "You call to me, and I fall at your feet How could anyone ask for more?" beautifully convey how the singer feels completely helpless in the presence of their former lover. Despite being apart, the memory of their love still cuts deep like "knives in my heart." The singer is in so much pain that they wish for a pill to make them forget, but even that seems hopeless.


The chorus of the song brings to light the futility in trying to suppress love. Trying not to love someone that you once did is like trying to tread water - it can only last so long. The pain of not being with the one you love eventually starts to tear you apart. As the singer tries to make sense of their feelings, they are approached by someone who has been watching them all along. This person sees that the singer is struggling and they take it upon themselves to share their own experience with lost love. The realization hits them that trying not to love someone only makes the love grow stronger.


This song is a testament to Nickelback's ability to capture the raw emotion of love in their music. It is a universal theme that many people can relate to, and the lyrics perfectly capture the feeling of longing, pain and desperation that comes with trying to move on. It teaches us that trying to hold back love only makes it stronger and that sometimes the only way to find peace is to embrace the pain and let love happen.


Line by Line Meaning

You call to me, and I fall at your feet
Your presence is irresistible and I cannot help but be drawn to you


How could anyone ask for more?
You are everything I want and need, and more


And our time apart, like knives in my heart
The pain of being away from you feels like a physical wound


But if there's a pill to help me forget, God knows I haven't found it yet
I wish I could forget you, but there is no easy solution


But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to
I am willing to do anything to ease the pain of loving you


'Cause trying not to love you, only goes so far
Despite my best efforts, I cannot resist my feelings for you


Trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
My desire for you is causing me great emotional pain


Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
I cannot see anything positive in this situation from my current low point


And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
I am putting in effort, but I am unsure of what I am striving towards


'Cause trying not to love you / Only makes me love you more
The more I try to resist my feelings for you, the stronger they become


And this kind of pain, only time takes away
Only the passage of time can heal the pain caused by loving you


That's why it's harder to let you go
It is difficult to move on from you while still in pain


And nothing I can do, without thinking of you
You are always on my mind and nothing can change that


It's trying not to love you, only goes so far
My endeavors to suppress my feelings for you are not completely effective


Can't see the silver lining, from down here on the floor
I am currently in a negative state and cannot see any positivity


And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
I am putting in effort, but I am unsure of what I am striving towards


'Cause trying not to love you / Only makes me love you more
The more I try to resist my feelings for you, the stronger they become


So I sit here divided, just talking to myself
I am conflicted and talking to myself to try and understand my emotions


Was it something that I did? Was there somebody else?
I am trying to figure out why you are causing me so much pain


When a voice from behind me, that was fighting back tears
Someone who is also struggling with emotions is addressing me


Sat right down beside me, and whispered right in my ear
They are physically close and addressing my emotions intimately


Tonight I'm dying to tell you
I need to confess something to you, despite the pain it may cause


That trying not to love you, only went so far
My efforts to suppress my feelings for you only got me so far


Now I see the silver lining, of what we're fighting for
I now understand the positive reasons behind our struggles


And if we just keep on trying, we could be much more
If we continue to work through our struggles, we can have a strong and meaningful relationship


'Cause trying not to love you / Oh, yeah, trying not to love you / Only makes me love you more
The more I try to resist my feelings for you, the stronger they become




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BRAD DOUGLAS WARREN, BRETT DANIEL WARREN, CHAD TURTON, RYAN ANTHONY PEAKE

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Lyrics:

You call to me, and I fall at your feet
Você me chama, e eu caio aos seus pés

How could anyone ask for more?
Como alguém poderia pedir por mais?

And our time apart's like knives in my heart
E o tempo que passamos separados são como facas em meu coração

How could anyone ask for more?
Como alguém poderia pedir por mais?


But if there's a pill to help me forget
Mas se existe uma pílula para me ajudar a esquecer

God knows I haven't found it yet
Deus sabe que eu ainda não a encontrei

But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to
Mas eu estou morrendo de vontade, Deus eu estou tentando


Trying not to love you, only goes so far
Tentar não te amar, é o máximo que consigo fazer

Trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Tentar não precisar de você está acabando comigo

Can't see the silver lining, down here on the floor
Não consigo ver o lado bom, daqui no chão

And I just keep on trying, but I don't know what for
E eu só continuo tentando, mas eu não sei para quê

'Cause trying not to love you
Porque tentar não te amar

Only makes me love you more
Só me faz te amar mais

Only makes me love you more
Só me faz te amar mais


And this kind of pain, only time takes away
E esse tipo de dor, apenas o tempo leva embora

That's why it's harder to let you go
Por isso é tão difícil deixar você ir

And nothing I can do, without thinking of you
E não posso fazer nada sem pensar em você

That's why it's harder to let you go
Por isso é tão difícil deixar você ir


But if there's a pill to help me forget
Mas se existe uma pílula para me ajudar a esquecer

God knows I haven't found it yet
Deus sabe que eu ainda não a encontrei

But I'm dying to, God I'm trying to
Mas eu estou morrendo de vontade, Deus eu estou tentando


Trying not to love you, only goes so far
Tentar não te amar, é o máximo que consigo fazer

Trying not to need you, is tearing me apart
Tentar não precisar de você está acabando comigo

Can't see the silver lining, down here on the floor
Não consigo ver o lado bom, daqui no chão

And I just keep on trying,but I don't know what for
E eu continuo tentando, mas eu não sei para quê

'Cause trying not to love you
Porque tentar não te amar

Only makes me love you more
Só me faz te amar mais


So I sit here divided, just talking to myself
Então me sento aqui dividido, falando comigo mesmo

Was it something that I did?
Foi algo que eu fiz?

Was there somebody else?
Tinha outra pessoa?

When a voice from behind me,that was fighting back tears
Quando uma voz atrás de mim, que estava lutando contra as lágrimas

Sat right down beside me, whispered in my ear
Sentou-se ao meu lado e sussurrou no meu ouvido

Tonight I'm dying to tell you
Esta noite estou morrendo pra te dizer


Trying not to love you, only went so far
Que tentar não te amar, foi o máximo que consegui fazer

Trying not to need you, was tearing me apart
Tentar não precisar de você, estava acabando comigo

Now I see the silver lining,what we're fighting for
Agora eu vejo o lado bom, pelo que estamos lutando

And if we just keep on trying, we could be much more
E se continuarmos tentando poderíamos ser muito mais

'Cause trying not to love you
Porque tentar não te amar

Ohhh! Trying not to love you
Ohhh! Tentar não te amar

Only makes me love you more
Só me faz te amar mais

Only makes me love you more
Só me faz te amar mais



All comments from YouTube:

@chadissmexyyeah

I don't understand why this band gets so much hate. Their songs are awesome.

@zombietch97

to true. I think its cuz people are so use to lies and imitating they can't see the real things in life until they stop believing and following trends to fitting an image to be "cool" and they suffer

@grebo121

..ew, that's nickelback... sorry, my mistake.

@chadissmexyyeah

grebo121 They get plenty of hate just take a look at the comments below.

@chadissmexyyeah

Charlie Scene I can name about 10 bands where a lot of their songs sound similar. One example being, Maroon 5. That doesn't take away from the lyrics and the quality of the song.

@Digitizeddragon

+chadissmexyyeah I think that you answered your own question. I love these guys.

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@willbrien9638

Is it just me or does this song hit different when you love someone you shouldn’t

@rca-559

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Josh-em6ml

It definitely does Mines a very complicated situation so it hits hard

@graysonblair2916

It’s a fact brother. Loving someone who doesn’t return the feelings you have is the hardest thing to get through alone.

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